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Caitlin, 47

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About Me

Qualities I very much appreciate in a man: a sharp quick wit, brains, honest, open, goofy, sensual, spontaneous, adventurous, passionate, dorky, romantic, genuine, creative, intimate, good kisser (to me....it's subjective really), affectionate, thoughtful, self-aware (not to be confused with self conscious), a good communicator and integrity.....integrity.....integrity. I am unabashedly open and wear my heart on my sleeve....which at times, has been known to get me in to some trouble. You will always know where you stand with me and I will always speak my mind.....sometimes a curse, me thinks.I have been referred to as a "foodie" and am a pretty great cook. Huge fan of any kind of travel or road trips. Love live music but I'm more of an El Rey or Hotel Cafe girl than Staple Center. Enjoy going out to dinner and finding new cool places but also really love entertaining and cooking for people I adore. They don't seem to mind so much either.Big baseball fan (White Sox) and I also love hockey (Canucks).;the law". I know that everyone says this......but humor is KEY. I can not stress this enough. It is simply this. There is something so amazing about that organic, nonsensical banter you have with someone who gets you....and you them. You can't force it or create it.....it just happens. I tend to have a dry, sarcastic, sometimes inappropriate, racy sense of humor. I am of the opinion...and I don't think that I am alone here....that there are not many scenarios in which a good "that's what she said" joke would not be admissible. Also...if you are offended by the occasional curse word....we are probably not a match. It is sometimes part of my vernacular and I don't really see that changing any time soon. That said, I am a big proponent for "knowing your audience". In short...I will not sailor it up, in front of your Grandmother.I try to stay fairly healthy and active but I'm not obsessive about it. I live about ten blocks from the beach...so I spend a lot of time walking and bike riding down by the water. Honestly, I really can't imagine ever living too far from the ocean. While I do not affiliate myself with a specific religion...I am a very spiritual person and always searching to find my true and better self. I love music!...I mean I REALLY love it....all kinds.....it takes me places and inspires me more than I can say.Love to go anywhere I've never been and try anything I've never tried. Taught pre-school years ago but now I work in Film and TV (same mentality, different age group :)LOVE animals and have two rescue cats. On some days...they rescue me.I am a relatively drama free gal and I'd like to keep it that way. I'm open, honest, easy to talk to and pretty uncomplicated. Looking for the same. Although I love to dress up for the right occasion....I often still feel like a little girl wearing my mothers shoes. Except for the six inch heels that don't leave the bedroom....then I'm not thinking about my mother at all really :-)I look like my photos but feel it's only fair to warn you....I am the least photogenic person you have ever met. The good news is...it means I look better in person. However....any photos of us together in the future will surely be fodder for much sarcastic wise-crackiness....and I am up for the task. No one can laugh at me the way I can. I'm not really sure what all this means exactly....but....it's accurate.P.S. If we can make each other laugh.....I'm yours forever! Not a huge fan of the "coffee" date..ha...unless you wanna meet at 8am....maybe a glass of wine somewhere.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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