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Melisa, 38

United States, North Carolina, Monroe

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About Me

Hi there! Being a private person and putting information out there is out of my comfort zone - so bear with me and ask if there's something you'd like to know. Let's see; I love being in a relationship, yet I'm perfectly content to wait for the right one to come along. I love going out and having fun with someone special or a small intimate group of friends, yet I equally love being at home relaxing and recharging - if I have someone special joining me - great! I understand and value the importance of chemistry in a relationship and if it's not present you have no foundation to grow upon. I love exploring the world and its offerings, exploring myself, and all the simplicities life offers. I thrive with a respectful, family-oriented gentleman and enjoy the differences we each bring into the mix. Taking the time to get to know one another, spending time together, laughter and building a friendship. While I love experiencing common interests and new adventures with someone special, I enjoy exploring my own activities and hobbies and feel you should always maintain your own interests - in a relationship it hands you the gift (and resulting appreciation) of missing one another. I am kind, thoughtful and very aware, very intuitive. I often prefer listening and absorbing over speaking (enjoy your company and environment - silence can be golden!), yet I enjoy extensive conversations when they're stimulating (I didn't say I was a mute :) I have opinions and beliefs and will express them). I'm known to have a sharp tongue, playful wit, a sarcastic side - I'm not as serious as I look :) While I love many elements of a relationship, I always seek quality over quantity. I'm not a serial dater. I seek one man, not a parcel of them. I'm perfectly happy going out and creating my own fun and happiness with friends or on my own until the right man comes along - it is a great way to relax and reflect, yet I love the company of someone special :) Good luck to you and happy fishing! Hopefully lots of laughter, good conversation - so somewhere not too loud (I really do want to hear and talk to you!) and anything else that allows two people to express who they really are, no false pretenses or illusions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Comedy Crime Horror Sci-Fi Thriller Watching Sports
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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