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Deirdre, 49

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they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Billie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am always a glass half full. I am energetic and love to enjoy the moment. Looking for someone who likes fun and being outdoors and an active lifestyle. i am an honest no nonsense kind of girl that really isn't into the game playing thing. Don't quit understand this question so someone will have to explain it to me

  • Rosalinda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very down to earth person. I like to see things in a positive light. Anything is possible in life if you want it bad enough. We all create our own reality. My son is a very important part of my life and is my first priority. I work out ***times a week and try to eat healthy most of the time but I am not a fanatic about it. I love to be healthy and fit. I love nature and all it has to offer. I love looking up at the stars and moon and watching a beautiful sunset. My goal in life is to be happy and joyful! I'm very thankful for my career because it allows me to provide for myself and my son. I love to laugh and I love to make other people laugh. A good sense of humor is very important to me. I enjoy many different types of music. It all depends on what I'm in the mood to listen to and what the occasion is.Looking for a cool, down to earth, real guy. Someone who is genuine, honest and light hearted. Someone who can appreciate the fact that I'm a mom first and doesn't hold that against me. But most of all I'm looking for that spark, that connection that's undeniable. First date should be extremely casual. A cup of coffee or a drink. No pressure. Just long enough to know if there's a reason to have a second date.

  • Krista

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Im definitely a go-with-the-flow, low maintenance kinda gal just looking for a nice, normal guy... But after being out of the dating world for many years, I am discovering that "normal" appears to be an extremely relative term...is it just me??My friends will tell you I'm warm, caring, fun loving, and the sweetest person they know. I also have a wicked sarcastic sense of humor (hellooo, I work with middle schoolers all day!) and often chase squirrels in conversation (think you can keep up?) Don't mistake sweet for stupid, though. I just choose to spend my time with my glass half full. I have 3 amazing kids (23, 21, &18), but my nest is empty as they are each off beginning their own life adventures. I love my job as a middle school administrator and hope to find someone equally passionate about his career. I love to sing. I actually sang with a local rock band not long ago, and still love to go out and support my band friends a couple times a month. I also love to dance, watch movies, take long drives, play darts/pool/board games/cards, and just enjoy the people I am with. I don't even mind watching sports (truth be told, I dig football--Go Texans and Gig 'Em Aggies!!!) If you think we might have something in common, I'd love to hear from you. Even if there's no spark, it is still fun having a witty conversation and possibly making a new friend over a cup of coffee or glass of wine.

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