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Rebekah, 46

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I guess you could say I'm a complex country girl/ lady with a very open mind and a good moral compass? Or at least that is how I feel. Since there is no way to say i have long dark blonde hair on my profile, thought it might help a bit to know that. I wear it up in a pony tail or clip most of the time as it's just too hot!!! I've never been married & I don't have kids. But if you do, that's fantastic!!Just right up front, I've got about 30 lbs extra, that I'm working on getting rid of. I know a lot of guys won't check out past the exterior, but I've got a good heart & a lot of love to give for the right person. So give me a chance, you won't regret it.I'm not afraid to get dirty, prefer riding with the windows down, sunroof open & country music cranked!! LolAlso, I used to smoke & now I have an ecig. Just want to be up front about that as well. For some that may be a deal breaker. I do love baseball, go Rangers!! And I am a huge fan of the Spurs!!! Woohoo!!! I'm not a big fan of football, but I could handle watching it with the right person. I play APA pool,& have been playing pool on & off since I was 18. I miss dirt track racing, rodeos, & live sports. it's just not fun to go by myself, so hoping to find a partner in crime!! Also, yes I have long term listed, but I do know that it takes time to build a relationship, and that starts by dating. Communication is a must! the last serious relationship i was in lacked communication & a big dose of emotional abuse was dealt. Luckily enough I recognized it for what it was & kicked his butt to the curb!! All wounds leave scars, but it's what you do after the wounds heal that matters. There is still a lot more to tell but I've come to the point of writers block. Lol So lets get to dating & having fun!!!My dad taught me that men are supposed to be the pursuers. So, I do find it a bit difficult to be the one to send a first message.If a lady messages you & you're not interested, you aren't going to lead someone on by saying thank you, or you too! I'm sure you don't enjoy it when someone doesn't at least acknowledge you. We're all here to find someone, and a dose of common courtesy goes a long way in anybody's book.Will add more here soon. First meeting should be comfortable enough for both of us to decide whether we want a first date or not. First date ideas...? If you have 4 legged horsepower, I like to ride, whether it be 2 wheeled,4 legged, or shotgun next to you!! I used to have my own motorcycle, still have my license, but prefer to be riding with someone. So a nice ride to grab a bite to eat or a nice destination where we can talk & get to know each other. Maybe go bowling or Somewhere for some ski ball or Putt Putt. Coffee is good, dinner is nice. Let's enjoy ourselves and have some fun!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Doreen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm hoping three times is really a charm!! This is my third time on here since July. I've never been on longer then a few weeks. I just get too overwhelmed. Also I try not to be rude but to answer everyone gets very tedious. I WILL NOT move to the phone until after we chat for a bit to see if we have a good rapport. If you don't like,that then we wont work out. sorry.I love fast men and old cars oh no wait I mean old men and fast cars ummm wait....LOLI am a meat and potato girl and I have a potty mouth. So if you like little dainty quiet salad eating girls.... We won't work out. Sorry.!! You will always know where you stand with me. Love me or hate me!!!I am looking for a relationship, not a one night stand. I love to dance and I am a great dancer. If you can lead, I can follow. I love to listen to live music and if its outside even better. I like Jazz, blues, R&B, old Skool Rap and classic rock and roll.I love to travel and I've been all over Europe and a ton of islands and all over the US.I have a 14 year old daughter who lives with me full time. We are a package deal!!!!! I am not about the games my pictures are current as is my weight. I have a lot going on in my life right now so I am longing to be held by loving arms. Need a friend in my man too. No games, no players, no long hair long hair. NO PICTURE- No Reply!!!! I'd prefer to just meet for a drink first before anything more. If there is no physical or any other connections I don't want to waist either of our time!!!

  • Deirdre

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

  • Aperson2Hl

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    Woman. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-41

    Hi! My name is Aperson2Hl. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Stuart, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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