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Stacey, 42

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About Me

Still looking for the person, who is accepting of themselves and others, has a generous heart and an open mind, knows and has experienced compassion, and affection, and communicates well.I am a musician, it is not just a hobby, it pays the bills. I love music, but I also like to step away from my job and hear about other things and interests. I also teach, and it is the most rewarding job.I love Aruba, have visited many times, don't know if i will get back there, but I can highly recommend it.I am a girly-girl, but I can also throw on a baseball cap and be out the door in 5 minutes.I love to laugh.I have many goals in life, the first one is to just live each day, as life has taught me that it can all be gone quickly. so have fun out there people!!Finally, if you want to know me, inquire about me... not just "hey".. I find I am more apt to respond to real *** an added thought, gentlemen, please do not show me pics of yourself in your underwear in front of the bathroom mirror, it is not a turn-on, but rather a turn-off. Please be respectful of yourself and others. that is the end of my scolding, thank you for listening..lol First dates should be spontaneous. Coffe shops and the like. Dinner comes after you know that you actually like each other :}

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Claudette

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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