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Chandra, 44
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

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About Me

Please read my profile as I am more than a simple picture. If you don't have the balls to share a picture on here, please don't message or favorite me. Take your high profile life and pay for a professional site that will confirm your status, singleness and protect your super human identity. Looking for a man I can respect. It's harder than I thought.Not interested in married, separated or swingers.Looking for a honest, genuine gentleman with integrity. Someone with an education as well as common sense. I am attracted to a fit physique and great smile; straight, white, clean teeth! Prefer a man several inches taller than myself with masculine features. Love when a man exudes class, intelligence and originality. Currently in my fourth year of pursuing my bachelors while working with dementia and hospice clients. On line conversation is where I'm willing to learn about you before scheduling a meet n greet. Chatting on the phone can wait until interest has been established. I am ultimately looking for my other half, not a part-time boyfriend collection. Those whose lives are completely full and only available on alternating weekends are not what I desire. While my life is also full, I do have the ability to rearrange my schedule if one day I meet that special someone. Will pass on those who think they are incognito professional athletes in their schwag, crooked hats and shades. If you were a real gangster, professional athlete, MMA Tap Out or Affliction star, you wouldn't be here......Traits I appreciate and also posses:Integrity: If you say something, you stand by your word, giving what you say value.Active parent in a child's life: Knowing what is truly important, as people will come and go in life, but your kids are yours until death do you part.Your life is in order: You make logical, educated, beneficial and forward moving decisions.You are comfortable in your own skin: Don't need to put on a show, you can be you, real, down to earth. The real you eventually surfaces.Things work their way out: If we all are breathing and no one is bleeding, no need to over-react.You treat others the way you want to be treated...The humor you use is not at the expense of others, insulting or belittling others is not humorous.... Coffee shops are a great start, a cold beer on a patio or a glass of wine by a fireplace would also be fabulous. Stimulating conversation is always pleasant....If your phone is more important than a date, please stay home with your phone.I do not climb 14'ers, run marathons, ski or board ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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