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Audra, 41

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About Me

What am I looking for? Well I want pretty much what everyone wants. I want to be loved and cherished. I want someone to make me laugh until I cry yet I need that same person to comfort me when life is tough and I don’t feel like laughing. I want a partner that I share a lot in common with yet we have our own interests and maybe, mostly importantly, I want someone that understands open and honest communication is the only way a relationship can be successful. I can’t read your mind and you can’t read mind so let’s be adult about this and say how we feel.On a more personal note I need someone that will go to DQ with me at 10:45pm to grab a blizzard for no other reason than I want one (happens very infrequently but when it does you better be ready). I need someone that loves animals as much as I do yet will understand, even if they are a vegetarian, that I also love to eat them (rabbit and deer not included cause, well, they’re cute). I want someone that loves all the quirky things about me such as my obsessive need to constantly twirl my hair (many have tried and failed to help me quit) and I need someone that will have my back as I have theirs.I know, I know, you’re all wondering what I bring to the table. Well here’s a short but not all inclusive list:- I’ You want cookies? Done! You want a cake? Done!- I’m pretty good a cribbage and kick butt at crazy eight count down.- I’m fairly informed even if I find most of the news out there depressing.- I may be 41 but I’ve been told I don’t act or look my age. I think this is a compliment.- I’m very active.- Although I like to joke around (mostly at my own expense) I have a serious side. I understand the importance of being respectful towards others, believe we are all entitled to our own opinions, feel equality is a necessity in this world and strive to constantly improve myself through self-reflection. Ok, I don’t want to overwhelm you all. : )So message me if you think we’d be a good match and although it won’t guarantee a response if you want to improve your chances you’ll need to include the word “” in your message. First date…hmmmm….I suggest that is an individual thing. I personally prefer to do something active but we can work out the details if and when the time comes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love to laugh,I like a variety of music and movies. I believe a life that is not lived for others is not worth living. I care about manners. I love animals and children. I love learning. I am not materialistic, but I like a guy with ambition. I am fascinated by other cultures, and going to museums. I would enjoy a date that is a little out of the ordinary-not a visit to a'do it yourself taxidermy' place....but a situation that allows us to get to know each other. Having said that, maybe just meeting for 'coffee' is best for a first meeting, as I have no desire to be stuck in a hot air ballon with a guy who knits sweaters for his pet ferrets.

  • Haley

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm loving my life. I feel happy, satisfied, confident, sexy, open, aware, optimistic, embodied, groovy, grateful. My life is cake. Ideally relationships are the icing - that which makes all of it just a little sweeter, and gooier.I don't think there is much point in trying to describe myself, since how I am (not who I am) can be a bit different with different people; I've just experienced that there seems to be a unique 'dance' to every relationship; different people bring out different aspects in me. Generally (and I think because I am a creative person), I enjoy being strong, focused and independent, and therefor I want a man who I can relax into; somebody who can be strong, confident, capable, centered, decisive. In terms of emotional compatibility, I adore generous, mature masculinity. And generally, I find that it is candour, transparency and congruence that makes a person courageous, attractive and trustworthy. I value being genuine and straightforward more than ever in my life. Perhaps that comes with age, I'm sure it does to some degree, either way, I find it a turn-on to meet love and life that way. Some of the things that I love in life... tearing around the endowment lands on horseback, animals (OMG where would we be without them!!!), music - can't begin to tell you how much, beauty/art/design/aesthetics, searing wit, receiving love!!, loving, dancing, authenticity, cuddles &- best cat in the universe, sheets, color, warmth, rainy days, time freedom, serial multiple orgasms, Europe, progressive thought and action, mayonnaise, DJ-ing, my soul, the rush you get when inspiration hits you, or when I am being bigger than myself (giving, generous, helpful), sexy text messages, the invulnerability you feel when you accept yourself, funky dressers, personal victories - I live for those!!!, perfume. Meow. Over to you... Let talk about first dates with their tendency to consist of: lots of posturing, awkward silences, reams of anxious chatter, fake laughter, sales pitches, clammy hands, agreeing on everything, bumping teeth with the first kiss and dying to say what we really feel... While we do all of that too like every other boy and girl on the planet on their first date.Then lets somehow fast forward 6 months down the line to where we are totally comfortable with each other and can actually be ourselves.

  • Margery

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    What to say in this little white box ? Do I use up all the lines telling all about me?? Do I leave some details to the imagination, is this all on a need to know basis?? Maybe a mix of all of it.Me: Sounds odd but I am ok being single, I like having say in the decisions about my holidays, movies I see, hobbies, etc etc. However, it's always more fun sharing these adventures with someone you like and care about so here I am looking for that special someone. My bucket list includes a " Plus 1 " .I love spending time with my kids, being active in their lives as well as having a variety of interests on my own. I believe in always trying new things, looking for new adventures " expanding ones's horizons "...and overall making the most out of the wonderful life I have been blessed with.You: Well I have spent many hours imagining what you might be like....I hope for someone who is honest and considerate, can make me laugh and still be there when I need the strong shoulder to cry on. Someone who accepts the life I have yet challenges me to try new things. I would like you to be my biggest fan , and I , in turn would be yours as well. My loyalty to people in my life knows no bounds, I trust and love with all my heart and hope to meet someone who shares the same passion in relationships.Can this work? I guess time will tell. If we can make each other laugh and have a good conversation, the first date will be a hit and we can make plans for an exciting date #2

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