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Lydia, 45

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About Me

I am 45 yrs old, looking to get out and date again. I spent the last 20 yrs really focused on raising my family and my career. I have 2 kids both over 18 and out of the house on their own. I have 1 grandchild. I want to meet new people that will hopefully develop into a relationship or just make some new friends. I like the simple things in life. I don't need fancy things or to travel to fancy places. Going out to eat, movies, grabbing a few drinks. Or just cuddling on the couch watching TV or a DVD. I like road trips especially the ones that are spontaneous. Get the car and drive. I like long walks a long the lake, camping, fishing, biking and the SOX. I like watching football and basketball on TV, never been to a Bears or Bulls game but try to get the Cell every chance I get. I don’t watch much TV because of my hours so I watch a lot of TV on DVD. I work really crazy hours, but willing to make some sacrifice to meet people. I love what I do; I work in the medical field and in social service part time. I like all kinds of music but classical. Causual somewhere were we could just talk and see if we have any chemistry. Meet for a drink, at the pier, or lake front if the weather is nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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