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Haley, 45

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About Me

I'm loving my life. I feel happy, satisfied, confident, sexy, open, aware, optimistic, embodied, groovy, grateful. My life is cake. Ideally relationships are the icing - that which makes all of it just a little sweeter, and gooier.I don't think there is much point in trying to describe myself, since how I am (not who I am) can be a bit different with different people; I've just experienced that there seems to be a unique 'dance' to every relationship; different people bring out different aspects in me. Generally (and I think because I am a creative person), I enjoy being strong, focused and independent, and therefor I want a man who I can relax into; somebody who can be strong, confident, capable, centered, decisive. In terms of emotional compatibility, I adore generous, mature masculinity. And generally, I find that it is candour, transparency and congruence that makes a person courageous, attractive and trustworthy. I value being genuine and straightforward more than ever in my life. Perhaps that comes with age, I'm sure it does to some degree, either way, I find it a turn-on to meet love and life that way. Some of the things that I love in life... tearing around the endowment lands on horseback, animals (OMG where would we be without them!!!), music - can't begin to tell you how much, beauty/art/design/aesthetics, searing wit, receiving love!!, loving, dancing, authenticity, cuddles &- best cat in the universe, sheets, color, warmth, rainy days, time freedom, serial multiple orgasms, Europe, progressive thought and action, mayonnaise, DJ-ing, my soul, the rush you get when inspiration hits you, or when I am being bigger than myself (giving, generous, helpful), sexy text messages, the invulnerability you feel when you accept yourself, funky dressers, personal victories - I live for those!!!, perfume. Meow. Over to you... Let talk about first dates with their tendency to consist of: lots of posturing, awkward silences, reams of anxious chatter, fake laughter, sales pitches, clammy hands, agreeing on everything, bumping teeth with the first kiss and dying to say what we really feel... While we do all of that too like every other boy and girl on the planet on their first date.Then lets somehow fast forward 6 months down the line to where we are totally comfortable with each other and can actually be ourselves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyssa

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

    Hi! My name is Alyssa. I am never married other hispanic woman without kids from Dover, Delaware, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Ola

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Beyond the shell...It is who I am on the inside that really matters anyways. I am smart and sweet. I am very strong on the inside and out. I heard a quote I agree with about vulnerability being the most accurate measure of courage. I value authenticity, genuineness and depth. I am authentic and genuine on the inside and out. I won't even wear gel nails cause they are fake. A friend of mine described it as being practically impossible for me not to be real cause it is not in my psychological make up. I wouldn't say it is impossible, but it is very difficult and it goes against the core of my being. She comes from the corporate world, so I am different from most people she encounters. I am very honest. I mean what I say and say what I mean. I often live in my heart and feelings. I feel things deeply and intuitively. I am a pretty open book and most people know where they stand with me. I think people who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. I am very loyal, tenacious and analytical. I often hear I look around 30. I think that is ironic cause I often feel older than 41 cause I believe I possess maturity, wisdom, depth have lots of life experience. I am probably most interested in someone slightly older if I was attracted to them. The likelihood of a spiritual, psychological and emotional attraction would be higher and when we are all old and ugly someday that will be what absolutely matters. I am attracted to a powerful, attractive, successful gentleman with some substance, values and morals. What am I looking for? I am looking for love. I am looking for my best friend who I can build an impenetrable bond based on love, commitment, trust, respect, friendship and passion. I am not for the faint hearted. I want to grow old together holding hands. I want a forever and ever love. Why is this so hard to find? I love nice suppers and movies.

  • Delia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Smile! It increases your face value!Ok, so I just like to be honest and get things out on the table in the beginning so there are no surprises and hurt feelings. Nothing worse than starting something based on a lie. Like the girl who wears a push up bra to make her boobs look 2 sizes bigger, then you get her home and she is a small A cup. And you might be a boob man, so that means she baited you on a lie. That sucks.Here goes. I really do enjoy a lot of different activities, as shown on the big long list they ask us to fill in. And there are some things I'd like to try that I haven't done yet though. I have travelled to many great places, but again, there are more places, countries, etc...to see. And wouldn't these things all be more fun with a fun loving companion who you share your life with and love? I think so too.I have so much to offer to the right guy.; cook for you at home. I am loyal, respectful, passionate, fun, love to laugh, love the outdoors, considerate, exciting, understanding, lovable, very feminine, tender, sexy, adventurous, compassionate, soft, sharing, honest, spontaneous, giving, loving, sweet, generous, kind, artistic, a writer & a collector of girly things(LOL). Just for starters. I also have 2 tattoos & am planning on getting at least 3 more for now(Im working on 2 of the designs). I am the whole package that takes time to get to know. Life will be an adventure with me. The man for me must have a motorcycle. I love to ride & I do have my own gear. I just don't have a licence or my own bike yet.; would love to go again someday. And ya, I want my own bike someday. The guy I'm looking for also must not do drugs(ever), or be a Gemini. I know that sounds weird but it's like dating 2 different people at the same time. Dr. Jekkyl & Mr. Actually, the signs I am apparently compatible with are Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, and Capricorn. The man I'm looking for also needs to be at least 6' tall, Caucasian, be fit(does not mean skinny, but not into really big 'large' guys either, however, I do like a little meat on a guy though). He has to be into living a healthy lifestyle(not much junk food), be into nutrition, be an environmentalist, good positive living, be respectful, adventurous, & ok with trying new things. I also prefer if his kids are already over 18. I'm starting to get discouraged that the man I'm looking for doesn't exist. The whole package you know, with a nice looking face, heart & soul. I realize I'm asking for a lot with the specific things that I'm looking for, but that's just how I am. I'm also thinking that a guy no older than 50 & no younger than 35 would work for me too and have ***'t have a guy who doesn't understand social networking. Just for the best compatibility. There is more to that story too, just ask sometime when we meet. I have a lot of fun with life. No stress really, no grudges, no judgement, no guilt. I'm also looking to leave the clicky city of Lethbridge and go somewhere where people are nicer and more accepting of others.BTW, IF YOU WANT TO MEET ME, THEN MESSAGE ME. AND PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE...DON'T ADD ME TO A FAVORITES LIST. IT IS A USELESS TOOL THAT ACTS LIKE, AND LOOKS LIKE A POPULARITY CONTEST. OR LIKE COLLECTING FRIENDS YOU NEVER MET ON *** SERVES NO USEFUL PURPOSE FOR LIFE SKILLS. There, if you don't like it, to bad. That's life, and that's reality. There's a saying that says, "a boy makes his girl jealous of other women, but a real man makes other women jealous of his *** Lets meet for a drink first at a pub or get a Timmies and see where it goes. Having good conversation is a good start. I also like road trips, movies, mini golf, bowling, going to a pub/bar to watch a football game, and concerts.

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