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Ofelia
Offline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
So,after a few unsuccessful and strange coffee dates,I kind of feel that I need to be a bit more clear on a few things...so here they are:I am 5'7...not 5'9 or 5'10.So,if we meet and we are looking eye to eye at each other,then you clearly have a misconception of your height.Please do not put on your profile that you are 4 to 8 inches taller than you actually are.Women will actually notice the difference when we meet you...we're smart like that!I put on my profile that I have some extra pounds.Yes,I have curves and no,I am not afraid to order more than a piece of lettuce and a glass of distilled water when I go out for supper.When and if we talk on the phone and I ask if your pics are current,please do not say..."yeah,they are fairly recent",if they are not.Again,women will notice this when you show up looking 15 years older than your most "recent pic".If you think that your "winning" personality will entice me to stay for the duration of a large Timmies coffee even though I have noticed that the height and the real you are not quite matching up to your profile,then you're wrong.All you've done at this point is make me regret showering,doing my hair/makeup and putting in a bit of effort to look nice for you.I believe that if you try to start the friendship,etc with lies,it's all going to go warp speed downhill from there.I am very clear in the fact that I am looking for a long term relationship.Please don't waste my time if you're not looking for the same thing and I won't waste yours..If you don't live within an hour of Calgary,then please don't bother contacting me as I probably won't drive 4 hours to meet you for a coffee...gas is far too expensive to be doing that! :)If you have kids,great!As long as there is no crazy ex wife that comes with them,then I have no problem with that.If you are just trying to see how many notches you can put on your bedpost,then good luck with that...you are looking in the wrong direction!!!!Not looking for a man who`s into dating more than 1 woman at a time.If you find someone that you think you might have a connection with,then at least give it a few dates before you decide to move on.No decent woman is ever going to consider making you a priority in her life if she doesn't think that you will do the same for her...just my opinion!Not looking for a 1 night stand!!Not looking for any drama or bulls**t....been there,done that,won't do it again.If/when we meet for a coffee/drinks,if you feel that I might not be the one for you,then at least have the balls to say so.Don't give me a hug and say"I'll call you,this was fun"if you have no intention of doing so.I'm quite capable of handling the truth and will continue in my search for the right one,just as quickly as you will.Please don't add me as a favorite if you have no intention of making contact...kinda defeats the purpose of being on here,doesn't it!?Thanks for letting me vent...I feel much better now! :)What I am looking for is a man who has morals,a great(but slightly warped)sense of haha,values a good relationship,puts family and friends above everything else.My family means the world to me and I have some amazing friends,but I am tired of always being the 3rd wheel.I miss having date nights with a spouse,spending a night curled up on the couch watching movies,slow dancing in the kitchen while cooking together,hopping in the car for a road trip to anywhere,having someone to come home to and share how our days were.Not sure if I`ll find someone compatible on here or not,but I guess I can't really keep complaining about being single if I'm not doing anything to change it.I hope you all find what you're searching for!! I think that a first date should just be meeting for a coffee or a drink.It's alot of pressure for people to meet for a dinner in a restaurant.If it doesn't go well,the man's usually pissed off that he bought dinner and the woman is pissed off that she got all dressed up for nothing,lol.
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Nelda
Online
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I love the outdoors, I like camping, hiking, some fishing, a little hunting, love boating, absolutely love being in the Sun, I like to listen to live music, dance, bonfires, riding motorcycles, four wheelers , cooking out , cuddling, watching good movies, and spending time with my son . and there's a lot more I just can't think of all of them right now.
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Celina
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
Oh yes...the good ol' profile that we all struggle with. It shouldn't be so hard...just state the facts and what you are looking for right? Right! Me: I am a funny very outgoing person who enjoys all kinds of people. I like happy, positive people who make me laugh. I come from a large family and love the get togethers. I have a strong passion to cook...I am a foodie at large and my best times are in the kitchen, creating! I like all kinds of music....country music makes me kick up my heels....I have to admit. I am healthy and strong and know that I don't look my age. Good European genes I'de say!!I am a creative person, so creative that I have developed a beautiful job that allows me to share my talent amongst others and create jobs for my fellow teamworkers. I have been enjoying this for the past 17 years. I own my own home, I even have the joy of owning a classic car.....doesn't make me a wrench, but I can change the oil in her! My friends would describe me as an honest, trustworthy, intelligent, passionate, caring and loving person who is committed to whatever I touch or do. I am fiercely independent and embrace all challenges. I can fix, paint, and do most things around the house....heck....I just *** switches in my home! I'de say I'm a pretty cool chick who is young at heart and who takes care of herself. I can be classy and elegant one moment.....then can turn around and sit at the bonfire roasting marshmallows with you the next. I have integrity and smarts and am not a materialistic person....never owned a Prada, Gucci or Coach handbag....I'm not into labels or brands. So...please have your stuff together, I'm not into fixing, repairing or sorting out your old baggage. Life's too short for that nonsence. I am ready to move forward with that special one who makes me blush, who smells great and takes care of himself too. I would like to embrace a healthy relationship and all the sparkle and wonder that it can offer. I believe in love, I believe in those butterfly feelings....and I am ready to embrace that. I am not interested in smokers or heavy drinkers, nor boys that still live with their exes or mommas. I will also not reply to anyone that doesn't provide a picture....so don't bother adding me as a favorite either. Okay....let's see where this goes...... Life is short....so why bother with a boring first date. You know we're going to be chatting and getting to know eachother for quite a bit first.....so let our date be anything but a coffee meet.