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Sallie, 45
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

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About Me

Hi, so, OK I am looking to meet someone new. Lets get together and talk a bit, have a drink or coffee and see where it goes from there. I am educated, self sufficient and have a good job that I love. I am looking for the same in a partner. I am not overly enthusiastic about the online dating thing. But there arent a whole lot of other options these days.OK time for the babble..- just as much as finding a great little local place; wineries and wine bars; trying a great new recipe or ordering in a pizza and a salad. I am not opposed to catching a band at a local pub. However, the bar/club scene is not my thing.I am not a big TV person, although I have been known in the past to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon watching Law and Order marathons. Not a fan of reality TV. However, I am often content spending a Friday night after a long work week on the couch watching a movie and cuddling with a nice bottle of wine... I am not a big sports fan, but have enjoyed the last season or two watching football and would love to find a guy that likes the game, but will also enjoy spending time with me in the kitchen during the commercials creating something fun to eat while teaching me more about the game. Its all about the compromise..Dogs, not cats. I am informed, but have no desire to debate politics or religion, I can agree to disagree. I love music, but I rarely get around to updating my iPod and often play the same songs over and over again. I have always wanted to be a part of playing a game of softball on the weekend, but be warned, I was always the one chosen next to last when choosing teams in grammar school, but hey, if you choose me, I will happily pack us a picnic lunch and a thermos of hot coffee...I do not do drama. If we go out a few times and it doesn't work out, at the very least I have put myself out there and have made a potential new friend. The last few years I have not really known what it was I am looking for in a relationship, and I am still not sure. It would be really nice to be with someone who wanted to be stuck in the house with me for the weekend when there is a hurricane coming. Or just coming over on a random Tuesday night, well, just because you want to see me. Chances are, I am looking forward to seeing you too.. Maybe there is someone out there that is capable balancing all of the important things in their life and maybe one of those things can be me. I have known great joy in my life and profound sadness as well. I say this because it has made me who I am today. I am flawed, and therefore understanding. I can be sarcastic, but never caustic. I am kind, but not weak. I am shy, as well as playful. I love to be silly and laugh. As far as I am concerned, laughter is lifes greatest aphrodisiac. Being comfortable enough with someone that I can let my hair down and sing bad karaoke with is an aspiration of mine. I like to talk about going to the gym but consider it a successful month if I make it there 3 times a month. Your welcome NYSC. It makes me happy that my puppies won't leave my side during a thunderstorm. Dogs love you unconditionally. Oh, and I recycle.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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