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Mercedes, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

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Hello there! Okay, here's a little bit about myself...I am a Guidance Counselor in a public K-8 school. I love my job and wouldn't want to do anything else. To make this easier, I asked some friends to describe me and here are the results: fun-loving, sweet, adventurous, motivated, family oriented, considerate of other's feelings, and energetic. I am quick-to-smile and somewhat inquisitive! I enjoy all sorts of activities and will pretty much try anything once - I’ve gone sky diving, cliff diving and accomplished the knee-hang catch on a flying trapeze! I enjoy fine dining, traveling to tropical islands, rollerblading, roller coasters, hiking, some snow skiing, pistol shooting, obstacle/adventure running/races (i.e.: Tough Mudder 2x), and CrossFit for exercise! I am the type that loves getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant one night and maybe camping out by a fire the next; I can suit the occasion and enjoy doing so. I spent a great deal of time in college and working hard. I own my own home and am financially independent. Ive had several (very) long term relationships (8 years, 7 years, and 6 years each) and although none of them developed into a life-long future, I feel that I am a better person because of them.I have fulfilled all of my academic and career goals and hope to meet a man who has done the same...hence, who is ready for a committed relationship. I am looking for someone who I can share myself with - someone who will be my love, as well as my best friend. I am finally ready to meet the man who I am meant to be with. Although I am not looking for a relationship that is only "convenient", I have tried the long-distance thing once or twice and have found it difficult. I do also understand that everyone is on their best behavior during the get-to-know-you stage...which is why I do not tend to jump into things. I will try to be as up-front as possible in this.Having said that, I prefer to meet sooner than later. As much as I appreciate good writing technique, as illustrated in *** &/or text messages, I would much rather meet early on to determine if there is a spark between us - which is absolutely necessary!! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Thai Turkish Family & Kids Music Thriller Basketball Dance
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  • Miriam from Hempstead | Woman | 44 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Uh, don't u just hate having to fill these things out? lol..Well, div & mom of 2..gr mother of 3 i love meeting new people & making new friends, not looking for anything but open to seeing what could come of this..if "Mr.Right" is really out there, let fate takes it's course. All good things come to those who wait or so it's always been said. If so, i'm in for one heck of a treat lol..I'm a simple, down to earth kinda woman & unlike most I'm not hard to please like keeping it real..i have no time for drama or the games most want to play & totally faithful to the one i'm with & expect no less than the same in return. Any ?'s..just ask..I promise I won't bite lol..so if ur into childish games or assume Im like the rest of the women some of u talk to and looking for one night stands or your sex talk..pass this one by..i talk to mature..non game players only Would be nice to be surprised for a change..but shh..lean closely..will tell u I do love music..dancing..candles and quiet moonlit nights..so u tell me what u would suggest for a change..can u catch my eye?

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  • Elnora from Hempstead | Woman | 43 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I've been single now for a while and I am now ready to start a new relationship. I am open and ready for something real. I am ultimately looking for a life partner but that doesn't mean I am into rushing things or not interested in making new friends. I have a good, stable life and I am content with where I am. I would like to find someone with similar interests and goals to build a relationship with. A little about me: I am honest, independent, strong, smart and passionate. But I am also a woman, and therefore, like to be pampered sometimes and do not like to be in charge of killing bugs or chasing away the boogey man (though, I WILL if I MUST ;-). I also like talking for hours on end, usually about nothing, and hope that you are willing to not only listen to at least half of it, but also contribute to the conversation. I believe communication, friendship and respect are the cornerstones of good relationships. I prefer laid back, casual first meetings. Somewhere we can get to know each other a little with few distractions.

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  • Yolanda from Hempstead | Woman | 41 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    What to say? I tend to over-think what I should put on this profile. If I write too much does everything get read? If I write too little do I seem serious about looking to meet my someone special? In the end, I really think it just comes down to what pictures are posted, which really isn't fair considering not everyone takes a good picture and you can't hear an infectious laugh or feel a warm caress in a few words and pictures on a profile. But... Strong, confident, and according to most write ups the life of the party... I don't know if it's all true and if it is......Heart On Sleeve Me?Lately I have been working a lot. Currently I am up to 40lbs lost, I lift weights a bit, work on the cardio, attempt to sprint periodically, and I teach water aerobics two nights a week. I love riding the bike path and taking my dogs for walks/ hikes.When I'm not working or going to the gym, I do what everyone else does. I walk my dogs, clean my house, veg out in front of the T.V, catch up with friends, mow the yard, etc. I would like to throw some more fun things in there, like hit a museum or two or drive somewhere new and see what can be discovered. Canoeing is fun but need a buddy. Wanna go? We can discuss that later if we get that far. But I love to travel, just haven't for a while outside of heading to R.I. to hang with some good friends who are like family. There are some places I haven't been that I would like to see, and some I would love to see again, as well as visit some friends I haven't seen in ages.Not sure what else I should say. I think I have rambled on pretty well and you have an idea of what I am like. Maybe? Sort of? Well, hopefully you see enough that you decide to drop me a line. If you are decent, hard working, caring, and just...yourself, please feel free to drop me a line. I am not looking for anyone trying to impress. I do believe we have to have things in common so please consider--I work out, I have a degree, I work 40 hours a week at one job, I like animals, etc. Not saying we need have everything in common but I'm not looking for casual sex. So in the end, there has to be something to talk about.I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect, just Mr. Perfect for me...Chrissy Let's get to know each other and go from there...

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