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Nelda, 41

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About Me

well time to write a new profile.... no clue what to say! Feels so bloody awkward doesn't it? Online dating - whoda thunk? Best way to meet opposite sex nowadays it seems. First off if you are looking for a one night stand, fwb or just aren't "ready",,, i'm not going thru that again.... just move on, not meaning to be rude it's just i am not looking for a one night thing. Also if we don't "click' or if you're not interested, please have the courtesy of telling me and NOT using a "kind lie"... i like honesty and the truth.I will just begin I guess. I am an attractive, tall with long brunette hair and green/blue eyes. I am curvy, open minded and rather humorous I'm told. I enjoy good conversations with people in all sorts of situations. My interests vary in so many ways from music, art, movies, nature, children to enjoying good company. Learning new things is a passion of mine and I am a question asker - everyone can teach someone something.Let's see... i have used this site for a bit and I STILL feel sorta stupid writing this stuff! ...... Honesty is THE biggest thing to me - lies are pointless and stupid and I'd rather forgive a man for doing something wrong than lying about it. I don't hold grudges and don't get vindictive. I guess I'm looking for some casual but often, fun and dating. Going out once in awhile or staying in and enjoying each other's company. Not a high maintenance woman, sure being treated special is great but I am not a 23 year old with childish needs. If we like each other then it should come naturally to indulge each other I figure. Being a single mom can be rough at times but I love it and luckily my girl's dad sees her often so I do have free time. For work I do what I can and find enjoyment in it when i can (but let's face it ... it's work!! LOL ) but luckily I freelance and sculpt at home and that keeps me happy and lets my creative side out. I do insist on seeing a photo of a man who wishes to contact me, doesn't need to be right away, but fair is fair - my picts are on here - send me one ok? Message me and let's see.... I will be putting up newer photos asap... and as a male friend says "what the hell does the rest of her look like???" I shall post more than head shots! :) Meeting for drinks (soft or hard - doesn't matter really) at a pub/lounge is good, background music & comfortable atmosphere. I'm pretty much game for most things... a mutual decision is good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well hello to all you wonderful men out there.. A little about myself, well this is never easy but here goes..My friends tell me I am easy going and down to earth. I love all sorts of outdoor activites. I have 2 beautiful boys who are the lite of my life...I enjoy swimming as I am a pisces!! My favorite music is Country, but I listen to all types. I enjoy going to the movies, or just relaxing at home in front of the fireplace. I enjoy all types of food, but right now my favorite is sushi. I am looking for an honest fun loving guy to build a friendship with and if all goes well possibly something else...I am not into games as I have been there done that.. Hope to hear from you soon. well my idea of the perfect first date...mmmmmm perhaps a home made candle light dinner, some soft music, a glass of wine...its hard to say...going to a pub for some pub grub and game a pool also sounds good...or walking on the beach and bringing a picnic lunch(weather permitting)....I'm sure that whatever we decide for a first date would be perfect...Smiles

  • Tami

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a genuine and sensitive soul. I live and let live and want to find the same. I love being outdoors and sharing my time with friends and family. I love animals, nature, anything artistic, movies and cuddling!If you want to know more..... send me a message! I want any man I date to be both romantic and a gentleman. I am open to a goodnight kiss!

  • Roxie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I was in the prairies visiting family and friends recently and realized that living here has turned me into a bit of a hipster snob. Plaid shirts make you a hipster?? Who knew. :) ... I'm pleasant, polite, mellow, down to earth, a bit introverted, and tactfully honest. I have no interest in lying to you because I hate being lied to. Maybe I'm naive, but I think men should take more of a chance and women should stop being such ****es. (that's a huge over-generalization, but its the dreaded online dating circle we've created) I wish we could treat each other with a little more kindness and respect, as hard as it may be sometimes. We need to let our guard down and stop thinking that because someone is friendly to you on the street that they want you to donate to Greenpeace FFS!!! (cue the hate mail... 3 .. 2.. 1)Sooo anyway... I work from home and am feeling a little home-bound lately, so it would be great to meet some fun and cool new people outside the circle. Let's get together for burger and beer and talk about nothing. I've made a couple of really good friends online and would be into making more... but I don't really want to "date around" per se, it would be awesome to meet someone and we really like each other and we eventually decide to move forward together in an orderly or disorderly fashion... but I know that kind of spark is rare. We all have our 'types' but you do not need to live up to any expectations. Just be you and I'll be me.Cheers!PS: Sorry but I won't agree to meet you after one quick *** don't want to gab online forever either, but I need to get a sense of who you are first. If that's a problem I apologize, but a girl needs to be smart these days. Also, I'm not really a stunt double. (already caught my first non-profile reader with that one!) How about lunch? Oh that's copyrighted. OK.. you, me, food. No interviews, something fun and we laugh.

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