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Lila, 47

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About Me

I am a single mom of three sons...two being grown and gone. I love life and feel like I am living life for the first time in 26 yrs. I am a mommy of a 5yr old son so he is part of my package. Don't bother me if this bothers you. I don't believe in wearing masks. What you see with me is what you get! I don't want there to be any surprises, so you need to know that I am NOT Miss America nor am I BARBIE..I have a few xtra pounds on me that i am working really hard to get rid of...so don't judge me. I'm a plus size woman and its something I have come to terms with. I'm a christian and I go to church. I love music of all sorts. I work for a radio station so it tends to run through my veins. My goal is to make sure that my third son turns out to be the great man that my other sons have turned out to be. I have to warn you that I love to dance, too. It's great exercise and it makes my heart smile. I'm a little stand offish at first, but you will like me once you get to know me. I'm usually the life of the party. I absolutely LOVE to laugh. I'm willing to take a chance if you are.Let me conclude by saying that there is nothing about me that is hateful or rude. I do believe that since I have a photo on here, it's only fair that you do too. I will not respond to those without photos and to anyone that is the same ages as my older sons...so please just stop right there and don't even try to go there.I have been a mom most of my life (started at ***so don't be scared of me if you have kiddos of your own. I'm not a "one night stander" type of gal. Don't crucify me for having my dad's old fashion ways. I enjoy a good drink and a good concert. Did I mention that I'm just enjoying life right now because it's pretty great. Holler at me and maybe we can talk.Thanks for stopping by my profile today. The thought of a first date makes me nervous. It's been a while since I have had a DATE. I was married 23yrs, so this will be different. Not really sure how to have a first date. What is it that people do nowadays? LOL. I like to shoot pool and I absolutely love to dance!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Keri

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love my life and want someone to be a part of my happiness. I have a great family, many friends and enjoy entertaining both. I have a house, a pool, a nice car and love to travel. I am very independent but am open to someone coming into my life. I work a lot but I like to play a lot so I have to make the money for my lifestyle. I enjoy lots of different things from kayaking, hiking, boating, cook outs at my house, gardening, cooking, good wine, walking my dog, playing with my cats, dinning out, listening to music, body pump and body flow workouts, driving in my convertible, the list goes on. I love the beach and to travel to interesting places. I am a family orientated person and hope that the person I date also is close to his family. I am tired of drama and crazy people in my life so I am careful about people I let in. I just really want to be happy and comfortable with the person I end up with. I would love to visit a winery, go to a haunted house, go to dinner. I like lots of different things so I am up for whatever.

  • Lindsey

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love to spend time with family and friends, go dancing, play volleyball and most water activities. I don't have children but would like to have a family of my own someday. I work in Human Resources but have a side job dealing cards . . . legally! I'm a Republican and try to keep up with politics and world events. I cannot date a smoker. I'm active in church but I'm not a holy roller.I don't date outside my race. Some call that racial prejudice. I call it racial pride. If more people had it, there would be a lot less tension.If you drink alcohol daily, you're not the guy for me. If you can't drink an alcoholic beverage without stopping before you're drunk, you're not the guy for me. Been there, done that.P.S. If you're interested in continuing the conversation, ask a question. If you simply respond to my question and don't prompt me for a response, I'm going to assume you're nice but trying to brush me off. Also, if you don't initiate a meeting within a few weeks, I'll think you're just stringing me along until something better comes along and I'll start focusing my attention elsewhere. I think lunch/dinner or coffee/drinks are great for a first date, allowing each to get to know the other in a casual setting.

  • Susan

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hoping to find someone who can keep my smile going, become my protector, best friend and ultimately my lover in a committed relationship.Happy Fishing To All DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:1. you are "separated" and live with your wife/girlfriend/mother2. have no intentions of meeting3. NO PIC, NO CHATTINGWhat is it with the hiding of your profile?If I dont respond, I apologize, you are probably not what I am looking for. First meetings are awkward...coffee/teapeople watching on a patio

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