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Sallie
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Hi, so, OK I am looking to meet someone new. Lets get together and talk a bit, have a drink or coffee and see where it goes from there. I am educated, self sufficient and have a good job that I love. I am looking for the same in a partner. I am not overly enthusiastic about the online dating thing. But there arent a whole lot of other options these days.OK time for the babble..- just as much as finding a great little local place; wineries and wine bars; trying a great new recipe or ordering in a pizza and a salad. I am not opposed to catching a band at a local pub. However, the bar/club scene is not my thing.I am not a big TV person, although I have been known in the past to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon watching Law and Order marathons. Not a fan of reality TV. However, I am often content spending a Friday night after a long work week on the couch watching a movie and cuddling with a nice bottle of wine... I am not a big sports fan, but have enjoyed the last season or two watching football and would love to find a guy that likes the game, but will also enjoy spending time with me in the kitchen during the commercials creating something fun to eat while teaching me more about the game. Its all about the compromise..Dogs, not cats. I am informed, but have no desire to debate politics or religion, I can agree to disagree. I love music, but I rarely get around to updating my iPod and often play the same songs over and over again. I have always wanted to be a part of playing a game of softball on the weekend, but be warned, I was always the one chosen next to last when choosing teams in grammar school, but hey, if you choose me, I will happily pack us a picnic lunch and a thermos of hot coffee...I do not do drama. If we go out a few times and it doesn't work out, at the very least I have put myself out there and have made a potential new friend. The last few years I have not really known what it was I am looking for in a relationship, and I am still not sure. It would be really nice to be with someone who wanted to be stuck in the house with me for the weekend when there is a hurricane coming. Or just coming over on a random Tuesday night, well, just because you want to see me. Chances are, I am looking forward to seeing you too.. Maybe there is someone out there that is capable balancing all of the important things in their life and maybe one of those things can be me. I have known great joy in my life and profound sadness as well. I say this because it has made me who I am today. I am flawed, and therefore understanding. I can be sarcastic, but never caustic. I am kind, but not weak. I am shy, as well as playful. I love to be silly and laugh. As far as I am concerned, laughter is lifes greatest aphrodisiac. Being comfortable enough with someone that I can let my hair down and sing bad karaoke with is an aspiration of mine. I like to talk about going to the gym but consider it a successful month if I make it there 3 times a month. Your welcome NYSC. It makes me happy that my puppies won't leave my side during a thunderstorm. Dogs love you unconditionally. Oh, and I recycle.
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Deirdre
Offline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hi! I am a country girl at heart and just displaced near cities. I am easy-going, laid back, and love to laugh. I work very hard and when I'm not at work, or at home, you can find me at the barn! Yes, I own my own horse. Well, I have one and a half. One is 11 yrs old and the other is 16 months old. I also have 4 cats. (No, my house does NOT smell like cats. Lol) My family, a few close friends, and my animals are my world. If I'm not at home or work, you can find me at the barn.I have so much love inside of me just waiting to ooze all over someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate girl. I can be serious if need be, but prefer to be a kid at heart. Joking around and having fun is just who I am. I'm often accused of being a smartass, but it's all in light hearted fun.I'm ready for the next chapter in this book of Life. I love to be loved and to give lots of attention and love right back. There is nothing wrong with "dating", so if that's what you're looking for,....let's go have fun! But, I will say that I really don't want to be single the rest of my life either. If it's solely sex that you're looking for, well, we all have needs, but keep it moving past my playground. Nothing wrong with "needs", but there's more to me than just that. My idea of a perfect relationship is for you to have your own life and interests, I have mine, and we meet in the middle to balance things out. I don't want to be smothered nor do I want to smother you. Don't take that wrong...spending time (quality time) is a must. I have learned over the years you can't change a person, nor can I be changed, thus, my theory. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do. It doest matter where we go or if we just have a quick meet-n-greet in a parking lot somewhere. My advice on how to get to me? Just be real. Be yourself. "Yourself" will eventually come out anyway. Who knows, I'd probably like the real you over the one you try to portray anyway. :)
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Karen
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I have four children ranging in ages of 22 yrs to 13 yrs the oldest is the only one that lives with me and I have 4 wonderful grandkids . I'm independent, open minded, don't play games at all and don't like them played on me in anyway. My friends say I'm laid back, easy to get along with, fun and love to laugh and make others laugh and I'm good hearted. I like to do all sorts of various crafts, shoot pool, movies, cuddling etc. I love my music I'm in to the newer music of today but love some tunes from the 60's, 70's, and the 80's for sure mostly rock but country as well.I'm looking for someone who shares the same interests, I'm far from being into one night stands, hook ups, or a friend with benefits, I've been single for over 6 yrs. now and if that's what you're looking for keep looking cause I'm not the one. I'm a one man woman who is completely faithful and expect the same from my partner. I'm in search of something substantial and long term....friends first and see where that takes us. And let me please also state that I do NOT in anyway share pictures of myself not clothed nor do anything of the such on webcam I'm not comfortable in doing so that's just how I am and I don't think that by sharing these things before even meeting is just way off base and wrong I do prefer a more romantic approach call me a prude however I will not change nor budge on this so don't even bother asking or trying to make me feel bad by trying to push me into it. If you can handle that keep reading, if not well keep looking.And just let me state for the record, just because I'm disabled it don't mean by any means at all that I'm looking for a hand out, or to be taken care of, I'm able and do get around on my own and I don't need anyone to support me if I can get something I want, I get it myself, if I can't get it I will save for it or it just wasn't meant to be, I do take care of myself in that area. Also just because I'm a bigger woman don't mean by any means that I'm desperate in anyway while I don't like being alone, who does, I'm doing just fine being that way in you're into playing mind games or think that because I'm bigger I will just bow down and do whatever it is you say because I"m afraid of losing you....if that's what you think when you see my picture well then some rethinking on your part is in order cause I'm not that kind of woman. I may have been in the past played for a fool big time but don't mistake me for one. If I sense red flags from you I will call you out on them.If this sounds like you, or if you have any other questions please feel free to drop me a message. If you don't like my profile or the fact that I'm a bigger woman well good luck in your search cause you just have no clue of what you're missing!!!!!Thanks for checking out my page.....