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Deirdre, 43

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About Me

Hi! I am a country girl at heart and just displaced near cities. I am easy-going, laid back, and love to laugh. I work very hard and when I'm not at work, or at home, you can find me at the barn! Yes, I own my own horse. Well, I have one and a half. One is 11 yrs old and the other is 16 months old. I also have 4 cats. (No, my house does NOT smell like cats. Lol) My family, a few close friends, and my animals are my world. If I'm not at home or work, you can find me at the barn.I have so much love inside of me just waiting to ooze all over someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate girl. I can be serious if need be, but prefer to be a kid at heart. Joking around and having fun is just who I am. I'm often accused of being a smartass, but it's all in light hearted fun.I'm ready for the next chapter in this book of Life. I love to be loved and to give lots of attention and love right back. There is nothing wrong with "dating", so if that's what you're looking for,....let's go have fun! But, I will say that I really don't want to be single the rest of my life either. If it's solely sex that you're looking for, well, we all have needs, but keep it moving past my playground. Nothing wrong with "needs", but there's more to me than just that. My idea of a perfect relationship is for you to have your own life and interests, I have mine, and we meet in the middle to balance things out. I don't want to be smothered nor do I want to smother you. Don't take that wrong...spending time (quality time) is a must. I have learned over the years you can't change a person, nor can I be changed, thus, my theory. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do. It doest matter where we go or if we just have a quick meet-n-greet in a parking lot somewhere. My advice on how to get to me? Just be real. Be yourself. "Yourself" will eventually come out anyway. Who knows, I'd probably like the real you over the one you try to portray anyway. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Helene

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well, I had this filled out all nice and pretty on my Iphone, but apparently, if you swipe the wrong way, it just erases everything you spent the last hour on FOREVER.... (sigh) Hi! I'm trying this again to see if I have better luck. I'm a farmer's daughter and I love living in the country. I work in downtown St. Louis Monday through Friday, but I really enjoy coming home to the peace/quiet and fresh air. I'm the oldest of three kids (I'm the only girl) and I can be a tomboy. I can get cleaned up really nice but feel most comfortable in a pair of jeans and my hair in a ponytail. I can (and do) cuss like a sailor (mostly when aggravated) but I have a big heart and would do anything for my family and closest friends. I have a soft spot for animals... cats especially. I love dogs too, but my cat is my baby and she runs the house. :-) I love to cook when time allows for it. I work a lot of hours in the legal industry and unfortunately sometimes it's just cereal for supper. But when I do get to cook, my brother is my biggest fan when it comes feeding time. LOL I'm fortunate to have such a tight-knit family. We are protective of each other and love to laugh. Apparently, being a chronic smart ass is hereditary and the laughter is contagious. Having a sense of humor is big for me. Common sense is another trait that seems to be lacking nowadays... I don't have any kids of my own but I am the "Crazy Aunt T" to my niece and nephews. I would love to have my own kids someday. The bar scene is getting old and I'm looking for new ways to meet people. But I guess if it was easy, everybody could do it, right? In my downtime from work, I like to read (it helps to put me to sleep... until I drop the book on my face, then I can read a few more chapters...LOL) I also love shopping, antiquing, wineries, road trips, sight seeing, flea markets (People of Walmart has NOTHING on what you can see at flea markets), sending care packages to the military, stargazing, all kinds of music except rap (although I can handle Eminem when driving home from work some days), getting dirty in the garden or whatever new landscaping idea my mom comes up with, driving the field roads with dad, playing dress up with my niece or geek games with my nephews, I prefer the mountains over the beaches, and prefer fall weather/snow over ***degrees. However, I cannot swim, ski or skate, but I can make one heck of a snow angel followed by hot chocolate and snuggling by the fireplace. I'm not interested in one night stands, head games, sexting, or FWBs, so if that's what you're wanting, I'm sorry. I'm looking for a man between the ages of 37 and 42.

  • Helga

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    im an honest person,careing,i don't do drugs,i don't drink, occasionally smoke,i like movies going to them or just stayin in watching them with that special person,i love to cuddle im a big fan of that :),i love outdoor activities..hiking,camping,gardening,patio's and bbq's with friends,im not in the bar or club scene..im looking for someone desent,honest,careing and funny..not looking for one night stands or intimate encounters.im a simple girl looking for a simple guy :)) ps... im a affectionate women so an occasional ass grab on a long walk may acure :)) im not interested in what a person looks like,it's the inner person that counts..i have a lot to give if givin the chance :)) coffee,a movie,a long walk to get to know eachother..:))

  • Frieda

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Here I am in my 40's back in the dating world, trying to make the best of it I like doing many different things. I really love music, was a band geek growing up! I played piano, clarinet and guitar. I go to concerts as frequently as possible. I have a broad range of musical tastes. Dance music, pop, rock, classic and heavy metal, newer country and some contemporary. I like seeing the local cover bands as well. Chicagoland has some pretty impressive cover bands. I enjoy the theatre, musicals, plays and the ballet. I enjoy traveling. I have a long list of places I want to see. I have lived in IL for close to 15 years now. Would you like to be my tour guide? I also like camping. I am not a sissy girl that needs an RV either, I prefer a tent I am a practicing Catholic. I have taught Religious Education at my church for the past nine years. I am a Confirmation mentor this year. It has been a rewarding experience. I am more of an on the go kind of person, life is too short to sit around and do nothing. I like going out to dinner and to the movies. Game nigts with friends are fun. I can sit at home and hang out with the right person too. I am looking to meet someone who has a passion for life, has a sense of humor and understands that communication is the key to a successful relationship. I am a friendly, outgoing person, will talk to anyone! I am hoping to meet someone who has similar interests and who has a sense of adventure. I can not date a smoker, I am very allergic. If you smoke, sorry we are not a match. There is a big beautiful world out there, would you like to go explore it with me? Meet somewhere quiet where we can talk and get to know each other.

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