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Pauline, 45

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About Me

TAKING A BREAK FROM meetville.. BUSY TIME OF YEAR. THANKSI'm not always online like it shows I am , I can't figure out why this mobile app logs me on all the time! Lol geez! I'm a single mother of 3 little monkeys (5,7 and ***that I have custody of. They see their dad regularly so I'm not looking to replace that for them.People always ask "what are you looking for?" well I'm looking for someone who I can spend time with and build a friendship and a solid base for a relationship. I require respect and I know if the right man comes along he will be patient and wait for things to progress like they should.Not go out on a date..have sex...say I love you and move in with each other all in the time span of 2 weeks lolFirst of all , I have my own place and I'm not moving anywhere until I'm certain the relationship is a solid one. and second ..YOU NEED TO HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE AND A JOB... not judging anyone, I just know that for me at this time in my life I need to have someone that has their life in order enough to have a job and house or apartment of their own.Also, do you really have time to date? I've ran into a few men that are on these sites looking for someone to date, but they never have any free time. I have 3 kids and can still manage to go out once a week.. Yes they are my first priority, but mama needs some me time to keep my sanity. It doesn't mean I'm not a good parent. I'm just not sure why a person would have a profile if they never have time to date. My sister told me some good advice...You shouldn't settle for anything less then someone who makes you a better person...just like you make them a better person when you're together.I am a very independent and hard working woman, and I have goals and aspirations. I've realized that life isn't a dress rehearsal, so no time like the present to get out there and live it! My next big adventure is to purchase a Harley in the next few months and start riding. I'm very excited to get started! :)I like being happy and don't like drama or negativity ...so that's very important to me. If you happen to think we might hit it off, send me a message(I'm not always this serious..actually I'm pretty silly and ornery but in the sweetest way possible)Update: I don't chase men...if you message me and i'm into you, I will respond. If you don't hear from me after we've been talking...then send me a message. I guess I'm a little old fashioned like that. And the way I look at it...if a mans really into me...he wont get distracted by something else :)Just a way to weed out the half hearted..and save us both a little heartache. Have a beautiful day!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Miriam

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun person to be around and I really have a quirky sense of humor. I love being out on a boat on the lake or ocean.....or riding for the day on a Harley. I love golf though I don't play very well, but I love to ride in the cart on the course on a beautiful day! If you have tons of drama then please pass me by. I have had my fill of drama and just want a laid back, fun, funny and full of adventure and life kind of guy. I have 3 girls....my 2 youngest live with me and my oldest lives away from home. They are sweet and kind and I'm so blessed to have them! :) Surprise me! I love sushi......but surprise me!

  • Michele

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    As with everyone on this site, there is so much more to me than meets the eye. If I had to describe myself, I would say that I am a fun-loving, active, real (genuine personally and physically), kind and classy woman who is looking for a man with similar qualities. When the occasion calls for it, I can be sassy but in a spirited and fun way, never mean.Eventually and if things click, I would like a long term relationship ....so if you are not (eventually) hoping for the same or if you don't read profiles, please look elsewhere. Thank you. There is no hurry, as with most good things in life, things take time to grow and flourish. I really do believe all great and lasting relationships are built upon a rock solid foundation of friendship.At the top of this page, they ask what color your eyes are. I could not specify this on the options line but mine are green/blue. (Green is the most unusual eye color in the world and in many cultures is said to bring good fortune and good luck.) Hope its true. =)Health and fitness are a huge part of my life! Although I am not a gym rat and prefer to be outside being active rather than inside the gym... I would love to meet a man who is active, and believes in healthy living who might want to go to the gym with me sometimes. Although I have nothings against drinking in moderation/socially, I do not drink often or much and don't need it to relax or have fun. I hope you have a similar attitude. The best thing in my life is my children. I have two boys who really bring it and I am very proud to call them mine. They are older and although we do things together, I do have time to make new friends and to date.Although I am not looking for a saint, and don't claim to be one myself, I am looking for a good man... I am looking for a relationship with a man who is single and a classy gentleman. I prefer a strong man of good character (meaning you TRY(not expecting perfection) to do the right thing even when no one is watching) someone who I can respect who is available emotionally, stable, smart, fun, and fit. It would be great if he is on the tall side,(or at least taller than me) as I am 5'6", slender and have been told I have a ballet dancer's but with curves body. ( I like to wear heels, too!I) I love great conversation with educated and interesting people who tend to run deep. I am not a superficial person but value what really matters in this life. This does not mean that I am all seriousness, as I love to be light hearted and to have fun too! I am a true believer in the healing power of laughter. I believe we are all here for a reason and that life is meant to be enjoyed. Look for the positive and find joy in the journey....Life is very much a journey not a destination....I want..........to thrive not just survive! And have FUN!As far as music goes, I love all different kinds. Listening to music and going out to hear bands, concerts, etc. is a wonderful thing and so is a night out dining, dancing, people watching, seeing a play as well as a night in watching movies, cooking a meal together or playing board games and cuddling by a fire... now whats not to like about that?Just so you know.... here comes the part where I spray my "Player, Faker and Flaker Be-Gone".....LOL ...I am easy to get along with and I am all about mutual respect, consideration, compassion, open and honest communication, earned trust, kindness and of course, playfulness(fun). Relationships should be two people who not only enjoy each others company but have fun together. A man can expect to be treated that way by me. I expect the same from him. If you don't, you will see my sassy side.... as well as my back side ; ) walking away from you pretty fast. It goes both ways.....I adore a man with some sass and class who respects himself and others and is only into playing fun games like Scrabble, etc... not head games. If you are a good communicator(say what you mean and mean what you say) your stock is way up in my world!Thanks for reading and.....Wishing you lots of good fortune and good luck in all you do!P.S......If you would like a response from me, please write more than a word or two.( Enough to give me something to respond to.) Full sentences are a very good thing! =) A relaxed first meeting that is short and sweet, cozy and quiet for talking ( to see if we connect) sounds best.

  • Leila

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am sincere lady looking for a gentleman. I am a mother of 3 children, ages 23, 21 & 16. I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor, genuine and mature. If this appeals to you, contact me. If not good luck with your search.

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