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Shawn, 43
United States, Michigan, East Lansing

Offline, last seen Fri, 10 Jul 2026 12:30:02

About Me

After several uninspiring dates, I kind of threw up my hands and took a hiatus. So, I am returning after being away for a few months and thought I would try this again. To be honest, I am a bit bored with the whole dating world. I need someone who is fun, energic, can keep up with my sense of humor and can take my bantering.I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, and family & friends are very important to me. I'm a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I'm smart and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I am a professional and sometimes too serious when it comes to business. I do consider myself pretty active. With a strong competitive side to me. I play darts on league both soft tip and steel tip. It started out as a way to get me out of the house and meeting new people. It keeps me out of trouble...sometimes. I also enjoy playing softball in the summer. And getting out in the winter and playing. I enjoy going to the gym, belly dancing, and more. I have been single for quite awhile, divorced for the second time with almost 21 years marriage between the two, my girls are grown ***& 22). If you want to know anything else I invite you to send me a message. Please do not send winks as I will not waste my time replying. I also will not reply to anyone with a pictureless profile as I will assume you are married or in a committed relationship and/or hiding something.So, what do you have to lose?OK here is an Important Update: If I have children your age or you are young enough for that my girls could be dating you then you are TOO YOUNG FOR ME!! Sorry Kiddos!! :)PS...Not sure I will be staying on this site much longer. The first time we meet in person I do not consider it a date, but rather a casual meeting. I do not drink coffee and do not expect a fancy dinner. I am open to options but nothing too serious upon first meeting. If, by chance, an opportunity for a real date then we can stress over the details. Until then...let's keep it casual, lite and above all fun!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm looking for a mature man who's stable and knows what he wants out of life. I am a independent, self sufficient, secure woman who's very happy with my life, however, I believe that life is meant for two!! I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. I'm simply looking for my bestfriend and other half. A little bit about myself: I enjoy traveling, camping by a lake, walking on the beach, spending time with my family and friends, listening to live music, and of course college sports, Go Red Raiders! I'm honest, loyal, especially to my man (not into the whole cheating thing) have a great sense of humor, and family and friends are very important to me. I want a man who ONLY has eyes for me and can make me laugh! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends and get to know each other... and just see what happens.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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