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Pauline, 45

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About Me

TAKING A BREAK FROM meetville.. BUSY TIME OF YEAR. THANKSI'm not always online like it shows I am , I can't figure out why this mobile app logs me on all the time! Lol geez! I'm a single mother of 3 little monkeys (5,7 and ***that I have custody of. They see their dad regularly so I'm not looking to replace that for them.People always ask "what are you looking for?" well I'm looking for someone who I can spend time with and build a friendship and a solid base for a relationship. I require respect and I know if the right man comes along he will be patient and wait for things to progress like they should.Not go out on a date..have sex...say I love you and move in with each other all in the time span of 2 weeks lolFirst of all , I have my own place and I'm not moving anywhere until I'm certain the relationship is a solid one. and second ..YOU NEED TO HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE AND A JOB... not judging anyone, I just know that for me at this time in my life I need to have someone that has their life in order enough to have a job and house or apartment of their own.Also, do you really have time to date? I've ran into a few men that are on these sites looking for someone to date, but they never have any free time. I have 3 kids and can still manage to go out once a week.. Yes they are my first priority, but mama needs some me time to keep my sanity. It doesn't mean I'm not a good parent. I'm just not sure why a person would have a profile if they never have time to date. My sister told me some good advice...You shouldn't settle for anything less then someone who makes you a better person...just like you make them a better person when you're together.I am a very independent and hard working woman, and I have goals and aspirations. I've realized that life isn't a dress rehearsal, so no time like the present to get out there and live it! My next big adventure is to purchase a Harley in the next few months and start riding. I'm very excited to get started! :)I like being happy and don't like drama or negativity ...so that's very important to me. If you happen to think we might hit it off, send me a message(I'm not always this serious..actually I'm pretty silly and ornery but in the sweetest way possible)Update: I don't chase men...if you message me and i'm into you, I will respond. If you don't hear from me after we've been talking...then send me a message. I guess I'm a little old fashioned like that. And the way I look at it...if a mans really into me...he wont get distracted by something else :)Just a way to weed out the half hearted..and save us both a little heartache. Have a beautiful day!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Thelma

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Communication, honesty, trust and loyalty are basic qualites for a good relationship. I'd like to spend time getting to know you first to see if we connect on an intellectual/emotional level. Then everything else will fall into place. I enjoy time with friends and family. My child is the center of my life and I would not change that for the world. I'm into fitness and take care of myself and would like to know that you take pride in yourself as well. I would like somebody who enjoys life and wants to get up and do things. Actions speak louder than words.Letting somebody in my life means they want to make me a priority and knows how to balance time for a relationship and time for their own interests. I wish I could be more spontaneous, but being a parent takes precedence.Some people say they want a relationship, yet they have no idea how to have one. It's nice meeting new friends, but I'm not here to collect them for my social media. I prefer *** over texting. Texting is not the place for a conversation. Best of luck. Cup of coffee....keep it simple.

  • Deirdre

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I am a country girl at heart and just displaced near cities. I am easy-going, laid back, and love to laugh. I work very hard and when I'm not at work, or at home, you can find me at the barn! Yes, I own my own horse. Well, I have one and a half. One is 11 yrs old and the other is 16 months old. I also have 4 cats. (No, my house does NOT smell like cats. Lol) My family, a few close friends, and my animals are my world. If I'm not at home or work, you can find me at the barn.I have so much love inside of me just waiting to ooze all over someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate girl. I can be serious if need be, but prefer to be a kid at heart. Joking around and having fun is just who I am. I'm often accused of being a smartass, but it's all in light hearted fun.I'm ready for the next chapter in this book of Life. I love to be loved and to give lots of attention and love right back. There is nothing wrong with "dating", so if that's what you're looking for,....let's go have fun! But, I will say that I really don't want to be single the rest of my life either. If it's solely sex that you're looking for, well, we all have needs, but keep it moving past my playground. Nothing wrong with "needs", but there's more to me than just that. My idea of a perfect relationship is for you to have your own life and interests, I have mine, and we meet in the middle to balance things out. I don't want to be smothered nor do I want to smother you. Don't take that wrong...spending time (quality time) is a must. I have learned over the years you can't change a person, nor can I be changed, thus, my theory. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do. It doest matter where we go or if we just have a quick meet-n-greet in a parking lot somewhere. My advice on how to get to me? Just be real. Be yourself. "Yourself" will eventually come out anyway. Who knows, I'd probably like the real you over the one you try to portray anyway. :)

  • Frieda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Here I am in my 40's back in the dating world, trying to make the best of it I like doing many different things. I really love music, was a band geek growing up! I played piano, clarinet and guitar. I go to concerts as frequently as possible. I have a broad range of musical tastes. Dance music, pop, rock, classic and heavy metal, newer country and some contemporary. I like seeing the local cover bands as well. Chicagoland has some pretty impressive cover bands. I enjoy the theatre, musicals, plays and the ballet. I enjoy traveling. I have a long list of places I want to see. I have lived in IL for close to 15 years now. Would you like to be my tour guide? I also like camping. I am not a sissy girl that needs an RV either, I prefer a tent I am a practicing Catholic. I have taught Religious Education at my church for the past nine years. I am a Confirmation mentor this year. It has been a rewarding experience. I am more of an on the go kind of person, life is too short to sit around and do nothing. I like going out to dinner and to the movies. Game nigts with friends are fun. I can sit at home and hang out with the right person too. I am looking to meet someone who has a passion for life, has a sense of humor and understands that communication is the key to a successful relationship. I am a friendly, outgoing person, will talk to anyone! I am hoping to meet someone who has similar interests and who has a sense of adventure. I can not date a smoker, I am very allergic. If you smoke, sorry we are not a match. There is a big beautiful world out there, would you like to go explore it with me? Meet somewhere quiet where we can talk and get to know each other.

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