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Lilian, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

Offline, last seen Wed, 26 Nov 2025 13:45:35

About Me

I’ The youngest of four, my mother always said that I would be the only one to leave, and she was right. Thirteen years later I've never looked back except of course for holidays to visit my large extended family and to snowboard, because really…PA and WVA mountains really aren't mountains. To liven things up a bit in the last couple of years I have gone skydiving gone zip- You may have seen my Carnival cruise ship on the news recently (grrr): The Legend...we "missed" two ports but made it to Honduras and Cozumel in March.I try and schedule a few ***k’s throughout the year with a mudder thrown in here and there.’t plan to do again = Brutal! I play on a social co-ed softball team in the spring and summer months once a week and recently joined Ballston CrossFit and I absolutely love it! I made it to about 20 Nats games last year and enjoyed 2 playoff games before the worst defeat ever...grrr! I am ready to see a lot of Curly W's this year! Go Nats! Don’t judge, but I love to dance around to Miley and the Biebs from time to time, but to set things right in the world again I’ll switch it up to some Metallica/AC/DC/80’s faves Poison and Def Leppard!I have an amazing group of friends and enjoy spending time with them and tearing it up with my girls here and there dancing the night away to some local cover band in ARL. I also enjoy a simple chill day watching sitcom/movie marathons snuggled up on the couch under a mountain of blankets. I love going to the movies and it helps that a cine is right across the street from where I live. I enjoy thrillers, dramas, romantic comedies (c’mon I am a chick after all), and dry humor faves, ie: Old School, The Hangover, Ted, etc.I am a part-time Graduate Student as well and slowly but surely one day I plan to earn my MBA. I seem to be quite busy but I afford myself some downtime as well. I would enjoy meeting someone with similar interests and goals. Someone who is kind, honest, considerate and although I can certainly open my own door would like someone that doesn't think chivalry is dead. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian South American Turkish Comedy Fantasy Music Motorcycle Racing Nascar Sailing
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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