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Zelma, 37
United States, Illinois, Skokie

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About Me

No, not really - I just thought I'd make my profile unique by saying the opposite of what everyone else is saying!!!Now that you're here, why don't we get better acquainted?!I have been separated for 2.5 years and have spent the bulk of that time getting to know myself, to heal and to grow into a better me. I've dated somewhat but nothing serious...So what kind of woman am I? I`m sweet and kind, strong and confident. I am classy, funny and chill all at the same time AND - get ready for this - I am emotionally healthy and financially stable (not wealthy, I just own my own vehicle and I manage to pay my utilities on time)!!! I love life, I love my two very amazing and wonderful teenagers (did you see how I used "wonderful" and "teenagers" in the same sentence?), and I want to have some fun and meet new people! I would like to meet someone of the male persuasion with whom I can enjoy a glass of wine or dinner or maybe a coffee in a nice little cafe. I want to have intelligent conversation and some light-hearted laughter with someone that I can come to call a friend. Anything above and beyond that is just pure luck (and I am sincerely open to the possibilities!). Chemistry is what will get you through the friend-zone!!!What kind of guy are you? You are a kind, attractive gentleman who is emotionally, spiritually and physically stable and healthy. Your life and loves have taught you to become the man you are meant to be and you aren't bitter but grateful for what life has brought you through and where it has brought you to.Thank you for spending a couple minutes of your valuable time on my page, I look forward to hearing from you! An evening beverage in a pub or afternoon coffee, then we can plan date #2 with a little more creativity!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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