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Jodi, 40
United States, Pennsylvania, Mechanicsburg

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About Me

A little about me...Wow, they really want to know everything in such a little box....My passion in life is to really be happy. To know how it feels to be appreciated and loved.What makes me a great partner? That's a good question. I am loyal, and forgiving, and everything in between. I am vulnerable and willing to admit it. I can sometimes admit when I'm wrong. I am a strong independent mother, and want to have fun again.; it's really how you ride the waves. I am a fun, outgoing, loving, energetic, very affectionate, passionate, giving, mature, playful, and open-minded. I’m compassionate and affectionate, also a hopeless romantic. I know there are a lot of things to do out there and I am looking for someone to do them with. I believe you get what you give in a relationship, or you should. I believe in communication and honesty. (I'm not a very good lair).About the one I'm looking for...What am I looking for? Who knows-there are so many different people in the world with different qualities and values. Putting down in words the things I want in a partner seems so difficult. I want someone who is proud to be in their own skin, one who can play "verbal racquetball" without hurting, who can be sarcastic and fun and not afraid to love or be loved. I’m an outdoors person, I love to camp, fish, and ride my ATV’s, or jumping in my motor home and takin off.I don't have any specific things I'm looking for. I guess I’ll just feel it when it's right. I'd just like to add...That I am spectacular! Just ask anyone who knows me! I use humor for everything. If you can't laugh even in the painful moments in life, you'll lose your mind.( And having a "wonder woman" cape helps, the wrist band things are even better LOL).I’m looking for someone to be around and have a good time with, someone that loves to laugh and knows how to take a joke. Life's too short to take everything so serious. Someone who has a good sense of self, and doesn’t lie (always a bonus). I don’t like to play emotional games. I'm spiritual but don't see religion as a reason for not trying new things. Just to be clear and honest with people, I am in the middle of a divorce and so I am not looking for anything serious right now. We have been separated for several years, and it's time to move on with our lives. Something normal and age appropriate.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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