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Caroline, 44
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

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About Me

Here's a little about me. I'm a somewhat outgoing person who enjoys good conversation about a variety of topics. I can be serious at times, but I usually prefer to keep things light-hearted. I enjoy going to auctions and antique markets to look at old objects because I enjoy history. I guess I'm always in learning mode since I'm a teacher. I just returned from Guatemala on a volunteer vacation (took some Spanish classes too), and I'd love to do more foreign traveling with a partner. I'd also like a companion to take in some of the nearby sights. I consider myself independent and low maintenance and I feel most comfortable in a t-shirt and sandals, but I always dress for the occasion.-received. I can also make a decent beef stew, meat loaf or even a pizza on the grill. So someone who appreciates the effort of producing my epicurean delights, but can hold his own in the kitchen when I'm too tired to cook would be much appreciated.I should also include that I think while I can be soft-hearted, I can occasionally engage in a little schadenfreude with the right company. So no one usually mistakes me for a Pollyana. I've got way too much chutzpah, and my quick wit and sarcasm are often apparent. So a match who's like-minded is a huge bonus in that regard. As a general rule, I try very much to conduct myself with pride and class as these traits are important to me and my family. I was raised by a teacher, and as a teacher myself, I try to be a role model for my students. But it's really like a lifestyle...it's simply the way I live my life.Regarding my match: I'm looking for an intelligent and intellectually curious, confident and financially secure professional guy who is compatible with me in a large number of areas. Someone who will understand and appreciate my little bit of independence, but is there when I need him. I'd love to meet someone who enjoys home improvement projects as I enjoy making improvements in my home. If I could find someone who enjoys biking on some of the railtrails in the area, that would be much appreciated.I'm fairly traditional, and I usually prefer to be pursued, rather than be the pursuer. But I've had my moments. For those of you familiar with the Myers- I also have a fairly strong moral compass, and since I'm a teacher you won't find me partaking in anything that might get me arrested! But I don't think that makes me dull either. With regard to religion, I was raised Methodist for the most part (we attended an Episcopal church for a few years too). That being said, I'm open to a partner who enjoys an active role within their church as long as we can find a happy medium.I'm looking for someone who wants to be with me as a companion and friend. And yes, we'd need chemistry to keep it interesting. Since my pug owns me, I hope you like dogs!Regrettably, I never had children when I was married for a variety of reasons. So I am open to matches with children, but I do have strong ideas about how to raise kids. So hopefully, if you have kids and we click, then we also share similar child rearing values. Depends on how far we live from each other. A quick cup of coffee to decide if we'd like to go to dinner is a good start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Japanese Drama Computer Games
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