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Esther, 43

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About Me

People say I am confident, ambitious, down to earth, genuine, sweet, sexy, loyal, non judgmental, easy to get along with, logical, affectionate, feminine, classic, classy (pearls over bling), open minded, gentle personality, diplomatic, funny, likes to laugh & smile. Planner by nature and well organized. I am also emotionally secure, good self esteem, able to love. Enjoy lots of physical contact with someone special!!!! (smile). Sense of humor, Love communication, playfulness, openness, honestly. Eat healthy, mainly cycle, walk, read right now. I am in school full-time September: Paralegal Diploma Sept ***to ***. I am also working as a Realtor. I don't have much free time right now, and social activities come last,.... but I seem to be able to fit in some spontaneous fun. If you meet me you just might find out that I am worth the extra trouble!I like all types of fun from board games, chess, billiards, darts, to a variety of sports, to Sunday drives, fine dining to pub lunches, BBQ’s in the back yard with family & friends, small social dinners (I can cook), business/art events, movies, cooking. I like to celebrate special occasions. I am game to try new things!! I cycle (just got a new bike!) Can golf, play a little tennis if you help me, can snow board but would love to learn to ski. Like most types of music, including classical, jazz, blues, chill lounge, rock n roll. Notice I haven't included travel? With my academic schedule, I don't see travel being part of my life for a few years. If you are a travel nut then we might not be a match at this time in my life. I also don't like to go camping and fishing. Just saying.....I am attracted to Character & Charisma & Confidence,..& Chemistry (sexual chemistry) is very important to me also. I must admit I love a slightly older assertive man who is intelligent. Gray is in gentlemen! Attractive to me is the best fit and I melt when I see a man in suit...(or cute cycling shorts)... just saying. I am looking for a man who has his act together: emotionally, financially, employment- I live, work, play, and now go to school on the Northshore. DEAL KILLER:...... I just don't have time to commute and I will not move. I have a full life here, Sorry!!!Important things WE BOTH would possess: Welcoming personality, Confidence, Open minded, Positive outlook, Patience, friendly (nice to people), outgoing, confident in career & personal. Able to display affection physically!!!. Settled in life! (grounded locally) Openness. Stylish style. We both like clean organized homes, no pig sty's-no chaos... just saying... Both enjoy a balance of activities inside and outside the home as well as quiet times vs social activities, some physical activity vs down time. Sometimes a naughty steak but NO DRAMA! I am looking for a committed relationship and you should want a woman in your life, which includes us doing activities together.Please no players or men who just want a sexual relationship.... with several women at once! My heart can't take it. Anything where we can talk & listen and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kayla

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    About me:Hmmm, well, I have been single for almost 2 years now. I am not actively seeking a relationship, in my experience relationships happen when you least expect, so I am not going to limit myself by saying I am not interested in having a relationship, because that could eliminate the possibility before it even happens. Let's just say that I am open to anything that may or may not transpire. Don't get me wrong, I love the feeling of being in love, it's a great feeling to know that you are special and important to someone, and to feel needed.I chuckle at the men on here that claim to have athletic bodies, when clearly this is not the case. I guess athletic describes my body type best, as I don't really fit in to any of the categories offered. I do get plenty of exercise, but I am not rock hard, I am slender and petite.A friend once said to me, "Life is about choices, and I think if people just thought about things a little harder, then it could reduce the chance of regret later on." Life is way too short to live with regret as I am beginning to learn. I am still a work in progress, I am great at giving advice, but like a lot of people, I have a hard time practicing what I preach. My philosophy is to keep it simple, and not sweat the small stuff.I absolutely love music, without it I think the world would be a pretty dismal place. I listen to a lot of different types, I am a rocker at heart, but lately I have been listening to folk/rock music, but Tool is one of my favorite bands. I like to sing and I also like to dance, I was in a dance company in my youth, I mostly did contemporary, some modern, and a little ballet as well as 6 years of competitive gymnastics. I love to travel, I have been to a few countries so far, and plan on exploring as many as possible in the rest of my time here.I am friendly, pretty outgoing, and no dummy, I know a little about a lot of things, and sometimes I surprise myself when I play jeopardy. My mind is full of a lot of random information and facts that can come in handy from time to time. I like a man who holds the door open for me, chivalry is not dead in my world. You don't have to have impeccable manners, but if every second word that comes out of your mouth is f*ck this and f*uck that, then it's not going to happen. That's a major turn off to me. Not saying I never swear, I most certainly do from time to time.So if any of what I have said here intrigues you, then feel free to say hello. You don't have to write a novella or anything. If I like what you say, find you attractive and I like your profile, then maybe we can establish a rapport and see where it leads.Please post a picture of yourself if you want to talk to me, otherwise I will not respond.Good luck out there, and cheers! Let's chat for a while, and see if we connect. If we do, then we can meet somewhere for a couple of drinks perhaps?

  • Estelle

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Sweet, sassy, genuine and just a bundle of pure hot awesomeness! Here's a little bit of info about me:I am: petite, fun, educated, outgoing, witty, independent, upwardly mobile, stylish, impulsive.I like: travel, movies, dancing, good conversation, dining out, exploring the lower mainland, meeting new people, trying new things, long bubble baths, flirting.I desire: a man who is educated, flirty, charismatic, career-focused, easy going, adventurous, playful, wants to be swept away, doesn't think the best years are over or that love only happens once. Has a healthy state of mind about a long term relationship and what it takes to keep that spark alive. I have: my health, a car, a house, a job, lots of friends, good family.I need: nothing that I don't already have. Have a super night...message me if you are interested in meeting someone new who is super fun, loves to travel and up for new adventures!Ps: I like tall, dark hair & blue eyes...so cute! Ultimately, looks are secondary. I let my heart decide...Contact me if you meet some of my criteria like educated, good career, likes travel, going places with your life, wants to be in a great relationship...we could be a fantastic fit!No psychos who stalk or slam doors in your face and are scary, weird and mean. Please. I do not want casual sex so kindly do not *** if I am interested in that. Let me answer that for you so you don't waste your time and mine: I do not want that. So don't message me for sex, el creepo.I want a real man, who wants a relationship. Ultimately, I would like an exclusive relationship that eventually leads to marriage. If this is you, you should contact me. Thank you. Talk on the phone, see if we click. Meet, in person. Dinner and drinks. A real date.

  • Bridget

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi Guys,I am looking for a companion that enjoys dining and the outdoors. I love all outdoor activities including anything at the cottage or your beach house if you've got one(LOL) I'm very much into boating, water skiing, swimming and of course enjoying the SUN! As much as I love the sun, I also enjoy the snow and winter activities including downhill skiing and hottubbing in the snow! I share a 9 year old daughter that enjoys spending time horseback riding and doing gymnastics.BBQing with good friends and some good red wine is something I enjoy as is good one on one conversation! I love life and live to laugh! I do a lot of walking as my dog needs out and needs his exercise. Being so close to the False Creek seawall is very handy.I have done a fair bit of travelling and am always up for a spontaneous trip away(Vegas or a weekend away). Can't wait to see "O" in Vegas!..it`s patio time!Cheers! Surprise me!

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