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Deirdre, 49
United States, Florida, Stuart

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a down to earth lady, that loves my kids and grand kids, the country life, all kinds of music, the water, my horse, dining out, grilling, gardening, sitting by a fire, or relaxing on the couch with a good movie. I'm 47 years old, and not in High School, so not into playing games. Won't last long if you are!!! I am looking for a REAL man and a REAL relationship, not a hook up or someone that is cheating on a wife or a Girlfriend, it's not fair to them or to me. You wouldn't like it happening to you. Won't take me long to figure it out!!!I have kids and grand kids and that will never change....So if you aren't active in your child(rens) lives, or if you do not have children we probably shouldn't meet. I find it hard to date someone that doesn't understand what its like having kids around all the time. I find it even harder to understand why you wouldn't want to be around them. I do NOT want to be chat buddies. I have plenty of those. If you aren't man enough to ask a lady out, then why are you on here in the first place? Most important, lets not waste each others time. I am NOT interested if you don't have a car. If you DON'T smoke or have a problem with me smoking.......it probably won't work. I will quit when I'm ready.I am independent, I support myself and I'm NOT about to support anybody else. If you haven't done something with your life and think I will spend all of my hard earned money, think again. I have children, myself, and my future to think about. So if you don't have a job, that won't work....I like to do things with the person I'm with.I am NOT a barbie doll....So if that's what you are looking for, I'm NOT her. I'm a Blue jeans/hoodie/T-shirt, shorts/flip flop type of girl. And I wear work boots and carhardt's to my job. I can dress-up well, but prefer to be comfortable and only dress up when the time calls for it. I don't mind getting dirty, or freak out that I'm going to break a nail....OMG.....the shop up the street can fix that if I do. I love putting on my mudder's to go out and play with my horse.....they have become a fixture in the trunk of my car. So I guess you could say, I have a lot of Tom Boy in me with a feminine side. I am a animal LOVER.....Any kind of animal. I don't mind them in the home, but that's only if you take care of them and they haven't taken over. I work with mine everyday. If I could bring my horse inside in the winter, I would.I LOVE food. I can and will eat more then most men. So don't think that if we go out, I'm gonna order something light. I'm eating. At ***lbs, I don't think I'll get fat!!!! My job makes sure I lift enough weights and do as much walking as possible, so I'm not working out either. I am who I AM, and won't change that for anyone except myself and my family. I like to have fun and joke around, so if acting goofy from time to time doesn't appeal to you, then we don't need to talk. Can't stand someone that is a stiff. I can and will however be very serious when it is called for, but like it says.....I'm a laid back girl. I don't stress to much about the silly stuff life has to offer. Life is too short and You adapt and overcome.....and Life goes on!!Ok.....I think that about covers it. THANKS FOR GETTING THIS FAR, I MUST HAVE HAD YOU INTRIGUED. :-) HAPPY FISHING!!!!! AND GOOD LUCKThis is me, and I approve this message!!! LMAO :-) Coffee, breakfast, lunch, dinner...........

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