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Ester, 43

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About Me

I don't like most guys, but... I am not interested in most guys and besides perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals I do connect with all the more special.Myself - active, spontaneous, and optimistic. I am not offended by an off-the-cuff joke and can dish out some of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Playfulness is the spice of life, so bring it on. Timeless books and movies that make you consider different perspectives in life put great flavour into my evenings.What's your story? What are your greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knee's from joy and happiness?Please contact me if you have a picture........ I'm happy enjoying a coffee, drink, something active or dinner. As long as the company is fun and engaging, then it's all good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Theresa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a strong independent woman looking for a someone to compliment me..I work hard and like to play harder..I am a dental manager and have been in the field for 19 years..I would love to find a someone who knows how to treat me like a Princess..I like to receive flowers just because..I like to be treated like I am the most special lady in the world..I like to be wined and dined..Most dates like to pay for everything so I have learned how to balance dinners..I cook as though I should own my own restaurant...I have no problem making up a ***coarse meal for my partner..Wearing something sexy...I'm looking for a person who wants to do more than just going out to dinner and drinks....I need a someone who will get in the car and take off to wherever...Do new kinds of things and see new places..I love to travel...I would love to find someone who enjoys going away on the weekends..I have so much flexability..My children are older now and it is all about me and ?..I love to play sports..I am a football junkie..Every Sunday at my house is the football game and plenty of good food..I love all kinds of music not just love songs..I like to call myself a universal kind of lady..I can fit in anywhere or with anyone..Please don't waste my or your time if you don't fit into this all so brief discription don't reply..I will be happy to share other interest when I feel the time is right.. Meet and greet anywhere..If there is no connection we leave..If there is one, then we go out to dinner or drinks..

  • Deirdre

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I am a country girl at heart and just displaced near cities. I am easy-going, laid back, and love to laugh. I work very hard and when I'm not at work, or at home, you can find me at the barn! Yes, I own my own horse. Well, I have one and a half. One is 11 yrs old and the other is 16 months old. I also have 4 cats. (No, my house does NOT smell like cats. Lol) My family, a few close friends, and my animals are my world. If I'm not at home or work, you can find me at the barn.I have so much love inside of me just waiting to ooze all over someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate girl. I can be serious if need be, but prefer to be a kid at heart. Joking around and having fun is just who I am. I'm often accused of being a smartass, but it's all in light hearted fun.I'm ready for the next chapter in this book of Life. I love to be loved and to give lots of attention and love right back. There is nothing wrong with "dating", so if that's what you're looking for,....let's go have fun! But, I will say that I really don't want to be single the rest of my life either. If it's solely sex that you're looking for, well, we all have needs, but keep it moving past my playground. Nothing wrong with "needs", but there's more to me than just that. My idea of a perfect relationship is for you to have your own life and interests, I have mine, and we meet in the middle to balance things out. I don't want to be smothered nor do I want to smother you. Don't take that wrong...spending time (quality time) is a must. I have learned over the years you can't change a person, nor can I be changed, thus, my theory. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do. It doest matter where we go or if we just have a quick meet-n-greet in a parking lot somewhere. My advice on how to get to me? Just be real. Be yourself. "Yourself" will eventually come out anyway. Who knows, I'd probably like the real you over the one you try to portray anyway. :)

  • Frieda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Here I am in my 40's back in the dating world, trying to make the best of it I like doing many different things. I really love music, was a band geek growing up! I played piano, clarinet and guitar. I go to concerts as frequently as possible. I have a broad range of musical tastes. Dance music, pop, rock, classic and heavy metal, newer country and some contemporary. I like seeing the local cover bands as well. Chicagoland has some pretty impressive cover bands. I enjoy the theatre, musicals, plays and the ballet. I enjoy traveling. I have a long list of places I want to see. I have lived in IL for close to 15 years now. Would you like to be my tour guide? I also like camping. I am not a sissy girl that needs an RV either, I prefer a tent I am a practicing Catholic. I have taught Religious Education at my church for the past nine years. I am a Confirmation mentor this year. It has been a rewarding experience. I am more of an on the go kind of person, life is too short to sit around and do nothing. I like going out to dinner and to the movies. Game nigts with friends are fun. I can sit at home and hang out with the right person too. I am looking to meet someone who has a passion for life, has a sense of humor and understands that communication is the key to a successful relationship. I am a friendly, outgoing person, will talk to anyone! I am hoping to meet someone who has similar interests and who has a sense of adventure. I can not date a smoker, I am very allergic. If you smoke, sorry we are not a match. There is a big beautiful world out there, would you like to go explore it with me? Meet somewhere quiet where we can talk and get to know each other.

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