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Deana, 39
United States, Illinois, Skokie

Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 15:44:40

About Me

Know what you want, and go out and get it.I'm a firm believer that it's the little things that make up the true fabric of who we are. Everybody can pull it together for a grand gesture, but it's how you are on your off-times that show your true nature. I would describe myself as an adventurous and outgoing person, but I also have a shy observant side. I am happy with who I am. I'm not looking for somebody to complete me, but rather to complement my life. I love my job, my family, and my friends, and would love to spend time with somebody who is equally happy in their life. I will not settle and I don't think anybody should. Life is too short to be miserable. I am me, and you are you, that will always be true, and it's great to spend time with people who appreciate that. I have been told that I am very funny and have a great sense of humor. One of my favorite things in life is to giggle until I snort. Ya, it'll happen. A few key things I look for in a partner:- You're fit and have an athletic build but you don't live at the gym- You're happy with who you are as a person- You are confident in yourself but are not arrogant- You have a great sense of humor but know when to be serious - You're between ***if you're any older I'd hope you look hot for your age***You will say more to me than just "hi" or "how are you finding this site". If all you're going to say is "hi" don't expect a response. - You're cheeky and witty and can hold your own in a great conversation - You're confident in yourself but are not arrogant - You're not allergic to cats - If you're somebody who "want kids" please know that I am leaning more to the side of "not for me" on the "undecided/open". If you have kids I'm cool with that.- Not looking for a commuting relationship - if you have no photo, or the only ones are from super far away (aka - can't see you), then don't expect a response. Or if there are 5 people in the photo, a great idea is to note which one you are! I have clear photos of me, I expect the same of you. Some food for thought:There's a reason on a flight they tell you that in the event of an issue to put on your own oxygen mask first before helping others. You won't be very helpful to anyone if you can't breathe. I follow this theory in my own life. If you're somebody who thinks this is selfish, then we will NOT be a match. If you happen to still be reading (bonus points), then note that while my profile says "date but nothing serious", if the right person were to walk into my life that could be a different story. At the end of the day, a relationship for me is about "wanting" one vs "needing" one. Good luck out there! casual drinks and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Spanish Thai Adventure Mystery Western Dirt Bike Racing Pets
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