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Cathleen, 40
United States, North Carolina, Monroe

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Dec 2025 00:14:42

About Me

Hello, I am a from LA/ Southern Ca. I am just out here trying to make a connection with someone. Its kind of like finding a needle in a haystack lol and im quite sure most of you know what I'm talking about. Lots of people I meet just dont want relationships anymore these days and honestly I don't get that. call me a hopeless Romantic I guess. I enjoy good times with friends and family, road trips, and fun adventures. I am very honest and straightforward, but once you talk to me and meet me in person you will notice that fairly quick. I like the outdoors to a point, but am more of a city girl. I do find a certain serenity in nature that is very nice. So lets see if we have chemistry, compatibility, and you know a little something. my likes: comedy sitcoms, tv, movies, movie references, ocean, red wine, fish, chocolate yum!!, beverages, dogs, animals, change in seasons, fall leaves, snow covered mountains, flowers, new technology, music, kissing, dancing even if I look silly, and anything new and different.I am hoping to find a mate for life if we match up in every way. The three C's, Compatibility, Chemistry, and Companionship. I think that's right at least sounds good to me. I think humor, good values, and honesty is very important. I am ***percent ready for love!! I do take my time though of course. So if you want to know anything else just ask. Ciao!! Oh and one more very important thing.. Selfish Users, anyone wanting only FWB, or guys that know darn well I'm way too old for you STOP contacting me. And COME ON guys don't be afraid to get my number. I am not interested in a pen pal buddy.. I want to meet in person rather quickly to see if there's chemistry and anything else. On a first date I would like to well do anything really.. examples would be: dinner (being the traditional good date for conversating), hiking or outdoorsy date, wine tasting, bowling, pool, concert, really whatever we feel like doing. I love being surprised!! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Animation Martial Arts Music Snowboarding
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