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Deirdre, 49

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eleanor

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a caring person, who loves to have fun and can be serious at times. I'd like to have someone I can talk to who can make me smile and I can make him smile. I like someone who cares about other people's feelings as well as his own. I want someone who is genuine and not fake. I also love a man who can actually kiss and doesn't mind showing affection in public , a man who can like me for me. I love old school. I enjoy traveling out of the country when I take a vacation , I enjoy going to concerts, plays and sporting events. I enjoy reading dramas , romance and self help books. I love helping older people. My kids are my pride and joy.

  • Ora

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello all...I have been on this site for several months now and i am not sure this whole online thing is for me. I believe a relationship has to be built from trust and honesty and MUST start out as friends and go from there. I am a honest, sincere, fun, caring, person who is looking for the same in a man. I have 2 grown boys ages 23 and 25 who are and will always be number 1 in my life. I am very independent, i work 2 jobs therefore im not looking for someone to take care of me, but i will also not take care of u...please, if u do not have 1 job, dont waste ur time *** I have also found that alot of u are looking for a sexual relationship only, again dont waste ur time. I will not talk to u on the phone one day and invite u to my home the next...that is just not me. Its ashame to say, but out of the hundreds of *** have received only 2 of u actually had jobs and were interested in getting to know me *** jumping in the sack. Also, if u dont have a pic please dont *** interested in dating someone who isnt who they say they are or has something to hide.Also..one last thing I must add, and this is usually the ball breaker but unfortunately in the world we live in today, i trust no one..not saying there isnt trustworthy ppl in the world, but u have to earn my trust..i no longer just hand it out like the state hands out foodstamps.Now, if u've made it this far maybe u are someone that would be interesting to me..so a little about me now..Im a very forward person..i do speak my mind..I love football and hockey, love to fish, camp, shoot handguns, take walks, love horses, playing pool and darts, listening to live bands, riding quads, anything outdoors. I like most music..except rap..can listen to some country but not my fav...prefer classic rock and some heavy metal.Well if u would like to know more just ask. We will decide on that if u make it that far

  • Kelli

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a person that is always on the go,I love nascar and love attending as many races as possible every year and love going to the beach. I love working in my yard planting flowers ,mulching and even mowing the grass. I also love the sun and absoulutly hate being cold.I love going to the movies whenever I get a chance. I would like to find someone who likes the same things I do so we can do them together.I am currently going to school three days a week, trying to accomplish one of my dreams.As each day goes by I am one more step closer to achieving one of my dreams.Another important dream is finding that special friend that can share my dreams as well as I want to share his dreams together for the rest of our lives I want this to be the one I spend the rest of my life with.I love oldies music as well as the 70's and 80's music.I would like to add I am not a skinny girl , I recently put weight on going through some rough times and now trying to get back on track to healthy eating . My personal opinion and outlook is to like and love and accept people for their personality and how one treats me. Another way of putting it is don't judge the book by its cover it's the inside that really counts. Ps. I wanted to add one more thing no I'm not perfect and I do not expect a man to be perfect but guys you want women to kiss you how about maintaining your teeth so a woman would love to kiss you!

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