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Ethel, 38

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About Me

I'm a hard working mom with two boys who are the center of my universe. That being said, I would like to get out of my comfort zone and start meeting some new people. I've been single for a year and in that time I have done some soul searching ( me time ) and feel like I am ready to date again.What else can I add.... I love music ! Mainly R&B, neo soul and pretty much anything 80's. I prefer local coffe shops over Starbucks, I don't text and drive, nobody should. My favorite sport to watch is boxing unless I'm watching my son play basketball. I'm honest, faithful, determined, driven, passionate in the things I believe in, and I have a wicked sense of humor. Meeting at a local coffee shop for some great conversation would be nice.I guess I need to add the following: I am not here to " hook up ", and no I will not meet up to snuggle, cuddle etc; I'm sure that if that is what you are looking for , you will find that elsewhere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Angela

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    About me huh, I tend to lose my filter when it comes to sarcasm and saying what I'm thinking. I love taking Bart. I am an avid people watcher and there is more than enough to entertain me on Bart everyday. I have great children from my previous relationship and still great friends with their father. I love to be outdoors as much as possible.....when it's not raining. Doesn't look we'll have too much rain this year.I hate to talk on the phone. If there is something that needs to be said I'll pick up the phone and talk for ***minutes and then I'm done. If words don't need to be exchanged then I'll send a quick text or wait until I see them in person. This goes for everyone....friends, family, colleagues.I'm a coffee addict, I can finally admit it. It's a sickness and have tried to seek help but there just isn't anything out there for us addicts. I drink it from the time I get up and can have my last cup at 11:00 pm and fall fast asleep. At least when I can sleep. I do have nights where I don't get to sleep until 2 am and up at 6 am for work the next day.I don't eat a lot of sweets.....I'm more of a savory....salty person.I have pros and cons just like you. I'm just able to admit mine.Pros: Ambitious, charismatic, cheerful, determined, dynamic, energetic, enthusiastic, honest, independent, ***, outgoing, passionate, self-confident, strong-willed, versatile.Cons: Aggressive, competitive, hot-tempered, impatient, impulsive, indiscipline, stubborn, over-organized, skeptical.I work, alot. I am one of those people who actually like their job. It's nothing I thought I would ever get into but have been in the field for over 10 years and enjoy it. It's fast paced and ever changing.I am really good at finding lost keys, tripping over cracks in sidewalks, pressing limits, remembering useless numbers, going on tangents, listening, aging gracefully, retaining useless knowledge, walking backwards, drawing stick figures, saying the alphabet backwards and at times forwards, solving the world of simple IT issues at work. ;) I up for a lot, just as long as it's not boring.

  • Raquel

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I Think Its Time For An Update...Let Me Start With....If Your Married Or Have A Girlfriend...Please Move On. If You Want A Hook Up Or Fwb I'm Not Interested. With That Being Said.....Its Hard To Talk About Myself On Here.I Am Looking To Date And Hopefully Meet My Best Friend. I Want To Find That Person That I Can't Wait To Talk To And See. Someone Who Gives Me Butterflies Every Time I Think About Them. I'm Over The Games And Drama. Let's Face It, I'm Not Getting Any Younger. I'm Not In A Rush Nor Will I Settle, But I'm Tired Of Wasting My Time. I've Played The Game And I've Learned A Lot. I Have A Lot To Offer The Right Person. I'm An Open Book. If You Have Questions Please Ask! A quick coffee or drink and see where it goes from there.

  • Kelli

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Friendly, Humanitarian, Honest, Loyal, Original, Inventive, Independent and Intellectual are some words to describe me. Exciting and unpredictable, yet somehow strangely detached. I have an eccentric personalities. I love trying new, unusual, and challenging, things which leads me in many directions. I am philanthropic and humanitarian by nature. I love trying to make the world a better place for all of us. But I'm not averse to risk taking. Their optimism and positive outlook, combined with idealism and the need to break new ground leads me into quite unfamiliar territory--not that this bothers me. Compassionate and sympathetic to the needs of others, I do like things to go my way. Freedom to roam and explore is all-important. I hate to be tied down. In love I am very passionate and romantic. One of the deepest needs is for a satisfying, complementary relationship, which gives me freedom and tolerance along with mental and physical stimulation. Unlike many, I rarely feel any pangs of jealousy. I can be very playful and attentive lovers if I feel physically aroused and attracted to you. Passion is what makes me feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. I need Intimacy. Which would be developed through sharing and very good communications over time. Intimacy is what makes me want to share and offer emotional and material support Commitment is what makes me want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. I am patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers. I am calm, secure and un threatened. Love is an upper. It makes me feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but also to have something to live for. Things I look for.....Honest: "If he says he'll call, be there or not date other women, he calls, is there and remains faithful." Supportive: "He's always pointing out the good things about me but he loves me for my faults too." Funny: "He MUST have a good sense of humor!" Caring: "He must remember to kiss you throughout the day."Sensitive: "Sensitivity is key, but not to the point of being wimpy." Loving: "He should be able to kiss away all his woman's pains and still manage to send chills down my spine when he does." Goal Oriented: "He should know what he wants and go for it. For example, my perfect man wanted me and got me!" Handsome: "Good looking is important, but inside as well as out!" In touch with his feminine side: "He will watch Charmed with me and not make sarcastic remarks." Financially Stable: "He doesn't have to be rich, just financially responsible." Fun: "He should be fun, exciting and somewhat spontaneous." Independent: "He should take care of himself, mentally, physically and spiritually" Cuddly: "He should hold you in bed at night when you are cold and not pull away even though he is sweating to death." Good to His Mother: "He shouldn't cling to his mother's apron strings like a momma's boy, but he loves and respects her very much. My mother always said you can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats his mother.";Must be willing to ask A perfect date is only in my mind. Now if a guy can create it without me telling him, then that's is something. But really, I would like the guy to pretty much have in mind what to do or where to take me on the first date. I like a man with some kind of control. And the date may not go as planned sometimes...but if I'm having a great time...and he's having a great time...that's good enough for me.

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