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Claudette, 43
United States, Michigan, East Lansing

Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 12:21:34

About Me

You only live once....but if you do it right. Once is enough!…. Yes, that is the Lonestar State and yes…..I can two step and shoot a gun (doesn’t everyone….LOL). When I am not working, I am spending time with my children or hanging out with friends. The philosophy of work hard ….play hard would be an accurate description. I look forward to my time off. I will admit, I am not typically a home body. I like to “go and do”. I am very social and love people. A perfect weekend could include grabbing a bite to eat…….(It could be a local dive or an up & coming hot spot……either would do just fine), maybe catching a movie, playing a game of pool (I am not a pool shark……but not quite a guppy either..HA.), going to a winery, car show, bike adventure, festival, boating, ....or it could include doing almost nothing at all…..just cuddling up on the sofa with a good book or a movie and enjoying some downtime.I'd like to spend my time with someone who likes to have fun, embraces the moment, is curious, not afraid to try new things and makes me smile and laugh. Let’s go for a ride or find the perfect place for a picnic. How about driving to the lake or a local event? Let’s go find something fun to do………….I like to try new things and would enjoy having a partner in crime for the adventures.I am looking for a serious relationship…….but realize it takes time, patience and sometimes a great capacity for laughter. I am not looking to change you nor do I want someone to change me. I seek to better myself and learn from life but I am secure in who I am. I do believe compromise and good communication is key to any great relationship.People ask me, “What I am looking for”? I would tell you I am a very affectionate and passionate individual who wants the same in a partner. It's not about the grand gestures. Its about the simple, " thoughtful" gestures. Like hearing from you in the middle of the day, remembering a special moment or being my friend when I'm in need of one. I want to be able to laugh with you and be so comfortable with you….I can laugh at myself when necessary. I want someone as comfortable in a suit as they are in a pair of jeans. You would like the outdoors, enjoy live music, dance when the music moves you, enjoy endless conversations, holding hands and kissing. I am a strong personality and attracted to men who are not afraid to take the lead. Most of all…..I want you to be authentic …..be yourself……..you might be the one I am looking for. Clarification on what separated means to me. I am an honest individual and feel must be up front. I have been in an unsatisfying relationship for many years and have been separated for several years. The ex lives in a different residence and divorce will be finalized in October. There is no drama. We are healthy role models for our children.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Irish Japanese Korean Animation Family & Kids Western Bowling
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