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United States, Michigan, East Lansing

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Hello! YOU may feature in my blog! Tell me now if you don't want to be in my blog so I know up front to keep you out. I am an aspiring writer and I recently started a blog. I love to write! I have a wide variety of hobbies and interests as you can likely see here on my profile. I pursue most of them with vigor. Ha-ha, the vigor of a turtle. I keep very busy most days, pursuing my hobbies and interests, and I am often away from my phone and computer.I am recently, happily divorced after a year long separation and generally still friends with my ex. Right now I am looking to date without serious commitments but if something serious develops, I can roll with it. I am very open minded and generally upbeat. I am a good listener. I like listening in general. I especially like listening to the humorous and interesting stories people like to tell about themselves. I love all kinds of music, really all kinds, country to rap, classical to techno, punk to opera, whatever, I'll like it. I think different types of music fit different moods and situations. I do not own a TV, which many people find to be only one of my countless charming oddities.If you are nice, considerate, open minded and fun guy that doesn't mind a lady with crazy pink hair, chat me up. If you love to talk about, even debate those things you shouldn't, like religion and politics, I'm right there with you! Would you rather be anywhere, doing practically anything before sitting down to watch television? Okay, I am probably asking too much there aren't I? A first date would occur only after a successful casual meet over coffee, a drink, a desert, etc. where both parties are attracted and interested enough for a first date.A great first date would be some where quiet enough to hear eachother speak without straining but with something specific to do so we could be silent if we choose. Like a museum, garden, park or other local amusments. It wouldn't really matter exactly where because the focus would be on having fun and casually getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Basketball
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