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Fern, 38

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About Me

I'm a bright girl, with a positive out look. I believe life is to be participated in with a rejoicing heart, it is too easy to give into the gray. And I don't wish to miss any of its brilliance :) ummmm, well I have been single for 5 years and have loved every moment of it....but I'm a girl and was fashioned to experience intimacy.... I have a strong sense of integrity and value that in another. Believe in hard work, and that it brings incredible rewards....not looking to b rescued thanks tho, my da equipped me to face most challenges life has....and my kids have a great father....I don't need ur paycheck I take care of myself cuz i can and that satisfies me so much.... But if ur definition of partnership lines up with mine let's talk....um if it makes me rude, I don't mind pls don't message me and think I'm going to wanna hook up for a booty call, cuz well, as much as sex is phenomenal, I hope for something that is authentic and has substance....LOL, I come from a family that is full of lasting and passionate relationships. My da is still crazy hot for my ma, and they have been that way for close to 40yrs!! I hope to bring to any relationship I experience, a compassionate heart, the support I hope for in return; the ability to admit my mistakes and short comings, and a willingness to be accountable and ask for forgiveness....I am a great communicator, but a better listener. I believe that a relationship requires work, and am willing to invest in that given the right opportunity, the right chemistry, and the partner....;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    There is one quote that I live by & firmly believe in ..." I never chase love, affection, or attention....If it isn't given freely it itsn't worth having !! With that said....I am NOT gonna put alot of BS , I think u get to know the person when u meet eye 2 eye. Anyone can sit behind a pc screen and type and say what the other person wants to hear. But I think a true and trust worthy person will meet up if they r completly interested.Feel free 2 say hello & tell me more about you :DI am going to keep this simple as you never really know someone until you meet them, so I look forward to meeting you. I am easy going, enjoy my life and spending it with the people I enjoy the most in good conversation, laughing and trying new things. I would be described as a happy person who is very caring and brings positive energy to everything I do. I won't list all the things I like to do, but I am active and love to try new things.I would like to meet someone with energy, who is open minded, enjoys conversation, likes what he does, enjoys life, keeps himself healthy, and who enjoys the company of friends. I am an honest person and non-judgemental and appreciate this in a partner as well. I want to meet a man who is also secure in himself and loves himself. Not in an arrogant way, but someone who is very comfortable in his own skin. I have to say I am most attracted to a man who is tall, outgoing, talkative and has energy. Surprise me : )

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a sweet honest fun , down to earth girl who will try anything once.I enjoy going to the gym , walkes , going to starbucks, putting on my heals and dancing,or chilling out with a glass of wine. If your only looking for a one nightstand, then I'm notthe girl for u..... Going out to dinner, or a drink somewhere quiet, having a workout partner is always fun.

  • Renee

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm charming and appreciate being charmed. (Look me in the eyes and engage with me.. smile.. make me laugh..make me comfortable.. Make me fall for u ;) I work hard, but have a flexible schedule..love my career. I am a few extra pounds and a little more, no bikinis for me :/ ever.I like a guy that is big and tall, so I feel small... But ultimately I'm looking for someone to connect with.. On a friend level and maybe more eventually. I am not looking to get married, but i would like to be in a committed relationship with the right person ;)I can ASSURE u that I will NOT sleep with anyone casually.. So pass me up for sure if that's why u stopped here* *also I don't like loud or obnoxious guys who do stupid stuff for attention(such a turn off !!)For me to 'date' someone w no car isn't an option... U have to be able to come see me!! I want someone who is completely financially able to take care of themselves.. If we decide to meet for a date, please take pride in how u present yourself..I can tell if u dont and its insulting when i just spent an hour or more trying to look my best for u...Be clean... I am attracted to a clean guy w/ nice jeans and a tshirt (hat) .. not into guys who dress better than me!! Not judging. Im pretty simple, really..I'm from the south and appreciate the mind set of my fellow country boys.If u are interested in getting to know me,Message me :) **i don't bite. Usually. I will probably be nervous so a hug and a drink would be a nice start... Hugs. Flirting.!!! ;-) nice charming CLEAN smile..no dirty/rotten teeth(I had to say it)Positive attitude a must. Optimistic ;)Checking your phone occasionally is normal.. I cant stand when Someone is in a serious relationship w their phone... ESPECIALLY if we are spending time together. Focus on me please. Respect. Public place.

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