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Brandy, 39

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About Me

I am into the show cat circuit. I have two pedigreed Persian cats that I show regularly.I like rock n roll music...I've been listening to a lot of Korn lately...I have some tattoos...last weekend I got a new one. It's a black kitty cat on my neck, behind my right ear...I really want someone I can talk to about everything. I need my man to also be my best friend. Also, I feel like I should be upfront about my policy on kids: I have two, but they are 18 and 22. I do not wish to get involved with a man who is a single dad or has kids under 16.Here are some positives to dating me (I think):I'm old enough to know who I really am. I won't be changing on you down the line...I also understand men in my age group are who they are by this time too. In other words, we need to like each other for who we are.I've learned to let the little things go. I mean that, in the grand scheme of things, so much little crap that people fight about doesn't even matter.I'm smart. I keep up to date with what's going on in the world. I watch the news, I research things I want to know about. I'm a good listener and a good conversationalist.I know that it's important in a relationship to treat the other person well. I'm very thoughtful and I always consider my partner's feelings. I would like to have an event planned, nothing big but an activity we can do while getting to know each other and talk. Dinner is always a good, safe first date. NOT A MOVIE-- I wanna talk and get to know you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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  • Cristina

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    As we get older its harder to meet someone. I find most ppl I meet are so set in there ways that they are comfortable and not wanting anything serious. I have 2 kids that are older. Im easy going and not scared to speak my mind. If there is something you want to know just ask.....pls dont msg me if you are over 40. And if you dont have a picture I wont reply. If im not interested or receive inappropriate msgs I will not reply either. Also dont msg me if you dont know what you are looking for. If you are looking for just a FWB search profiles where woman are looking for that....cause Im not the one !

  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am the kind of person that finds joy in the simple things in life. I like to go walking in the park, go to movies, go biking in the park, go to the zoo or aquarium, travel, go to coffee shops or book stores, try new foods and explore new restaurants, go to shows (symphony, theatre, ballet), go to art museums, go to amusement parks, swim, go to beach or water parks etc. I'm not into the bar scene at all, so if you like to do that even in the slightest bit, don't hit me up. I am an artist/musician/poet. So I really would like to continue to grow in those areas, write more music, write more poetry, play more music (I play the cello), draw and paint more etc. and continue to be more creative in my artisticness. I am also a music teacher, so I want to continue to make a difference in the lives of children.My personality is very laid back. One of my favorite things to do is laugh. I don't like to take life too seriously, life is too short. I am very genuine, what you see is what you get. I am also very compassionate and tender hearted. I can also be very passionate when I am talking about something that is very important to me. I am single, never married, no children. I definitely want kids someday. I am also a very devoted Christian, don't *** you don't have the same commitment to Christ. If you don't go to church, don't write to me. Church is a weekly thing for me, and a priority and I won't date someone who doesn't make it the same priority. One of my favorite things is to worship the Lord through music. And to all you guys who keep commenting on how women put pics up from 10 years ago and they are misleading. I promise, all my photos are recent and I do look like the person in these pictures. I will say, I am not a tiny petite person though (like the tiny models out there). I do have curves.I have to say this- are there no more men out there that pursue women anymore?!?!?!?! I am NOT going to be the one to call you and ask you out. I am NOT going to pursue you, so go find another woman that has no self respect or worth and has to cling to her man and constantly call him. Sorry, but I'm not that woman. If you want to go out with me, you'll have to be a MAN and GENTLEMAN and PURSUE! I will not chase after a man. I want to be a woman that respects her man and supports him, but that has to be earned, and I can't wait to respect the man that makes the effort to earn my respect and love and adore me the way a woman should be. Please do not *** you smoke- even occasionally, do drugs, are into porn, or are over 42 years of age. I am so tired of getting *** men that could be my dad! Please, I haven't waited 34 years to find a man who is the same age as my dad or grandfather. Also, if you ***, and I don't respond, I am not interested. My time is precious, so I can't respond to everyone. I like Jazz, Christian contemporary music, and gospel, and classical.I wish all of the best and hope you find your right person. :) To me, the first date is all about getting to know someone. So on the first date, I think its important to talk to each other, whether its at a coffee shop or restaurant. The more exciting and adventurous dates can happen later once you've gotten to know each and decide to continue dating. I'm not dating to waste time anymore.Also, do not ask me to have a one night stand or quick hookup. I am not here to do that. So pass my profile up if that's your intention. I've made it clear what I am here for, but you must read my profile!Also, if you don't keep your word, don't bother contacting me either. One last thing, you guys that have your shirts off on your profiles, its actually a big turn off. Please don't *** you have your shirt off. Most women are not visually stimulated like men are. You guys that have your shirts off on your profile don't know women very well. You are not turning us on like you would be if you saw a woman's cleavage or anything sexy on her body. We just aren't made that way. I don't care what your shirtless body looks like, I want to know who are as man intellectually, emotionally, your personality etc.

  • Tami

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Well!... It's been a while. Summer kept me WAY too busy with work, and functions with Family/friends. Even snuck away on an awesome holiday with my daughter, for the last week.So, here I am. Back once again... I still don't have a lot of free time but am confident that I will find a man with a schedule that meshes with mine, lol. I am available most Friday evenings, and most Wed/Thursday afternoons.I'd like to think of myself more of a hopeFUL romantic but... ( I don't see that option listed in the personality setting) LOL!I hope to build a relationship with substance; Find a mature, confident, respectable and respectful partner. Hopefully develop the romance over time. My priority is raising my daughter. I don't smoke, or do drugs. I have a good job, and work full-time. I am self-dependant and just looking to meet new people;see what happens down the road. I am a positive, enthusiastic person. My glass is almost always half-full; never empty.If you tell the truth, (to others as well as to yourself) are confident and believe in yourself and what you are doing in life, take care of your children and yourself, work full-time, are self-dependant, don't smoke or do drugs, know how to treat a woman, can communicate well and are decent to your ex(es), drop me a line. (If you believe that all of your exes are bipolar however, perhaps you should spend some time on your own, look within.)Actions speak louder than words, and honesty is simply the best policy, IMO. I am looking for a good man, whose glass is half-full for the most part (I understand we all have the odd 'bad' day of course) Not too much to ask, right???If you think we would get along, drop me a line. Only one way to find out... Coffee?!? (somewhere public)Until then, good luck and happy fishing!!!

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