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Mercedes, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

Offline, last seen Thu, 01 Jan 2026 13:46:24

About Me

Hello there! Okay, here's a little bit about myself...I am a Guidance Counselor in a public K-8 school. I love my job and wouldn't want to do anything else. To make this easier, I asked some friends to describe me and here are the results: fun-loving, sweet, adventurous, motivated, family oriented, considerate of other's feelings, and energetic. I am quick-to-smile and somewhat inquisitive! I enjoy all sorts of activities and will pretty much try anything once - I’ve gone sky diving, cliff diving and accomplished the knee-hang catch on a flying trapeze! I enjoy fine dining, traveling to tropical islands, rollerblading, roller coasters, hiking, some snow skiing, pistol shooting, obstacle/adventure running/races (i.e.: Tough Mudder 2x), and CrossFit for exercise! I am the type that loves getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant one night and maybe camping out by a fire the next; I can suit the occasion and enjoy doing so. I spent a great deal of time in college and working hard. I own my own home and am financially independent. Ive had several (very) long term relationships (8 years, 7 years, and 6 years each) and although none of them developed into a life-long future, I feel that I am a better person because of them.I have fulfilled all of my academic and career goals and hope to meet a man who has done the same...hence, who is ready for a committed relationship. I am looking for someone who I can share myself with - someone who will be my love, as well as my best friend. I am finally ready to meet the man who I am meant to be with. Although I am not looking for a relationship that is only "convenient", I have tried the long-distance thing once or twice and have found it difficult. I do also understand that everyone is on their best behavior during the get-to-know-you stage...which is why I do not tend to jump into things. I will try to be as up-front as possible in this.Having said that, I prefer to meet sooner than later. As much as I appreciate good writing technique, as illustrated in *** &/or text messages, I would much rather meet early on to determine if there is a spark between us - which is absolutely necessary!! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Thai Turkish Family & Kids Music Thriller Basketball Dance
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  • Becky from Hempstead | Woman | 45 years old | Virgo
    Becky

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a christian woman looking for a christian man! I have two children that are grown and a grandson that is three years old. I love to do almost anything, but my favorite thing that I enjoy the most is spending time with my children, grandson, family, and friends. I go to church every week. I love to read, watch movies, travel, and try new things. If you are still married or in love with your ex, please do not contact me! I do not have tattoos and I do not like them. I don't understand why people want to mark up their bodies. Art work should be on a canvas, not someone's body. I want someone that is honest, loyal, and faithful. If you are not these things, please don't contact me. I don't have time for games. If you have depression, alcohol, or drug issues, please don't contact me.My grandson is the love of my life and he comes first. So if you are are too needy or have a problem with that, then you may want to look for someone that doesn't have children/grandchildren. If you are on here just looking for games or someone to sleep with, I'm not interested. You should be honest and list that on your profile. There are women out there that are looking for that, I'm not one of them. If you can't afford to buy a lady dinner, then you shouldn't be on here. I think men should be men and ladies should be ladies. I'm from the old school where men should pay for dinner, not the other way around. For those of you that don't believe and God or say that you aren't religious, I pray that one day you do believe and that you do have a relationship with him one day. Saying that you don't believe in God is like saying that you don't believe in the air that we breathe. He is very real, just as the air we breathe and we need both to live. I know that some people are turned off by the church or by people who claim to be a Christian, just remember we are all human and we all make mistakes everyday! My first date I would like to go to dinner and see if we are compatible. If not, we can part as friends. If so, we can plan a second date.

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  • Dale from Hempstead | Woman | 41 years old | Aries
    Dale

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well, as a single mom of a 3-yeat-old, my time is rarely my own. Hobbies are something I hope to resume as my child gets older and more involved with school activities. In other words, school activities will likely become my hobbies in a couple years. :-)I really don't want to spend a lot of time trying to convey who I am here when a phone call or two and/or meeting for coffee would tell both of us *** there's any chemistry worth pursuing. That said, I must also tell you that I have very limited availability. Babysitters cost money, and as a 1-income household, we don't have an overabundance of that. So I choose who gets that very precious time with great care. If you don't have pics up on your profile, or are cagey about means of contact, I will not reply. And in the interest of full disclosure, let's get right to the heart of it: I don't require rescuing, but after the # of guys I've talked to that have all been taken advantage of most grievously by conniving, selfish women, I've concluded that guys say they want an independent woman, but at the end of the day, they want to be the hero.-do list. Oh, and he also has to sweep me off my feet. ;-)

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  • Peggy from Hempstead | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mom of two awesome boys. I am a kindergarten PE and music teacher and I love my job! It is the best job I could have ever asked for! I am a very bubbly woman that loves to laugh, dance, and have a good time with family and friends. I love being outdoors whether its swimming, 4- I have been described by my friends as a very outgoing, on the go, funny, never meet a stranger kind of woman. If you have any questions or want to chat feel free to send me a line... ..FYI-If you are just looking for a hook up keep fishing cause I'm not biting!! Meet somewhere to chat, get to know each other.

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