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Rita, 46
United States, Maryland, Salisbury

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About Me

i like to spend time with my family and cook outs.like going on long drives,enjoy the beach. i have a beautiful daughter and granddaughter who are my world,i spend a lot of time with them so you have to be able to deal with that if not then don't waste either one of our time..i love to go out to dinner ,the movies outdoor activities i am very out going have a great heart, great sense of humor,etc...looking to meet someone i can hang out with have some laughs,go places together and enjoy each others company,and see where it might lead.i am looking for relationship my best friend the one and only one i can share everything with it will take someone very special to win my heart,so if your up for the challenge and think you can handle a independent woman you could be the one LOL. i didn't realize how hard it was to find someone that is even half of what i am looking for,but i know he is out there some where,that will except me for who i am i don't pretend to be something i am not.i love kids and animals.i have a beautiful 4 year old grand daughter who i spend as much time with as i can.i am so ready to start a life and adventure with someone special.Life is way too short,believe me i know,so i will not settle for less.i am not perfect so i don't expect you to be either,i want respect and honesty for that is what you will get from me.I am a very faithful person and give my all in a relationship,i love to pay lots of attention to my man.i don't take life for granted,i was diagnosed with stage three Melanoma (skin cancer)in ***had two operations due to it did spread but thankfully not to main organs,i have been blessed with life and new beginnings,life is way too short,it has been a long year and a half but through all the pain and the chemo i was determined to make it through and i did i am a Survivor.So i am finally in a place where i know what i want and what i will and not put up with,i think i am a good person and deserve to be happy and share my life with that special someone.i am starting to have that big smile again,i am still dealing with the scars,which i am sure in time i will except them,because they will be there for ever,but i am here so they are my survivor scars that saved my life.....Let my new life begin...FYI i am not looking to jump right into a relationship,but if i meet someone and that is where it leads then great.i am in a good place now where i am ready to date again. my ideal of a first date is to make it as relaxing and not so stressful.maybe out for coffee or a drink,walk in the park just trying to get to know one another.i just like to enjoy myself and i can usually have fun with any situation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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