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Melisa, 38

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About Me

Hi there! Being a private person and putting information out there is out of my comfort zone - so bear with me and ask if there's something you'd like to know. Let's see; I love being in a relationship, yet I'm perfectly content to wait for the right one to come along. I love going out and having fun with someone special or a small intimate group of friends, yet I equally love being at home relaxing and recharging - if I have someone special joining me - great! I understand and value the importance of chemistry in a relationship and if it's not present you have no foundation to grow upon. I love exploring the world and its offerings, exploring myself, and all the simplicities life offers. I thrive with a respectful, family-oriented gentleman and enjoy the differences we each bring into the mix. Taking the time to get to know one another, spending time together, laughter and building a friendship. While I love experiencing common interests and new adventures with someone special, I enjoy exploring my own activities and hobbies and feel you should always maintain your own interests - in a relationship it hands you the gift (and resulting appreciation) of missing one another. I am kind, thoughtful and very aware, very intuitive. I often prefer listening and absorbing over speaking (enjoy your company and environment - silence can be golden!), yet I enjoy extensive conversations when they're stimulating (I didn't say I was a mute :) I have opinions and beliefs and will express them). I'm known to have a sharp tongue, playful wit, a sarcastic side - I'm not as serious as I look :) While I love many elements of a relationship, I always seek quality over quantity. I'm not a serial dater. I seek one man, not a parcel of them. I'm perfectly happy going out and creating my own fun and happiness with friends or on my own until the right man comes along - it is a great way to relax and reflect, yet I love the company of someone special :) Good luck to you and happy fishing! Hopefully lots of laughter, good conversation - so somewhere not too loud (I really do want to hear and talk to you!) and anything else that allows two people to express who they really are, no false pretenses or illusions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Christina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Let's travel the world and back again laughing so hard our stomachs hurt. Outdoor adventures are calling us! How much beauty can we stand? I want to see all of the beautiful places and things drawing inspiration from every corner of the earth (including the local ones). Let's take action, say what we mean, and be all of who we are in the moment and live a life without regret or fear. For what else do we have but the moment? We have a series of moments building a life. The time is now to live life to the fullest. Care to join me? I would like to make some new friends and see where that leads. Perhaps a companion will surface that shares a strong friendship, wild/passionate attraction, intellectual stimulation, and hilarious adventures...I think outside of the box pondering new ideas and concepts. If an idea inspires me I will explore it. I welcome the chance to be creative and learn something new. I am making efforts to be more moderate, relaxed, subtle and calm. My natural inclination is to be a type- A goal oriented thrill seeker. I tend to be unconventional, irreverent, and unimpressed by authority and rules (even my own at times). I am equally as interested in exploring the depths of realism, tranquility and harmony as the outer realms of adventure. Incredibly perceptive and intuitive and always open to inspiration and change. I do my best to make a positive impact and have been involved in world projects. I care about others and notice when something small could be so big to someone else. A kind word at the right time to the right person, a small gesture, some valuable time, a hug, or a smile can really make a difference and each person can turn around and shine on others making the world a better place. Drawing and painting is a passion of mine. I am a lover of beauty and create it whenever possible. I live for creative ventures of all kinds: thoughts, ideas, art, making up new ways to do things, inventing things, new recipes, trying new things spontaneously, as well as fully enjoying the moment. I smile and laugh allot making up silly songs, poems and jokes. I'm energetic, active, affectionate, blindly optimistic, and extremely creative. Who knows where this will take us but I am sure it will be a great adventure. There is always a fresh perspective, new experiences, and more moments to create now… Whatever inspires us at the time.

  • Chasity

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    These things are generally hard to fill out....what does one say? I am a happy person who always sees the glass as ***full. I like to laugh and have a good time but I like to be serious as well. I currently work for an insurance company for what seems like a long long time. I'm pretty easy going and like to try new things. I love to travel, mostly cruises or to the beach somewhere. I have been to the islands quite a bit but never far outside the country, would love to go to Europe someday. I enjoy going out, but I also like quiet evenings at home. I like to do karaoke, bowl, play pool, or just sit around and listen to music, or get up dance to it as well. I like to read and I prefer escaping into a fiction novel, any type of genre.....I like them all. When it comes to music I like about everything, no country please. Thanks for taking the time to check out my profile. I wish everyone luck out there! It's a given...the normal, somewhere where we could go to have a nice conversation and get to know one another. I like the man to choose however.

  • Sadie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I love nature and beauty in any form - music, art, love, logic, and many, many others. I am happily busy with 4 kids, a great job, and many things I love to do. I like music, dancing, and talking to intelligent people. I tend to be a bit introverted and prefer quiet places over noisy ones. At the same time, I'm easy to get to know, very open and honest. I've been told I'm engaging and welcoming and have a great laugh.I've listed a lot of interests, some I have more knowledge and experience in than others. Astronomy, for example, I know very little about, but love to have someone share with me what they know. I have a great smile and give wonderful hugs. I am a bit geeky, notice I am a computer programmer by trade and it fits well. I am adventurous, I like to try new things and new places. I laugh when I'm nervous. I laugh when I'm happy. I laugh when I'm surprised and for all kinds of other reasons. In other words, I laugh a lot. But a rich laughter, not the high, giggly, annoying kind... Lol. I am intelligent and have a wide variety of interests.Spirituality and personal growth are an important part of my life. I'm very open-minded and like people of that mindset. Several people have asked me to define open-minded, so here's an explanation of what I mean. To me open-minded means I haven't already decided what I think about everything and I don't feel a need to cling to my opinions and defend them. I remain open to hearing new opinions, new information and allowing that to influence my thoughts on life or on a particular topic. I also think open-minded includes an acceptance that my way isn't the only way or necessarily the best way, a willingness to let myself and others be as they are. Of course I don't embody these values perfectly or all the time, but they are very important to me.Current goals - Being more present with my kids when they're with me, getting fit, spending more time with family, making new friends.Current books I'm reading - Daring Greatly by Brené Brown, Love Does by Bob GoffMy preferences in men - I tend to like intelligent, open-minded men. Age and race don't matter. I like men who are talkative and knowledgeable. I can be talkative sometimes, but not always, so I like a guy who can carry the conversation when I'm feeling quiet. I also love a guy who can stop talking and really appreciate something beautiful in nature. An open heart and someone who is honest with himself, as well as others is also appreciated. :-)THIS IS IMPORTANT - I'm looking for friendship. No pressure on things going anywhere, at any pace. Friends are good to have and I've been that fool who rushed in one time too many. Hopefully at some point one of my new friends will become something more, just not until after we know each other well. If you're okay with that and find my profile of interest, please say hello!

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