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I need to be able to refill my depleted reserves. I enjoy any activity around the water. Even my favorite vacation is cruising. Just give me my Kindle, iPod, some sun and water and I am good to go. IT was my goal this summer to have a killer tan and i succeeded!!! I may not be great at fishing but I have no problem relaxing quietly while some one else enjoys the sport. If I knew how to dance I might enjoy music more, but I do like listening to live bands. I enjoy having someone to share my life and expose me to new things. I recently got custody of my 17 year old godson and am a parent for the first time in my life. He's showing me a more active lifestyle. No longer the quiet book worm I tried to be. Its been fun, but no teenager wants to hang around with a parent all the time, right? I would like to find a partner in life. Someone to share my experiences with, good and bad. I don't need someone to fix things or try to make it all better. I am way too independent to go for that. I want someone to bounce ideas off of and tell me when I could be making a better choice, but not force me into it.I like to try new and different things. I actually got my para-plane license when I was younger. I love to fly! The feeling of being up in the air with nothing coming at you... incredible. My favorite movie is Titanic, for the history of it all, not the romance. I have been a Titanic buff since a kid. I have books and artifacts that I treasure. Then again I like history period. My favorite memories as a kid involve traveling around the country seeing battlefields, museums, historic monuments. If you want to to hear more feel free to contact me, if not... have a wonderful life! Open for discussion. I will try most things at least once.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rene

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    ok i am very single & also selective about who i date. they must have a job sense of humor & time to get to know the real me. i dont have kids or really anything that takes up my time except work. im not religious at all either. I very rarely drink & only on special occasions & if someone else is driving. I dont want no broke man with no car. I also like to go out but not every night. i work very early so dont have too much free time during the week. weekends are the best time for me to hang out. Im not into jealous men or men who think they are all that. snobbish men are not attractive to me but pls be comfortable in ur own skin. im very into 80s music concerts bowling pool dinning out muscle cars scary movies etc. PLEASE dont bother me if u arent local or have a pic. thnx & good luck fishing! btw> i dont date blk men either but good luck.BTW dont add me to your favorites & not even say hello! I always meet in a public place & not a bar since i dont drink> maybe a quick dinner date or shoot some pool. do not ask me to come to your house to meet you or vice versa!

  • Lynnette

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I enjoy surprises in. life and doing things on the spur of the moment. I am quick witted and have a funny sense of humor. Not offended my someones sarcasm. I am a responsible caring person who has goals and is driven. I have a young child that comes first so you must be able to understand that. My schedule definately does leave room for some adult fun. I love my job as an educator and look forward everyday to being with the kids. I am lucky enough to be able to take a leave of absence from my job starting in January ***and go back to school full time. I appreciate honesty in a relationship and I will give the same. Keep the communication open. I have an open mind to most things and need to be able to think for myself in a relationship. I have close friends that I make time for and I think it is important when in a relationship to have a "life" outside of that too. I love being with someone who can make me laugh and has a loyalty to family. I love affection in a relationship and I also love giving affection. Please say what you mean and mean what you say. If your profile says you are seeking a relationship then I hope that is the case. And do you really understand that dating means actually going out in public and doing things togetheMy family is very important to me and I make time for them whenever possible.I am silly and love to laugh. My favorite time of the day is morning and figuring out what the day will bring. I like to watch movies, go to concerts, dance, listen to music, take long walks, cook together, taking short trips, shopping, and doing nothing. I do exercise and go to the gym, but I get there about 2x a week. I have to admit one of my bad habits is put in a movie at home and I will fall fast asleep. I don't know why because I tend to stay up late. Meet for a beer, coffee, Lunch, ice cream. Something casual

  • Constance

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hey!!!! Thank you for reading my profile. First of all I just would like to ask that if you are looking for a booty call, sexting buddy or friend with benefits please just pass me by. I like to do many things. Cook, read, watch movies, stay in and veg out on the couch, dance.......! Too many things really to put in a couple of paragraphs. I love to laugh and smile. I am looking for a man that is first and foremost a gentleman. I like having my door opened for me or my chair pulled out (no, not so you can see me fall on the floor and we have one big laugh. LOL). If a man treats me as he would want his momma and sister to be treated then he's scored some brownie points with me. Of course, I would treat my man with the same respect and love. I don't mind having to get dressed up or dressing slouchy, my man needs to be able to do the same. I have a working car and will travel to see you, but please give me the same respect. I am low maintenance and not a needy kind of person, but if you want to spoil me then you won't get any argument out of me LOL. I am an affectionate kind of person. I like holding hands and kissing. It doesn't matter if it's in public or not. Not sure what else to write. I guess we can talk and see what happens. No expectations. Low key and casual. Drinks, good conversation and hopefully bunches of laughs.

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