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Betty, 36

United States, North Carolina, Monroe

Offline, last seen Mon, 10 Aug 2026 22:15:42

About Me

I am moving to the area the end of October. I have no idea where to begin to meet locals. I am looking to meet great people who are professional and not looking for someone to take care of them. (that should eliminate the moochers right off the bat) I am college educated, witty, and a natural born smarta$% to say the least and definitely need someone who can keep up with my sarcastic ways. Yes I was raised to be quick on my feet and can honestly say I shock myself by my wittiness sometimes with what comes out of my mouth. ;) All in all I am looking for all the same things as some have written on their profiles (or maybe not, maybe I should have read a few first) Looking for honest, genuine (be yourself nobody likes to find out they have been dating Peter the conservative single dad of two with a great job and sparkling personality only to find out after about three months later he is a psycho crazy nut with an extensive criminal record....oh yes and I WILL find out), you must be a man of integrity, only accept a man who can be FAITHFUL Meaning I do not share my man and am against playing with others. My kiddos are and will always be my #1 priority so if that bothers you please move on now. I am straight forward and sugarcoat absolutely nothing, so if you can't handle the truth don't ask me the question.--> I am a single mother of two who lives 100% completely drama free and my kids are with me at all times.(which mean if you are looking for someone who sends their kiddos away to their matching DNA's house every other weekend, I am NOT your girl) ;)--> I am employed and normally work an average of ***hours a week, so if having a woman in your life that does not need you but would like to have you in her life bothers you, I again am NOT your girl. I depend on nobody but myself...I never let myself down.--> I am ALWAYS 100% faithful in every relationship I have ever been in and expect the same. I believe if you are unhappy then the person should tell the other and then move on.--> I enjoy going out to listen to good music, having a drink here or there, going to the movies. I don't get out much now but am definitely looking to change this.All in all I am a very giving person who puts 100% into any relationship I have ever been in. I was raised old school ways where I "take care of my man" I cook, clean, and maintain my household all while still bringing in my income and taking care of my kiddos. I give a lot so I do expect the same in return. If you have someone who does this for you I would think one would show that they appreciate it, but sadly some just take advantage of it. I want the one who appreciates it and refuse to settle anymore.Ok so if you are still reading this and are interested in getting to know me more, send me a message and lets see what happens.Talk to you soon!Sadly I must add this as some responses I have received are ridiculous. Please if you feel the need to respond and message me with anything like "Dam u fine" or "What u like in the morning" please just keep moving. I am not here for a one night hookup nor do I choose to be with someone who cannot string a proper sentence together using the basics of the English language. Thanks for understanding.NEW ADD---> I understand we are all entitled to our opinion BUT this is HUGE!! If you have ever, still do, or even think our current "President" is ok, good, or doing a great job--->DO NOT CONTACT ME!! We will NEVER see things from the same point of view I PROMISE!! Yes this seems trivial to some....and those are the ones I want to avoid because they will never understand it. Again if you support OVOMIT and his Ovomitcare and think he is wonderful in any way shape or form I AM NOT YOUR GIRL! Move along...Thank you for your understanding. Oh and if you feel the need to send me your rant and rave I will not even entertain it I will just block you. This is not a racial thing either as I only date black men and my children are both bi-racial...this is simply a sure fire way to make sure we will see things from the same point of view. Thank you! Open to pretty much anything accept a movie for a first date, after all there is no way to chat and get to know one another in a movie. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

Looking for

man
Relationship

Divorced
Have kids

No
Wants kids

Someday
Ethnicity

Caucasian
Faith

Christian
Body type

Curvy
Height

5'5"
Eye color

Blue
Smoke

No
Drink

Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Pop German Turkish History Mystery War Archery

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