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Lela, 43

Offline, last seen Fri, 03 Apr 2026 05:51:37

About Me

I'm looking for someone that adds value to my life. I work very hard and would like to spend my free time with someone whom takes my breath away physically, emotionally and intellectually. High aspirations, I know, but I deserve it. Life is short. I believe I've wasted too much time waiting for the right time or after the project du jour is finished. . So, I'm a jeans and t shirt girl at heart, however I clean up nicely. I like a variety of music, everything from Linkin Park, Creed and Santana to Timbaland and the Black Eyed Peas. I currently love Maroon 5. I love the outdoors, mental stimulation - although I can veg like the best potato, and I'll try almost anything once. I don't believe in having a relationship over texts, you lose the context of the conversation and the verbal and visual cues that identify the person you are communicating with is a nut. (I've heard there are many on this site - you know who you are!!) I'm looking for someone close in age to me as we'll as proximity. Anywhere we can chat and see if there is a spark

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy the outdoors I'm very simple..... I enjoy all types of music I think my idea of a first date would be meeting having dinner and a movie and possibly a nice walk to get to know each other

  • Esperanza

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Just looking. Not interested in just anyone. Very picky but not rude, just honest. I like good music, good company and good food.

  • Lupe

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I hate this part. Umm. Ok. Let’s see. I'm pretty laid back most of the time, I love to laugh and I live a happy life. I have a good job, a drama free life and it doesn't bother me to be single. But- if I could find a compatible person to share time with, that would be icing on the cake. I love road trips. I tend to stay about as busy as I want to be, even though declining invites can be difficult. I have learned to take some down time. I listen to music of nearly all genres, aside from opera and classical. I don’t mind going out occasionally, but I’m not an every weekend clubber. I may partake in a few adult beverages, smoke a cig once in awhile, and have been known to howl at the moon on the rare occasion that it’s blue, but otherwise I’m usually mellow. I believe in the Golden Rule, self-pride, integrity, and loyalty. I've never cheated and haven't been cheated on much but I know that many people have been. Mutual trust is essential; I think if you no longer want to be with someone, you should make it known to them. I’ve been single a long time, haven’t really dated much since ***, been busy just having fun and doing my own thing. My profile is offline a lot because I think dating is a total nightmare and I just don’t choose to use my excess patience wading through all the nonsense – it’s not like I have that much to spare to begin with. ;-) Anyway, if you are still reading, and you want to know more, you know what to do. The first time meeting should be in a public place where we can chat and see if there is a spark. I’m a firm believer that there needs to be a physical attraction as well as an intellectual connection.

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