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Mercedes, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

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Hello there! Okay, here's a little bit about myself...I am a Guidance Counselor in a public K-8 school. I love my job and wouldn't want to do anything else. To make this easier, I asked some friends to describe me and here are the results: fun-loving, sweet, adventurous, motivated, family oriented, considerate of other's feelings, and energetic. I am quick-to-smile and somewhat inquisitive! I enjoy all sorts of activities and will pretty much try anything once - I’ve gone sky diving, cliff diving and accomplished the knee-hang catch on a flying trapeze! I enjoy fine dining, traveling to tropical islands, rollerblading, roller coasters, hiking, some snow skiing, pistol shooting, obstacle/adventure running/races (i.e.: Tough Mudder 2x), and CrossFit for exercise! I am the type that loves getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant one night and maybe camping out by a fire the next; I can suit the occasion and enjoy doing so. I spent a great deal of time in college and working hard. I own my own home and am financially independent. Ive had several (very) long term relationships (8 years, 7 years, and 6 years each) and although none of them developed into a life-long future, I feel that I am a better person because of them.I have fulfilled all of my academic and career goals and hope to meet a man who has done the same...hence, who is ready for a committed relationship. I am looking for someone who I can share myself with - someone who will be my love, as well as my best friend. I am finally ready to meet the man who I am meant to be with. Although I am not looking for a relationship that is only "convenient", I have tried the long-distance thing once or twice and have found it difficult. I do also understand that everyone is on their best behavior during the get-to-know-you stage...which is why I do not tend to jump into things. I will try to be as up-front as possible in this.Having said that, I prefer to meet sooner than later. As much as I appreciate good writing technique, as illustrated in *** &/or text messages, I would much rather meet early on to determine if there is a spark between us - which is absolutely necessary!! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Thai Turkish Family & Kids Music Thriller Basketball Dance
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hey. Thanks for stopping by and reading my profile. My interests include, my family, my animals (a Miniature Longhair Dachshund and 6 kitty cats), working on the computer, music, and many, many more. I love most animals except those with more legs than my 'puppy' or fewer legs than me. {GRIN}Wow this is really hard.I am open, honest, affectionate, intelligent, and passionate. I am a caring, bighearted, sort of stubborn {}, think out of the box person who believes in equality. But most importantly, I try to live by the golden rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.Hmmm.....now what? I don't really like crowds, so movie debuts wouldn't be a very good idea nor would a concert. A walk in the park or drive along the beach might be good for starters.I am an old-fashioned girl so opening doors, pulling out chairs, (you know that pesky chivalry stuff) those go a long way in the impression area. Flattery will only get you so far, your inner beauty will get you so much farther. {smile} Each situation is different and each person is different, so I think anything we can agree on that will allow us to talk and get to know each other better would be good.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun loving woman looking for someone to share fun with. I have an 18 year old son who lives at home and goes to college. I am confident, independent and overall happy with my life and am enjoying my career. It would be nice to find that guy God has intended for me, who would bring out the best in me, but who would also let mehelp bring out the best in him. I want to find someone to share the good, the bad and everything in between. I think a first date is to get the nervousness out of the way and to learn about each other. I think going to eat is a great way to do this. If both of us feel comfortable with going for a walk in a park, or driving around town would be a good way to continue learning about each other.

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  • Carolyn from Hempstead | Woman | 45 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a happy, down-to-earth woman with a kind, easy-going personality. I’m honest, a patient listener, an enthusiastic talker. I live a fairly active life and have a demanding career, but still enjoy spending time with someone that has similar interests. I love dining out, cooking, taking photos, reading, and relaxing outdoor activities. I enjoy music and catching live bands and spending time at the beach or pool. My musical tastes are all over the place, I love hard rock and metal, and a wide variety of music I grew up with from the 60s, 70s and 80s. The man I’d be happy to spend time with is friendly guy with confidence and character. I think it’s smart to become friends first, and then see if a more meaningful relationship develops over time. It would be great to have someone in my life who is honest and fun to share experiences with. I have a warm heart and an enjoyable life, and it would be fun to share them with a man who is intelligent, caring and a positive thinker. Meeting for coffee or drinks and conversation.

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