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Brandy, 39
United States, Illinois, Skokie

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About Me

I am into the show cat circuit. I have two pedigreed Persian cats that I show regularly.I like rock n roll music...I've been listening to a lot of Korn lately...I have some tattoos...last weekend I got a new one. It's a black kitty cat on my neck, behind my right ear...I really want someone I can talk to about everything. I need my man to also be my best friend. Also, I feel like I should be upfront about my policy on kids: I have two, but they are 18 and 22. I do not wish to get involved with a man who is a single dad or has kids under 16.Here are some positives to dating me (I think):I'm old enough to know who I really am. I won't be changing on you down the line...I also understand men in my age group are who they are by this time too. In other words, we need to like each other for who we are.I've learned to let the little things go. I mean that, in the grand scheme of things, so much little crap that people fight about doesn't even matter.I'm smart. I keep up to date with what's going on in the world. I watch the news, I research things I want to know about. I'm a good listener and a good conversationalist.I know that it's important in a relationship to treat the other person well. I'm very thoughtful and I always consider my partner's feelings. I would like to have an event planned, nothing big but an activity we can do while getting to know each other and talk. Dinner is always a good, safe first date. NOT A MOVIE-- I wanna talk and get to know you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Skiing French Greek Mexican
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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