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Ola, 41

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About Me

Beyond the shell...It is who I am on the inside that really matters anyways. I am smart and sweet. I am very strong on the inside and out. I heard a quote I agree with about vulnerability being the most accurate measure of courage. I value authenticity, genuineness and depth. I am authentic and genuine on the inside and out. I won't even wear gel nails cause they are fake. A friend of mine described it as being practically impossible for me not to be real cause it is not in my psychological make up. I wouldn't say it is impossible, but it is very difficult and it goes against the core of my being. She comes from the corporate world, so I am different from most people she encounters. I am very honest. I mean what I say and say what I mean. I often live in my heart and feelings. I feel things deeply and intuitively. I am a pretty open book and most people know where they stand with me. I think people who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. I am very loyal, tenacious and analytical. I often hear I look around 30. I think that is ironic cause I often feel older than 41 cause I believe I possess maturity, wisdom, depth have lots of life experience. I am probably most interested in someone slightly older if I was attracted to them. The likelihood of a spiritual, psychological and emotional attraction would be higher and when we are all old and ugly someday that will be what absolutely matters. I am attracted to a powerful, attractive, successful gentleman with some substance, values and morals. What am I looking for? I am looking for love. I am looking for my best friend who I can build an impenetrable bond based on love, commitment, trust, respect, friendship and passion. I am not for the faint hearted. I want to grow old together holding hands. I want a forever and ever love. Why is this so hard to find? I love nice suppers and movies.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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