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Alfreda, 39
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

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I'm a simple person, no drama. Love life, love my job, love my family, love my friends. Prefer to smile and enjoy each day. For sure a glass half full kind of woman. I don't like to be around negative people who complain about everything and suck the fun out of life. We ALL have issues and problems. How a man handles his problems can be the biggest turn on...or off!!!!! I put 100% into everything I do, at home, at my job, with my family and friends, and I expect the same in return. Integrity is very important to me. I will leave it at that. Oh, and no Mitches, lol.Food for thought:1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her.2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others).3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity.4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line.5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants.6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important.7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available…11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t. As a shy person I hate first dates. Anything can be fun if the company is good though. Just don't make me feel like I am at a job interview, that sucks. If you break out a list of the ***things you want in a woman I will get up and leave for real.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Martial Arts Music Sport Boxing
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a casual kind of girl...I prefer jeans and flip flops to heels and dresses any day and you will find me in a dive bar playing pool or throwing darts before you'll see me in a club. I love to laugh and have a relaxed good time. I'm not perfect by any means and im looking for someone who accepts my mistakes and my bad days (we all have them) and to them none of that will matter.....lets remix this business:) lol Something casual to talk and see if the vibe is still there in person:)

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Trying this again!! I would love to be in a happy, healthy relationship again with the right person. That is my goal. At my age i'm being more selective because i want to go out with the right guy not going on a million dates with the wrong ones. Communication is a must!! Yes i have tattoos and a couple piercings so if you have a problem with that so sorry! I say never judge a book by it's cover. I'm a very laid back chill girl yet fun at the same time! I like to go out to the bars on occasion. What's life without a lil fun crazy bar action every now and again. I'm in my 30s but i look young and have great genetics. I'm always told i look like i'm in my 20's when people meet me in person. I'm a good girl and looking for a wonderful guy to spend my time with. I want a man not a guy that is overly sensitive about everything. If i wanted to date a chick i would become lesbian. I'm not looking to date anyone with kids. No offense if u have them but I've been down that road already and it's difficult. I'm a die hard Bears fan. Family is super important to me and it has to be also with whoever im with. If you're gonna message me please make sure you have clear recent pics and not wearing shades so i can see your eyes and face i mean lets keep it real it's all about attraction first!Anyhow im keeping this short and sweet anythin else you wanna know just ask =)Also guys save the cheeseball pickup lines for a different girl...lol seriously!

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  • Yesenia from Petersburg | Woman | 36 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    **Just letting you know right from the beginning I am NOT looking for sex or a 1 night stand!****Even though the full body pic in the blue shirt was taken in May the other pic of me in the tank top is a pretty good description of what my body looks like! I'm joining a gym soon.**Hi There! I recently purchased my 1st house but I haven't moved in yet. I'm in the process of turning it from a house (an empty shell) into a home. I'm looking forward to moving in and being a first time homeowner. I'm an only child and I don't have any extended family. My Grandparents have all passed away and I don't have any Uncles, Aunts or Cousins. My Mom passed away unexpectedly in ***. She was my very best friend. My Dad is the only family that I have left. Right now the majority of my time is spent with him. Lately, he has been in and out of the ICU and Nursing Homes. What I miss the most about not being in a relationship is having that companionship...someone to do things with. I don't like going out to a restaurant or to a movie alone. It's very lonely having to do those things by yourself. I really don't even have any female friends to go out and do stuff with. I wish I did. I enjoy many different activities such as but not limited to...going out to dinner and the movies, going to amusement parks, comedy clubs, concerts, going to hear other people sing karaoke (I'm too shy to get up in front of other people and sing. I only sing in the car and in the shower), hanging out with friends and other couples, playing cards and board games, staying at home for a quiet night just watching a video, traveling and going on weekend road trips. Not saying that I won't go to a bar and have a drink with you but I'm not looking for someone who drinks constantly. I don't know how to dance but I might be willing to learn...or not. By the way, if you can cook that is a huge plus and you can move to the front of the line. I don't know how to cook but I really want to learn!I love kids and I want to be a Mommy more than anything else in this world. I went to college for Child Psychology and Journalism but I want to go back to school to get my degree in Nursing so I can become a Psychiatric Nurse. I love my Bunny Rabbits and Chinchillas. They are my babies and my heart!Just to let you know I tend to be shy when I first meet new people. If you are looking for someone who is a size 0 keep on looking. I'm not super skinny...I don't have a flat stomach and gravity has made the top half of my body not look the same way that it did when I was younger. I'm just me plain and simple. I plan on joining the gym by the end of this month. I want to be able to wear those cute outfits and feel sexier about myself. I'm a hopeless although I like to say hopeful romantic. I would like to meet a man who is also a hopeless romantic. When I am in a relationship I like to do special things for the person that I am with such as leaving little notes in their pocket so that they find them when they get to work or calling/texting them just to say hello and hear their voice. It would be great to find someone who also enjoys doing little things for the person they are with. I would like to find someone that I can have a conversation with about any topic. And I want someone who can make me laugh. I am definitely looking for a man who in the future wants to get married and have a child. If you don't want children then I am definitely not the right one for you! The man of my dreams is someone with a good heart who can make me laugh. Someone who understands that I'm sensitive and emotional at times. Someone who isn't too sarcastic. I'm getting better at taking a joke but I still tend to take things to heart. Someone who appreciates the little things in life. Someone who loves kids. Obviously you have to have chemistry in order to be attracted to that other person. Right now I'm just looking to make new friends to hang out with. I truly believe that the best relationships always start from a good friendship. I am not on here looking for sex or a 1 night stand or friends with benefits!* I would really to like to hear what you have in mind for a 1st date. A perfect 1st date is when the guy shows up on time with a red rose and opens the door for me. I'm old fashioned that way! I'm open to pretty much going anywhere for a 1st date since I like to experience all types of things and every situation is different. However, I really don't think going to a movie is a good idea unless you go to dinner first or afterwards because when you watch a movie you aren't able to talk and get to know each other.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Let me know if I sound like someone you might be interested in or if you would like to know more about me. I look forward to hearing from you soon!*

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