Total users: 60,872,141 Online users: 218,842
Barbara, 45
United States, New York, Hempstead

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 12:28:56

About Me

I am a Mom, employee, daughter, and friend.....I have lots of people that count on me to be there. The rest just kinda happens and falls into place. My life seems to be changing right before me.....I'm enjoying every minute of it and finding many new things I like to par-take in......I enjoy many different activities. It all depends upon the hat I am wearing that day. Everything can be fun depending upon the company.....I listen to all types of music, it also depends upon my hat for the day....from oldies to heavy metal...prefer metal.....With my boys grown and their life planned out........That means that, I have alot more free time to spoil the man that chooses to be in my life.....life is too short to be unhappy very long, or to deal with lies, so please don't waste my time if you tell them....... I try to keep the drama to the lowest level that I can. Recent events make me add this statement!!!! IF you cant have a first conversation without asking me about what im looking for or sexual expectations dont bother wasting my time.....I ask that you say what you mean, and mean what you say. you must be a gentleman. you must have some dreams that you are willing to go after and not afraid to achieve them with a good woman at your side.....I will do my best to spoil you, and be there good or bad....I wont run from a few detours....its the little things that mean the most to me.....I love lightning and thunderstorms and sitting in the swing under the gazebo watching the rain and a fire in the firepit....I'm a flip flop kinda girl. I also like my cowboy boots. I clean up decent for a night out on the town or can be very comfortable playing pool, mini golf, at the movie, the park, hell, I'm game for nearly anything. Although I prefer the outside in good weather. I am a deck, swimming pool, bbq, friend, and family type a girl....as long as I can find some time for painting my nails!!!! LOLCamping and canoeing and 4X4ing are some favorites too.I tend to keep busy and always find someting to do as I might miss something cool to do....Sleep is way overrated!!!!Thanks for reading and have a great day!!!!! If there is something I might have left out feel free to drop me a line!!! Depends upon what we agree upon....It should be somewhat quiet so we can talk to each other. Fun, low-key and stress free....Just be ourselves and go from there...hugs are way more personal then handshakes.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese French Action Adult Sci-Fi
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Dena from Hempstead | Woman | 42 years old | Aries
    Dena

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    if u want to meet me, be sure to view me and message me if you want to meet at some point.. im not into endless txt. im a fun engergetic lady, i love to laugh, and i will always keep you on your toes. i love my sports, ou and a huge hockey fan.. im driven and speak my mind.. looking for someone caring, honest and compassionate. open for discussion

    Chat
  • Karin from Hempstead | Woman | 44 years old | Capricorn
    Karin

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm not here to use any special or tricky bait..What u see is what you get and that's "ME"..I'm a Texan with a twist of Country & City girl in Me. I'm known for my humor and quick wit, I enjoy being a giver not a taker which others have mistaken my kindness for taking advantage of me." Don't forget I'm a TEXAN...NOT GONNA HAPPEN.. People feel comfortable and open around me and easy to have conversation with. I am single for a REASON...I'm looking to find that one GUY that I want to give and share my heart and life with. Someone that I desire to grow old with.Someone that awakens my mind, body and soul..I want a complete connection. If you don't understand that last statement then you shouldn't even message me.If you don't have the desire to invest 100%.

    Chat
  • Abigail from Hempstead | Woman | 42 years old | Aries
    Abigail

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ready to travel the world, one step at a time. Enjoy listening to music of all kinds, writing stories. Seeking to meet new people from all walks of life and have some really good time with.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: