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Esther, 43
United States, Delaware, Dover

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Dec 2025 02:16:16

About Me

People say I am confident, ambitious, down to earth, genuine, sweet, sexy, loyal, non judgmental, easy to get along with, logical, affectionate, feminine, classic, classy (pearls over bling), open minded, gentle personality, diplomatic, funny, likes to laugh & smile. Planner by nature and well organized. I am also emotionally secure, good self esteem, able to love. Enjoy lots of physical contact with someone special!!!! (smile). Sense of humor, Love communication, playfulness, openness, honestly. Eat healthy, mainly cycle, walk, read right now. I am in school full-time September: Paralegal Diploma Sept ***to ***. I am also working as a Realtor. I don't have much free time right now, and social activities come last,.... but I seem to be able to fit in some spontaneous fun. If you meet me you just might find out that I am worth the extra trouble!I like all types of fun from board games, chess, billiards, darts, to a variety of sports, to Sunday drives, fine dining to pub lunches, BBQ’s in the back yard with family & friends, small social dinners (I can cook), business/art events, movies, cooking. I like to celebrate special occasions. I am game to try new things!! I cycle (just got a new bike!) Can golf, play a little tennis if you help me, can snow board but would love to learn to ski. Like most types of music, including classical, jazz, blues, chill lounge, rock n roll. Notice I haven't included travel? With my academic schedule, I don't see travel being part of my life for a few years. If you are a travel nut then we might not be a match at this time in my life. I also don't like to go camping and fishing. Just saying.....I am attracted to Character & Charisma & Confidence,..& Chemistry (sexual chemistry) is very important to me also. I must admit I love a slightly older assertive man who is intelligent. Gray is in gentlemen! Attractive to me is the best fit and I melt when I see a man in suit...(or cute cycling shorts)... just saying. I am looking for a man who has his act together: emotionally, financially, employment- I live, work, play, and now go to school on the Northshore. DEAL KILLER:...... I just don't have time to commute and I will not move. I have a full life here, Sorry!!!Important things WE BOTH would possess: Welcoming personality, Confidence, Open minded, Positive outlook, Patience, friendly (nice to people), outgoing, confident in career & personal. Able to display affection physically!!!. Settled in life! (grounded locally) Openness. Stylish style. We both like clean organized homes, no pig sty's-no chaos... just saying... Both enjoy a balance of activities inside and outside the home as well as quiet times vs social activities, some physical activity vs down time. Sometimes a naughty steak but NO DRAMA! I am looking for a committed relationship and you should want a woman in your life, which includes us doing activities together.Please no players or men who just want a sexual relationship.... with several women at once! My heart can't take it. Anything where we can talk & listen and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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