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well time to write a new profile.... no clue what to say! Feels so bloody awkward doesn't it? Online dating - whoda thunk? Best way to meet opposite sex nowadays it seems. First off if you are looking for a one night stand, fwb or just aren't "ready",,, i'm not going thru that again.... just move on, not meaning to be rude it's just i am not looking for a one night thing. Also if we don't "click' or if you're not interested, please have the courtesy of telling me and NOT using a "kind lie"... i like honesty and the truth.I will just begin I guess. I am an attractive, tall with long brunette hair and green/blue eyes. I am curvy, open minded and rather humorous I'm told. I enjoy good conversations with people in all sorts of situations. My interests vary in so many ways from music, art, movies, nature, children to enjoying good company. Learning new things is a passion of mine and I am a question asker - everyone can teach someone something.Let's see... i have used this site for a bit and I STILL feel sorta stupid writing this stuff! ...... Honesty is THE biggest thing to me - lies are pointless and stupid and I'd rather forgive a man for doing something wrong than lying about it. I don't hold grudges and don't get vindictive. I guess I'm looking for some casual but often, fun and dating. Going out once in awhile or staying in and enjoying each other's company. Not a high maintenance woman, sure being treated special is great but I am not a 23 year old with childish needs. If we like each other then it should come naturally to indulge each other I figure. Being a single mom can be rough at times but I love it and luckily my girl's dad sees her often so I do have free time. For work I do what I can and find enjoyment in it when i can (but let's face it ... it's work!! LOL ) but luckily I freelance and sculpt at home and that keeps me happy and lets my creative side out. I do insist on seeing a photo of a man who wishes to contact me, doesn't need to be right away, but fair is fair - my picts are on here - send me one ok? Message me and let's see.... I will be putting up newer photos asap... and as a male friend says "what the hell does the rest of her look like???" I shall post more than head shots! :) Meeting for drinks (soft or hard - doesn't matter really) at a pub/lounge is good, background music & comfortable atmosphere. I'm pretty much game for most things... a mutual decision is good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-34

    Hi! My name is Shawnay. I am never married other native american woman with kids from Dover, Delaware, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Wilma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    If you can compromise without compromising yourself.If you can change without losing your uniqueness.If you can grow without growing apart.If you can give without losing anything.If you can open up without being judged.If you can disagree without arguing.If you can feel without losing control.If you can keep the passion alive in a long-term relationship.If you can be mature without losing the child within you.If you would rather blaze new trails *** following the beaten path.I would love to talk and get to know youBut just rememberYou cannot be known unless you open your heartYou cannot love without being vulnerableYou cannot be intimate without taking a riskYou cannot share feelings in a non-supportive environmentYou cannot enter a relationship demanding a guaranteeYou cannot be interdependent unless you are first independent.You cannot be controlling and spontaneous at the same time.You cannot be alive without making mistakes.You cannot realize your dreams if you do not have well defined goals.You cannot grow unless you learn from your mistakes.You cannot forgive another until you've forgiven yourself first.You cannot heal a broken heart until you are willing to risk it againAfter a while,I have learned the subtle difference...between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and I have learned that love doesn't mean leaning...and companionship doesn't mean security. And I have begun to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises. And I now accept my defeats with my head held high and with my eyes wide open, with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. And I have learned to build my roads on TODAY because tomorrow's ground is far to uncertain for plans, and that futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. So I've learned to plant my own garden...and decorate my own soul, *** waiting for someone to bring me flowers. And I have learned that I really can endure...That I really am strong... and with every goodbye...I learn. I will not ask you for bouquets of roses, candle lit dinners, or walks along the beaches at midnight in the romantic moonlight...because roses just wilt, and die...candles burn out, and of course we know that the moon must leave to start out reality of a new day. I will however, ask for your frienship..and your love...and your understanding because those thing will forever grow, burn... And shine.

  • Wilma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a mom who is going it on her own after a long marriage. This is something I never thought I would be doing!! I am looking for someone I can have fun with, while I figure out my new goals. I feel like meetville is missing an important choice in the what your looking for department... How about a lets date and see where it takes us choice? LOL, I am a bigger girl but don't let that scare you.... I am intelligent, confident, sure of myself and full of fire!!! I don't have my picture posted because I am VERY well known in the valley and being new to online dating, I am kind of shy about everyone knowing I am on here. I enjoy having friends over for bbqs, dinners and parties. I love to go out and dance :) I am just as comfortable spending time at home with the family as I am in a big crowd of people and try to enjoy my life in everything I do. We are here for a good time, not a long time, I want to make the best of "all the time" and try to live life to its fullest while keeping those around me happy. I am not self centered, greedy or a diva.... but I do have many hidden talents..... I promise ;) Taste in music?. I love current music too, but country not so much.. except a few songs. I have a wide range of musical likes, and always love to give the DJ a "set" to play when I go out... I grew up in a big city and have a million cool concert stories to tell... I can speak intelligently on just about any subject... really, I would be great on Jeopardy or Millionaire... or the cash cab LOL... I laugh a lot and smile even more, its just my nature to try to find the good in the worst of situations... and if there is a problem to be solved, I might just do that too. Well, this is a toughie since its been so long since I have had a first date LOLI have always thought that a Korean Grill would be a great place to go for a first date, lots of time to chat and get to know each other and also a different yet cool experience. However, we don't have that here.... lolMaybe a dinner or lunch would be better, or a movie, or a bush cruise, boat ride..trip to the hotsprings, day at the lake... I don't know.... anyone have any ideas??

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