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Iris, 39
United States, Illinois, Skokie

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About Me

Life can be complicated and I'm looking for someone to make it a little less so...First and foremost, I am a mom to two pretty fantastic kids who keep me busy with sports all year round, so finding someone who understands my time constraints is necessary. I share custody of my children with my ex and he and I have an amicable relationship - you must be understandng of that also. So who am I? I spend my days at a job I love and my evenings and weekends are a pretty good balance of fun and relaxation. I am athletic and can/will play most sports - but be careful, I'm pretty competitive! I love a great patio on a warm summer night, that first cup of tea in the morning and spending time with friends and family. I'm up for most anything once so long as the company is good. I have a good sense of humour, am often sarcastic and I'm not easily offended by the same. What am I looking for in a guy? You've got a job you love but that doesn't control your whole life. You're not afraid to choose the restaurant. You think kissing is a conversation, and you like to talk. Ultimately, you think your already-pretty-great life is better when shared with someone and you're not afraid to put the effort in to establishing and creating a relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Cricket Dirt Bike Racing Golf
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