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Hattie, 44
United States, Michigan, East Lansing

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LOL! YEP! Who knew! I'm back on here for a few reasons! 1. I had found the 1 I was waiting 4 all my life here last November but of course he wasn't ready 4a relationship because just like the rest of u guys on here, U say UR "READY"but ur really not! & Hey....I understand! REALLY I DO! Just let's all be grown ups here! Say what you mean & mean what you say! Pretty simple I think!2. Is this not the biggest booty call site ever!? Just sayn'! LMFAO!3. Harley & Boat are definitely Requirements! Yes it's winter but winter doesn't last all year!4. Sleds are a big bonus, I have all my gear!....G.T.L.S.H (Gym. Tan. Laundry. School. Homework).....Repeat!! I'm in school so I don't have much time. Please don't take it personal. I have priorities & school is very big! I jump on here to take a break from homework & to have a good laugh! I've met a lot of great people on here over the years that are still great friends & that I still talk to, some of whom I understand why they are still single & others that are such a great catch but things got in the way so they are still friends which is unfortunate for me. I've also met alot of Players or confused men who don't know what they want so Please keep me out of your confusion.My pictures are my pictures! They are not a lie....They ARE Me!You work for what you have in life or want out of life. I have earned everything I have! I'm not rich but I have my own things so I don't need or want any of yours. I work, I go to school, I go to the gym & I love going to LION'S Games, BTW That's the quickest way 2 my heart! & then after the game, usually the club....& U Know which one's!I have a lot of great friends & I have no crazy ex~boyfriends but I have acquired a few stalkers from here so I'm very careful......I live in a very small town where everyone knows your business. I'm a very open person so pretty much anything you have to tell me probably won't surprise me. I live on the water & have since ***& it's always been my house & no one else’s. I LOVE standing on my dock & looking out on the water & listening to the ducks (who always sound like they are laughing) & just for that moment of peace & thinking to myself "Life is AWESOME & no one can take that peace I get from living here". If U Have never lived on the water, then U don't know what I'm talking about!.....I almost moved off the water for the last guy but I live here & U have 2B very special 4that! I Love older men! Anyone older than me knows how to treat a woman! & had I known that along time ago, I probably wouldn't be here! I have a lot of great friends but even the ones that have been there for years have grown apart because they got married & are too busy to talk to you unless your with someone, then they want to hangout as a couples thing.Side Note: I'm LOOKING 4 SOMEONE THAT CAN ADD TO MY LIFE, NOT CONSTANTLY TAKE! To all the Guys that put on their profile that they are looking for a "long term relationship" & in reality are actually hooked on this site & or think there's something better out there....have at it! Please don't waste any of my time..OR think that it bothers me because .....UR NOT All that & there's Many More....You might think Your better than anyone else but the reality is....Your on here just like the rest of us........Silliness!My favorite place of all time is P.I.B.! & if I can't go there every weekend in the summer, Cabo would be next!I'm SERIOUSLY just a girl hoping to find someone that I actually want to make time for. I've been told recently that I look like my pictures but look better in person (Thanks!). And I am definitely worth more than just a moment of your time.....!Please don't Say "let's meet 4 a drink" without talking 2 me on the phone 1st because it's not going 2 happen. My Last guy Was A well known Body Builder & I got along great with his family & friends &WE Were perfect 2gether.....but sh*thappens & I'm OK with it. When U Love Someone, U let them go 2B happy & They always come back but by then it's 2 late........So that should tell U what I'm looking 4 & How I am.......Good Luck! ;). Short on time just like everyone else so we will figure it out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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