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Pauline, 45
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

Offline, last seen Fri, 02 Jan 2026 02:41:54

About Me

TAKING A BREAK FROM meetville.. BUSY TIME OF YEAR. THANKSI'm not always online like it shows I am , I can't figure out why this mobile app logs me on all the time! Lol geez! I'm a single mother of 3 little monkeys (5,7 and ***that I have custody of. They see their dad regularly so I'm not looking to replace that for them.People always ask "what are you looking for?" well I'm looking for someone who I can spend time with and build a friendship and a solid base for a relationship. I require respect and I know if the right man comes along he will be patient and wait for things to progress like they should.Not go out on a date..have sex...say I love you and move in with each other all in the time span of 2 weeks lolFirst of all , I have my own place and I'm not moving anywhere until I'm certain the relationship is a solid one. and second ..YOU NEED TO HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE AND A JOB... not judging anyone, I just know that for me at this time in my life I need to have someone that has their life in order enough to have a job and house or apartment of their own.Also, do you really have time to date? I've ran into a few men that are on these sites looking for someone to date, but they never have any free time. I have 3 kids and can still manage to go out once a week.. Yes they are my first priority, but mama needs some me time to keep my sanity. It doesn't mean I'm not a good parent. I'm just not sure why a person would have a profile if they never have time to date. My sister told me some good advice...You shouldn't settle for anything less then someone who makes you a better person...just like you make them a better person when you're together.I am a very independent and hard working woman, and I have goals and aspirations. I've realized that life isn't a dress rehearsal, so no time like the present to get out there and live it! My next big adventure is to purchase a Harley in the next few months and start riding. I'm very excited to get started! :)I like being happy and don't like drama or negativity ...so that's very important to me. If you happen to think we might hit it off, send me a message(I'm not always this serious..actually I'm pretty silly and ornery but in the sweetest way possible)Update: I don't chase men...if you message me and i'm into you, I will respond. If you don't hear from me after we've been talking...then send me a message. I guess I'm a little old fashioned like that. And the way I look at it...if a mans really into me...he wont get distracted by something else :)Just a way to weed out the half hearted..and save us both a little heartache. Have a beautiful day!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Salsa Photography Motorcycle Racing Soccer / Football
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