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Catalina, 42

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About Me

I never knew how strong I was until I finally had to be. Now I am in a medical program on the way to becoming self reliant. I am waiting for an amazing man to make me laugh and forget all the problems of the world. And I am hoping to make him feel like the luckiest man alive. No bullshitters! No creepers! No lazy asses.. No addicts, no pimps or snackers and no**** sons of ****es that think they're God's gift to women (aka narcissists). I have had enough of that ish. I appreciate real people . It's our idiosyncrasies that make us unique.As for me I am a Christian, was married 15 yrs and have been rediscovering myself for the last 3 yrs. My kids are my love and my life. And my parents are the best :) I had a great upbringing, and other than a couple panty raids and living with a narcissistic addict for way too long I haven't sustained too much damage. lol.I don't do illegal drugs. I am responsible and I love to laugh. I'm cheerful, but not a powder puff. I am the mother of four boys (two of them grown). I like to go play about every other weekend and also enjoy movie nights on the couch complete with smashed grapes and I give pretty good massages and receive them well too ;)And guys, take off the sunglasses!.jk, first dates should be simple because they're stressful enough

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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  • Patsy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello fellas! Thanks for stopping by. I don't really like to go on and on about myself, but I think that's what is expected here, so here it goes:All photos are within the last few months. The one with my nephews was taken late September ***.I like football, travelling, I cook, clean (sometimes),I like kids, well behaved ones especially, love to throw parties and can make the best margarita you've ever had. I have a great career, an amazing 13 year old son, and life in general is pretty stinkin' good. I am a "few extra pounds," but I'm still ridiculously awesome. I'm not jaded, nor do I need pharmaceuticals (legal or illegal ones) to be normal. I have a lot of friends and am very close to my family, especially my Dad. I can sniff out a player and liar a mile away so bring your A game, lol. I'm an adventurous foodie, and I might let you slide on integrity if you like Indian cuisine....:)Once in a committed relationship, I'm very much into affection and MORE...I find that most guys on here don't make much of an effort to start and carry on a conversation, so if I don't respond, that's probably why. Like kids, be adventurous, don't be intimidated by my Dad and you and I will get along very well. Any number of things would work on a first date - as long as conversation and company aren't dull! It's always nice to have an activity to distract somewhat from the awkwardness of first meeting - an icebreaker if you will.

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