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Sylvia, 43

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About Me

I am a single mom of two wonderful children both in high school. I have them 50% of the time as this is the schedule that makes them happy, getting to see both parents equally. They mean the world to me. I am extremely social and love being around others, but am independent too:) I want to find someone who loves great quality time together, but who also has a sense of their own individual identity and does not rely solely on their companion to make them happy. Someone who is interested in hanging out, getting to know each other, enjoying each other's company and who would be content for the time being to be in a dating relationship. I ultimately do want to find that special someone to spend the rest of my life with. Until my kiddoes get out of high school, I see myself taking things a little slower.I am attracted to men:*** with a sense of humor! Mine I must admit is a little on the punny slapsticky side so this may not be for you. I am a person who believes that laughter can heal the soul. I have been through a lot of things in my life and laughter has always helped me through. *** who are hard workers, who are passionate, and who are givers, meaning that they are kind and have a big heart. I like to get dirty working in the yard, and love to volunteer my time to help others. *** with nice eyes (kind ones:) and a big smile! I am attracted mostly to the person's insides! (This may be in part too because I am a Biology teacher! LOL! And I want you to know it takes a lot of GUTS for me to do this because it makes me a little nervous! )My Goals: To be the best mom I can be. I know, and my kids know, that I am not perfect. We talk a lot about how we communicate. We talk a lot about always being in a place of growth and bettering oneself. Good Communication is very important to me as this was a huge problem in my previous relationships. I want to be a great teacher until the very last day when I retire. At that point, I would LOVE to travel. I love to travel now. I do this as money allows. But I would love to have someone to share this with, seeing different parts of the US and the world.I mostly like all kinds of music - country, classical, pop, rock, jazz, blues, folk, Christian...not into hard metal stuff:)I love to read and LOVE movies. Going out is great but also staying in watching a good flick is great too. Have started doing yoga, like martial arts, and go to the Y- am working on being a healthier person. I attend a non-denominational church.I love Mexican Food, Outback Steakhouse, Slightly Under-Cooked Brownies, Coffee and Pepsi, the smell of Vanilla and a fresh rain, oh and OU Sooners football! I think that a nice first date would happen after talking a bit through texting and over the phone. Possibly getting together for coffee at Starbucks or dinner at a restaurant

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abby

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well, here we are in the fall of ***and I find myself looking ahead to some of the holiday events that are coming up. It would be nice to go out with a partner who wants to explore all AZ has to offer this time of year, including some of those awesome parties, parades, festivals, blockbuster movies that always fill the season!My schedule is crazy busy, so dating someone who understands that and can plan a few days in advance is crucial to a potential relationship. I'm a social butterfly with a myriad of friends in different parts of the city. I also go to school and work odd hours, so I'm most attracted to someone who has their own interests and even a full schedule....a man who understands quality of time holds higher value than quantity of time together ;)I hope to meet someone who has recent pictures on this site, who is secure in who they are, and who has no need for pretense. I steer away from drama, juvenile acts that belong in the frat house, and people who are dependent on other people for their own happiness. Addictions are something I will never understand and I don't want to waste anyone's time, which is why I'm stating all these things up front....let's face it, we've all encountered people who are not what they say they are....integrity is the only path to something lasting in a friendship or a romantic relationship :)Hoping you find what you need from that special woman you're seeking, too!In peace :) A walk around the park. Peaceful & stress-free, just like me :]

  • Harriett

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My guess is that most people have already done most of their pre-screening of a profile by the time they reach this "descriptive" portion. That said, if you're even remotely intrigued... message me. I'm easy-going, have a big heart, am a bit of a wise ass perhaps, and I make a concerted effort to always dignify any courageous messenger with a respectful (or if you're lucky, flirtatious) response. ;)At any rate, I can certainly sing all my praises here for you to contemplate and attempt to dissect...but wouldn't that siphon the fun out of the experience of getting to know each other?No intentions for evasiveness. I just believe an engaging conversation is far more productive than a dissertation. At the end of the day, how I see myself really isn't all that relevant anyway. How you see me will always depend on your perspective, relative to your life experience. And vice versa. Chemistry either enters into the equation and moves things to the next level...or it doesn't. Either way, nothing happens until someone makes a move. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. So...let's connect and see what happens.Worth noting...I have a deep appreciation for unapologetic authenticity, a great communicator, a crazy sense of humor, a passion for life, and a thirst for adventure...Happy fishing! The event matters less than the company. Start with conversation and laughter...if there's a spark, the rest takes care of itself.

  • Bobbie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    i have "jailhouse" tattoos but never been in jail lol, I am at the end of a relationship that lasted way to long, I'm not looking to get laid,i just want to really talk and meet some new friends. I'm 40 not 42. oh and the most important part, if your whole day revolves around how drunk you can get and it's an everyday thing, keep on pushing buttons! I'm not an outgoing, the world is a happy wonderful place kind of person. I'm not fake and don't lie and can't stand to be lied to. if you want my respect you have to give it back. how funny i did all this a year ago and nothing's changed except i'm 41 and i'm fixing to be a grandmother to 4 *** 2 grandbabies. time goes by way to fast to spend anymore of it being unhappy. i want love and romance, i want to feel loved and cared about but i want those feelings to come from a man not somebody that acts like a child. you so have to have a job because i'm not supporting anybody but me and mine. going out to play pool and get to know each other.

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