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Tessa, 37
United States, North Carolina, Monroe

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About Me

Look into my eyes, what do you see? Not just the colour, look inside of me! I am so much more than could ever be described in a few sentences. To know and appreciate me, you must experience all that I am, all that I encompass and all I have the potential to be :)I am a free spirit, outgoing, generous, intelligent, motivated, respectful, knowledge seeker, loyal, trustworthy, affectionate, passionate, sensual, sweet, seductive, uncontainable, patient, loving, charismatic, blunt, funny, stubborn, expressive, filled up with overflowing happiness and irrepressible joy. I feel with my mind, body, heart and soul. I have absolutely no regrets in my life, I view every experience positive or negative as a learning experience and growth opportunity.I do not seek a soulmate (you have to convince me they exist), I do not seek perfection. I am not seeking someone to complete me or my life, I am whole. I am seeking a best friend, my other wing, a partner, the love of my life.Friendship, trust, mutual respect. You are pure of heart and character. You are at peace with your individuality, as I am with mine. You are invested in the constant pursuit of personal growth and development in this life journey. You are able to challenge me mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. You do not allow cancerous people to infect your life. You are affectionate and expressive. You do not believe success is measured by money. You value friends and family. You have strong morals and values. You chase your dreams and are able to encourage your partner to as well. Allow me to discover the depth of your soul. Let your natural energy intertwine with mine.BE TRUE, BE YOU! SHOW ME WHAT MAKES YOU, YOU! Take the chance, you will be glad you did! :) Most likely drinks/ tea/coffee and just the right amount of time to see if there is a connection or if we should politely disperse :)Update! If you are on here looking for a booty call, please don't contact me. Serious inquiries only!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Korean Turkish Golf
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