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Ashlee, 36
United States, Illinois, Skokie

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About Me

I'm not on some quest to find perfection, I know it doesn't exist. I don't have a list of criteria for my perfect mate (lol, not even gender), because ultimately its not about them... It about me and the qualities another person can evoke in me. I have come to understand love and relationships can either bring out the worst in people or the best. I would like to meet someone who can bring out my best! My mate will have to be patient, nonjudgemental, and very understanding. I am broken, but I'm not looking for someone who can fix me or expect me to change. I love the person I am, exactly how I am! I'm a sag to heart! I fit every profile of a sag, so of you wanna know about my personality... Read up! I tend to get bored easily, life should be an adventure! But the search for adventure can lead to danger. And my sense of self preservation can be a bit askew. I tend to charge ahead with little thought to consequences. I guess, I'm looking for someone to balance me. I need someone in my life that can offer excitement and entertainment but can also act as a voice of reason and at times save me from myself. I am my own worst enemy. I am honest to a fault. Most people say they want honesty, yet very few can handle it. I have a dark past, be careful that you really want to know something before you ask. i never worked in a candy factory and i don't sugar coat shit! My life is my life and I can't change it. I am broken, I am confused, I am flawed... I am beautifully human! I wish I could say my dedication to honesty is because I am a good person. However, the honest part of me has to disclose this is not the case. I just don't care enough about anyone else's opinion to lie. If the truth hurts... So be it! If it makes someone not like me, we probably shouldn't be friends. If it hurts your feelings than its probably something you should think about. But be sure I will be completely honest about myself! I will tell you the worst about myself openly and freely. It is a mojor time saver and helps eliminate individuals that could never understand me. My theory is, if someone can handle the worst of me, they may be able to experience the best of me. This probably isn't the usual profile. And if your looking for a calm, sane, passive woman who knows what she wants and is on the path to a prefect life... I'm not your girl! But then, that girl probably isn't on this site trying to meet people! LolI am broken, confused, flawed... And beautifully human! I don't know what I want or what I need. I have no clue what I'm looking for. But I want to enjoy looking for it!No pic, no response! No exceptions! No I won't give you my # or *** can send one. If you want someone to talk to you... Show yourself! No romance on the first date! Romance=pressureI want to have fun, not worry about hurting someone's feelings if sparks don't fly. If its fun, chances are I'm gonna want to do it again!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Drawing / Painting Playing Cards American Chinese Irish Mexican Basketball Shooting Sports
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