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Rae, 46

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About Me

Well, time for a re-write(Dec 27, ***, here goes … Friends have described me as being compassionate, intelligent and funny (in my own unique way)! I also can't forget the word, curious. I like to ask questions and lots of them. Like most people I am multifaceted and different people bring out different aspects of my personality. I’m looking for someone with a positive energy … negativity is no fun. I believe that I'm articulate (although writing this is pretty challenging) and easy to get along with. I believe in the progression of relationships and love the initial "high" of connecting with someone. I am not in any rush and believe that "good things come to those who wait". Mutual matches, favourites, user searches; are you tired of dealing with all of these? So am I. So, what do you think, do you fit the “tab”? What I seek in a man is what I seek for myself; someone who is always evolving and improving the mind, body and spirit. Just an aside, if you can't spell or if you have any type of smell (other than something awesome) it just won't work, you are not for me. I must comment on the "I am looking for statement", for me " a relationship". What does this mean for me? This is the middle of the road option, according to meetville anyhow. It means getting to know someone and forming something unique, a relationship which could mean dating, a friendship, or something exclusive. All of these are attractive to me. I will share, that I recently lost my boyfriend of four years unexpectedly and so I am admittedly grieving, losing such a wonderful man. So why are you on here you ask? "Hope" and because there is no "correct" way to grieve, according to the Mourner's Bill of Rights. Another relevant comment is that as much as I enjoy spending time with others, I also like my alone time. I am telling you this because my first commitment is to myself and my semi-adult boys. With these in balance, I can “be with you” , when I’m with you. Children are my passion and have been the focus of my career thus far. I love kids from both a career and a personal perspective. Education is important to me. I am most compatible with like- minded professionals . PS I'm not interested in long distance relationships. Looking for someone living in the GTA and preferably max of 20 km from me. Also a picture is essential (NOT ONE WITH SUNGLASSES, either! ) If I can't see you, then I don't want to know you!! My life has been impacted by addiction in loved ones. PLEASE, IF YOU SMOKE ANYTHING, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME.For those who do contact me, who I don’t respond to (and or remove from my favourite list), please do not take it personally. You are beautiful in your own way, just not for me! I wish you all the best. It will be whatever we think would be right for us

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anne

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Life is like a camera, just focus on what's important, capture the good times, develop from the negatives and if things don't turn out - take another shot! Eventually all of the pieces will fall into place. Until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything happens for a reason.. In a sea of people, my eyes will always search for you ! I am a "hopeless romantic". I like to be romanced with sweet simple things and the thoughtful, amazing surprises. I dream of being loved, but also of loving somebody. I just don't want someone to hold me, but I also want to hold someone.I realize that love isn't just one person, but two people. For the most part I love the outdoors. I enjoy going to the lake, camping, fishing, boating, swimming, cookouts, taking walks (even in the rain ), sitting around a campfire, laying on a blanket under a starry sky, going to the zoo, going to the movies, going out to eat, and I love sports of all sorts. I'm a big Ku basketball fan, I love hockey,I can even watch football! Lol! Love watching the winter Olypics, ice skating, but my biggest passion is for dirt track racing, ( no, men, I'm not afraid of getting dirty! ) I was raised out at the track, it was like a second home for me, as my dad used to race.It was always a family affair. I now have a brother, that is carrying out my dad's legacy, who races. Racing is a big part of my life! Don't worry, because if you don't like racing, i'll get you hooked. I find that to be a great challenge!.Another passion of mine is photography. I love to capture the beauty that surrounds us everyday..As the eyes are windows to our souls, so too is the lens to my camera. To know me, one only needs to look at my photos, as they reflect who I am as a person. I love to go hiking on the mountain trails,and it gives me the opportunity to use my camera by doing a lot of sight-seeing. What I hope to find on my journey is that "special" someone;the one that can make me feel loved and worthy of love,wants to share life's adventures,, one that I can share my innermost secrets with, one that can be a loving, supportive friend to me, and is willing to to help carry life's burdens. I long to share the intamacy from the heart, and I hope that "special one" would too. Most of all , I just want someone that's willing, and interested in opening the bottle, to be surrounded and enveloped in the love that flows from my heart. I hope to find someone that can be, honest , loyal, caring, understanding ,has the ability to make me laugh!, and has some common interests.Thanks for veiwing my profile, and good luck on your search for that "special one'. : )

  • Rena

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a widow and mother of two great older children, realizing you only live once and that you should enjoy every moment as life is so precious. It's time now to take care of me.I am a fun person who will try anything once (within reason) and enjoys staying active. Enjoy going out and playing sports but also just staying home watching a movie or having friends over. just getting to know you

  • Bertie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Single, fun-loving, easy going women looking for that guy to make her go "wow". Like to go out, travel and try new things when opportunities are there. I am low maintenance, no drama, honest, self-sufficient and love to cuddle. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I suck at those "dating" rules - if I like you and we hit it off why should it really matter when I call you? I appreciate the little things like a text just to say hi, opening doors, your arm around me, a hug just because - those type of things. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I would rather have honesty and hurt feelings than deception or dishonesty. I try to find the positive in life - I want to be happy - I refuse to be bitter or resentful - life is too short for that. I want a friend, confidant, lover, partner in crime and my rock when life gets tough. Basically looking for all those things everyone else is.ps. recently discovered i am a harley girl at heart! better late than never lol! A little more of the basics -- lol!), likes animals, can cook pretty well, and I have a few more unexpected surprises....you will have to get to know me to find out! ;) Good Luck!!PS. I take people at face value...if you tell me something I believe you although I don't believe I am gulliable - I just have true belief in honesty. So I guess this is an open door for some to take advantage usually at the expense of my feelings but hope that in the end it will find me happiness. hugs! :) I like to do just about anything. I think it is more about spending time together than being entertained.

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