SIMILAR PEOPLE
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JannaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Honestly, I couldn't give a crap about how much money you have, or if you own or rent, or what kind of vehicle you drive or how many possessions you own....those are not the things that make a man, a man. It's about the obstacles you have overcome, the lessons that you have learned from them, did they make you a stronger person(I sure hope so) did they make you even more passionate about living and enjoying life? (They should.) Life's to short to let it waste away worrying about how much stuff one can accumulate. You can't take stuff with you when you leave? I want to accumulate memories and leave others remembering me and my adventures rather than the stuff I own. My mom used to say, "make sure you marry a rich man when you grow up" and I used to argue that I didn't want to be with a man that was more in love with money and material possessions than he was with me. And that I didn't care if we lived in a lean-to in the bush, hunting for food...as long as he is strong enough to stand by my side through whatever obstacles we may encounter..., that is the kind of man that will win my heart. Yesterday I was at my local Pet Smart buying a large bag of Purina dog chow for my loyal pet, Biscuit, the Wonder Dog, and was in the checkout line when the woman behind me asked if I had a dog. What did she think I had, an elephant? So on impulse I told her that no, I didn't have a dog, I was starting the Purina Diet again. I told her that it was essentially a perfect diet and that the way that it works is to load your pants pockets with Purina nuggets and simply eat one or two every time you feel hungry. The food is nutritionally complete so it works well and I was going to try it again.. (I have to mention here that practically everyone in line was now enthralled with my story.) Horrified, she asked if I ended up in intensive care because the dog food poisoned me. I told her no, I stepped off a curb to sniff an Irish Setter's ass and a car hit us both. I thought the guy behind her was going to have a heart attack he was laughing so hard.Pet Smart won't let me shop there anymore. *** asked me why I'm still single and I explained that I am too smart to play games, I'm too good to settle for a loser, and I'm too ****ing strong and outspoken for a balless man to *** Invitation(Oriah Mountain Dreamer,Indian Elder)It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.I want to know what you ache for,and if you dare to dream about meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are.I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love,for your dreams,for the adventure of being alive.It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow,if you have been opened by life's betrayals,or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.I want to know if you can sit with pain,mine or your own,without moving to hide it,fade it or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy,mine or your own,if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful,be realistic,or to remember the limitations of being human.It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself,if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see beauty,even when it is not pretty every day,and if you can source your life from its presence.I want to know if you can live with failure,yours or mine,and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the moon,"Yes!"It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair,weary and bruised to the bone,and do what needs to be done for the children.It doesn't interest me who you are,or how you came to be here.I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.It doesn't interest me where,or what,or with whom you have studied.I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alone with yourself,and if you truly like the company you keep in empty *** time and lifeshould come and goI cannot let itpass me by.For if I were a birdI would have to learn to fly.I would have to take a leapand widely spread my wings.The fear would go awayby thinking of wonderful things......such as....a smile, a caress, a kiss...all the little things that we all seem to miss.As I am flying through the airSoaring through the sky...It is than that I realize On my ownI must get by.byCB
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VictoriaOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I know what I am looking for and am hopeful he is out there.I am an energetic, intelligent, down to earth successful woman who is looking for a partner in crime (and no I don’t expect us to steal a car on our first date lol).I’d like someone who can be absolutely goofy with me and not afraid to show his silly side… I have a sarcastic sense of humor and I love love love to laugh and can fire back quite the witty come back most of the time. I am pretty content with my life professionally, financially and socially but missing that special someone to share it with.I am a young 40. My interests and energy keep me younger than my years. I believe in the little things in life. A thoughtful moment can make all the difference. I’m not into the bar scene but I’m always up for a beer and a game of pool, hockey game or definitely a good UFC match at the pub.I love trying new things especially if they stir the butterflies in my tummy. I am looking for someone to share my interests, can make me laugh and isn’t afraid to experience new exciting adventures with me so fasten your seatbelt and enjoy the ride.I am definitely not looking for any drama or a one night stand. I would like to ask if you message me please make it more than 5 words. If you are married or recently separated or divorced I probably won’t respond. I am here to find my soul mate and not here for a rebound…If you have read this so far maybe I have sparked a little interest. Please don’t be shy… Let’s try this and see where it goes…
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LeahOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Lord help me, I must need a break from this site. It's getting depressing. Ever log on and looked at who viewed you feel like you are on the wrong site? Or read some of your messages and all you can do is shake your head? Like seriously, do men even try to win a woman over anymore??? Or does a lil bit of dirty talk count for that now days?I am attracted to YOUNGER men, honest, gentle yet masculine, light colored eyes(not brown eyes), great teeth and smiles, men who physically work and get dirty lol, tall, and good lord, please don't shave your chest lol. I am VERY much attracted to tattoos and piercings, so obviously I'm going to look! lol...And, just like men having to look at breasts, I will ogle (and quite possibly drool lol) when I see muscles!!!!Not sure about the rest of you, but I find this extremely difficult...I mean, I can talk to anyone, but simply going by a picture is really hard for me. I tend to get a 'feel' for people by their EYES, smiles and personality...You don't get that with just a photo...Some people are very photogenic, and then others aren't (like me lol). I don't tend to message anyone first, just not that brave I guess lol.No, I am not normal. Normal is boring ;) Seriously though, I see on many profiles, men say they don't want someone who's crazy...here is a newsflash for ya fellas, Crazy people...DO NOT KNOW THEY ARE CRAZY!!...Currently, I have 16 piercings. I can't see that number getting any lower, but it could possibly grow lol. I finally have my 1st tattoo as well :)I am a mother of four kids, ages ***yes, all from the same father), my kids are my life. With kids ranging from elementary up to one who graduated last year, I tend to be quite busy.I am somewhat of a hyper person, I get huge bursts of energy and have a hard time sitting still at times. Usually this keeps others laughing but I could see how some may be annoyed by it...oh well, it's who I am. And at a hockey game...well let's just say all the kids think I'm the cool one because of my yelling and language LOLI volunteer regularly ***days/week), on Fridays I am the head cook at our local soup kitchen...I love doing this! Bringing smiles to peoples faces is so incredibly rewarding, it's just a wonderful feeling! Other days I deliver breads and baked goods to our soup kitchen and Women's Shelter...And I also do the mending for our local Junior A Hockey Team.I don't 'work' outside the home, this is by choice...I choose to actually raise my kids, this is important to ME and what I feel is right for us. NOT on government assistance either though.I am a very independent woman, I have no issues with wanting a man, but I am not comfortable with "needing" one again...In other words, I can "do" alone fine, I just don't "want" to be alone anymore...It's, well, lonely lol.I believe in complete honesty! Can't stand it when people lie...just be truthful, it really isn't that hard.I have a great sense of humour, (so I have been told lol), it is heavily laced with sarcasm but really keeps people laughing. Making others smile and laugh makes each day worth living!Music...well, this could take awhile...I listen to music ALL the time, and LOUD. I love most types of music except for screamo make your ears bleed stuff, and not much country, tho there are a few country songs I like.will add more later...maybe lol