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If you can compromise without compromising yourself.If you can change without losing your uniqueness.If you can grow without growing apart.If you can give without losing anything.If you can open up without being judged.If you can disagree without arguing.If you can feel without losing control.If you can keep the passion alive in a long-term relationship.If you can be mature without losing the child within you.If you would rather blaze new trails *** following the beaten path.I would love to talk and get to know youBut just rememberYou cannot be known unless you open your heartYou cannot love without being vulnerableYou cannot be intimate without taking a riskYou cannot share feelings in a non-supportive environmentYou cannot enter a relationship demanding a guaranteeYou cannot be interdependent unless you are first independent.You cannot be controlling and spontaneous at the same time.You cannot be alive without making mistakes.You cannot realize your dreams if you do not have well defined goals.You cannot grow unless you learn from your mistakes.You cannot forgive another until you've forgiven yourself first.You cannot heal a broken heart until you are willing to risk it againAfter a while,I have learned the subtle difference...between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and I have learned that love doesn't mean leaning...and companionship doesn't mean security. And I have begun to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises. And I now accept my defeats with my head held high and with my eyes wide open, with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child. And I have learned to build my roads on TODAY because tomorrow's ground is far to uncertain for plans, and that futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. So I've learned to plant my own garden...and decorate my own soul, *** waiting for someone to bring me flowers. And I have learned that I really can endure...That I really am strong... and with every goodbye...I learn. I will not ask you for bouquets of roses, candle lit dinners, or walks along the beaches at midnight in the romantic moonlight...because roses just wilt, and die...candles burn out, and of course we know that the moon must leave to start out reality of a new day. I will however, ask for your frienship..and your love...and your understanding because those thing will forever grow, burn... And shine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I was married for 16 years and have 2 beautiful children from that journey. My daughter is 17 and my son, 13. They are two of the most caring, polite and considerate kids and I could not be more proud! (I should perhaps mention that I AM divorced and separated for over 6 years now)I'm ultimately looking for a life long partner. Really bored of the dating scene although I know there is a process in finding true love and your soul mate.I'm a very down to earth person. Love to laugh, I've given up on getting my nails done (too high maintenance). However, I DO have standards and some may think they're high.I demand respect as I will respect you and any differences.I will NOT tolerate liars of any shape or form (and trust me, it's so easy for me to smell a lie)I understand the need for time on our own and our own interests. Trust is a must!Humour is an absolute must as well. I love to banter, I may be a little sarcastic but it's all in good fun!I want to GO DO STUFF! Tired of the dates of convenience... meaning you're only interest is sex. Don't get me wrong... I love sex too, but hey, lets be adventurous at the same time! While we're on the subject... Vanilla is great for baking (if you know what I mean).*** Don't bother sending me hate mail if I don't respond in a timely manner. I will block and report you. I do not spend endless hours on here and don't have time to respond to everyone... it's impossible. KIND, ORIGINAL MESSAGES WILL GET YOU EVERYWHERE, AND I'M SURE I'M NOT THE ONLY WOMAN WHO FEELS THIS WAY. Simple. Meet for a drink. I don't dig coffee meets unless we grab one and go for a walk. Not into the whole interview feeling.

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