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Lela, 43
United States, New York, Hempstead

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About Me

I work for an international technology-based non-profit company and it's very rewarding! I travel a lot for work, both within the US and internationally. I'd love to meet someone who might be up for meeting me at the tail end of international meetings for a little exploring! I also like thrift stores, flea markets and garage sales, hanging out watching movies, and cooking exotic meals. I like people who are smart, funny, goal-oriented, artistic, and compassionate.-conformists. People involved in any form of subculture or counterculture are the people I relate to best. I admire people who are always looking for ways to broaden their minds and are open to new ideas and are interested in learning new things. I would like to meet someone who has a goal that they are working toward and who has a plan for where they're going.I'm very lucky to have more than a few very close friends and a great family, and I love spending time with them. I always try to make time to learn new things and expand my mind. Experiencing new and interesting things is very important to me. I feel that I don't have much in common with people who are static in life and who don't see the opportunities and growth that come with change. I don't like people who are bigoted or mean spirited. Drama and jealousy are major turn-offs. I guess the first date could be drinks (I don't drink coffee...). Second date? Anything out of the norm!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a christian woman looking for a christian man! I have two children that are grown and a grandson that is three years old. I love to do almost anything, but my favorite thing that I enjoy the most is spending time with my children, grandson, family, and friends. I go to church every week. I love to read, watch movies, travel, and try new things. If you are still married or in love with your ex, please do not contact me! I do not have tattoos and I do not like them. I don't understand why people want to mark up their bodies. Art work should be on a canvas, not someone's body. I want someone that is honest, loyal, and faithful. If you are not these things, please don't contact me. I don't have time for games. If you have depression, alcohol, or drug issues, please don't contact me.My grandson is the love of my life and he comes first. So if you are are too needy or have a problem with that, then you may want to look for someone that doesn't have children/grandchildren. If you are on here just looking for games or someone to sleep with, I'm not interested. You should be honest and list that on your profile. There are women out there that are looking for that, I'm not one of them. If you can't afford to buy a lady dinner, then you shouldn't be on here. I think men should be men and ladies should be ladies. I'm from the old school where men should pay for dinner, not the other way around. For those of you that don't believe and God or say that you aren't religious, I pray that one day you do believe and that you do have a relationship with him one day. Saying that you don't believe in God is like saying that you don't believe in the air that we breathe. He is very real, just as the air we breathe and we need both to live. I know that some people are turned off by the church or by people who claim to be a Christian, just remember we are all human and we all make mistakes everyday! My first date I would like to go to dinner and see if we are compatible. If not, we can part as friends. If so, we can plan a second date.

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