SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Etta
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I am looking for only one similar soul who is sincere, simple and deeply values a small group of people rather than superficially valuing many. Edited to add out of necessity. If you are 10 years younger than I, do not contact me. If you have photos taken by you, in your bathroom, in less than full appropriate attire, do not contact me. And sweet jesus, if you cannot construct a grammatically correct sentence and properly punctuate it, do NOT contact me. A rare true introvert, who detests small talk, but is never shy or lacking in confidence is seeking quality over quantity. I am looking for one funny, intelligent, kind and sincere man. Lazy daters and those that don't make real effort do not interest me. I am fun, simple, down to earth, kind, generous and introspective. I pride myself on my integrity and am looking for similar. If you are flashy, materialistic, are too busy talking to listen and believe that looks are more important than spirit and heart, keep moving. I am not interested. Tough. Funny. Quick witted. Spirited. Completely dedicated mom. Fiercely loyal and wildly independent. These adjectives describe me, but I am equally sensitive, loving and gentle. I am a driven, successful, no nonsense woman. When I build a connection with someone, I am loyal and it is long lasting. In short, I am looking to find the person that is imperfect, like I am, but who is perfect for me.I find joy and wonder in living a simple lifestyle with few possessions and many great experiences, including travel, reading, art and great food. The greatest moments of my life have been spent laughing raucously with my children. I am looking to meet someone who has a loving energy, family values and treats others with kindness and respect. He must be strong yet willing to be vulnerable, driven and passionate with high energy, enthusiasm and a great sense of humor. His character is of utmost importance to me as is his sense of self, conviction and confidence. I detest dishonesty and self obsession. I want to relax and drink coffee together, laugh loudly and watch kids basketball games on Saturday mornings. I appreciate thoughtful gestures and kindness from the heart. I am a good friend to those that I care about and expect the same in return. I am responsible and loving, always a parent first, raising children alone with absolutely no drama or conflict in my life. I am a voracious reader, poor cook, yoga beginner, who loves foreign films and drinks too much coffee. I enjoy jazz music, a good dark beer and dressing up or hanging out in jeans. What about you? Coffee and conversation. Museum. Nine ball at the pub or pool hall.
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Deirdre
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hi! I am a country girl at heart and just displaced near cities. I am easy-going, laid back, and love to laugh. I work very hard and when I'm not at work, or at home, you can find me at the barn! Yes, I own my own horse. Well, I have one and a half. One is 11 yrs old and the other is 16 months old. I also have 4 cats. (No, my house does NOT smell like cats. Lol) My family, a few close friends, and my animals are my world. If I'm not at home or work, you can find me at the barn.I have so much love inside of me just waiting to ooze all over someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate girl. I can be serious if need be, but prefer to be a kid at heart. Joking around and having fun is just who I am. I'm often accused of being a smartass, but it's all in light hearted fun.I'm ready for the next chapter in this book of Life. I love to be loved and to give lots of attention and love right back. There is nothing wrong with "dating", so if that's what you're looking for,....let's go have fun! But, I will say that I really don't want to be single the rest of my life either. If it's solely sex that you're looking for, well, we all have needs, but keep it moving past my playground. Nothing wrong with "needs", but there's more to me than just that. My idea of a perfect relationship is for you to have your own life and interests, I have mine, and we meet in the middle to balance things out. I don't want to be smothered nor do I want to smother you. Don't take that wrong...spending time (quality time) is a must. I have learned over the years you can't change a person, nor can I be changed, thus, my theory. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do. It doest matter where we go or if we just have a quick meet-n-greet in a parking lot somewhere. My advice on how to get to me? Just be real. Be yourself. "Yourself" will eventually come out anyway. Who knows, I'd probably like the real you over the one you try to portray anyway. :)
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Jami
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I Have met a few guys here, but I am a bit old fashioned and expect the Guy to be the one to cont. showing interest in me....especially once I have showed interest to them. I also expect the guy to be honest and tell me if he is not interested once we start talking. I dont think Anyone should have to guess....its ruid.If I could have things my way... I love the outdoors and Yes hard to believe, but I actually like "yard work"! I like my space and privacy. I'm not at all the insecure, needy and a whinny type of person and I dont want a guy to be that way either. I like to take things as they come.... pretty much the "friends first" thing. So, if things work out great and if not... then friends should be ok and no one should be mad if it doesnt work out. I like hanging out with my friends either going to the clubs, whole in the wall bars or just hanging out at the house. I really like being outside and doing just about anything.I like guys that are Attractive, Fit, Brown to Dark brown hair, Clean cut. 5 O'clock shadow ok, but not into the whole bushy mustache and beard thing. A clean cut goatee is also sexy. I like guys that are more the "shy quite type"...sorta like the "nerd" look but of course "Johnny Depp" will not be thrown out of bed for eating crackers, lol... I'm not into the guy that has to be the "life of the party".Mostly its about chemistry...if you feel that certain something for that person...than they become attractive to you and all :)I Don't need someone to have the same interest as me, cause I believe that its ok for him to do his thing if he wants and i will do mine and we can still do things together at other times.Basically I'm pretty easy going, not high maintence, but I do know what I want or don't want. Meet for Dinner, Lunch or Something Simple.