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Elaine, 46

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About Me

I am happy with who I am. It's not all about what is on the outside, the best is whats on the inside of a person. Yes, there does have to be some attraction I agree. I like a guy with some meat on his bones, yes more like the teddybear type. I want a great guy who wants to spend time getting to know one another and see where things go.I'm a divorced 46 yo woman looking for a good guy for friends to date with the possibility of a LTR and marriage someday if it comes to that. I know that all comes in time and understand it's not going to happen next week, next month or.... I Want someone who is honest, trustworthy, open and caring. I enjoy hugs, kisses(lots of them), PDA, cuddling, enjoy the little things in a relationship; those are what really count for me. Back rubs, foot rubs, or a massage of anykind.....Just a few things i enjoy recieving as well as doing for my partner in return. I have my own house....just want someone to help me make it a home and be my partner for life.Do you like to cook, or at least attempt it? I enjoy cooking and baking as well, would be fun making dinner or trying to make dinner together ;). I'm usually a little shy when I meet someone, but open up once we get comfy with one another. I enjoy going out and having fun, but I also enjoy staying in for the evening to. I'm sure we could find something to do at home. I want someone willing to put forth the effort to see one another if a connection is made! Enjoy spending time with family and friends, wether it be a BBQ, bonfire or just getting together for some laughs and a goodtime. NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL SEX!I may not be the most beautiful or sexiest, nor do I have the "perfect body". I might not be someones first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I'm not proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. "Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away" Why sit idly by and let life pass you by? Live life to the fullest!!Anything else you might want to know...just ask. That's the only way you can get to know someone. Whatever we decide wether it be for coffee, dinner or drinks..somewhere quiet we can get to know one another a little better in person and see if there is a spark/connection. If the first half goes well then maybe..... a movie or a walk can be a nice way to finish off the night together. A goodnight kiss??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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