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CandaceOnline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone." ~Audrey HepburnWant to feel butterflies again...I am looking to meet friends first and if a relationship develops even better. I believe a relationship is like many things and you get out of it, what you're willing to put into it. We reap what we sow... Without proper care and feeding, failure is inevitable. I am very calm, easy going and laid back. I get along well with just about everyone. I'm the mother of two, wonderful sons. They live with their father but spend holidays and part of the summer with me. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for bad boys but only from an image perspective. He must be successful in his chosen career, responsible, and open to a committed relationship if it reaches that point. I am not interested in hooking up or flings. I'm serious about finding someone charming, fun, witty, with a great sense of humor to share life with. If you aren't on the same page, keep looking... & Good luck to you. :) I enjoy going places and trying new things. Life is too short to waste time not living it. I enjoy reading, traveling, cooking, dining out, live music, going to the beach, walks in the park and spending time outdoors when the weather is nice. I like to have fun, period and that is more about who you are with than what you're doing usually. :) Aspirations: like to own/ride a Harley & Ha!Thank you for taking time to read my profile if you are interested in getting to know me.... Please let me know. If my profile offends you then you don't get me at all.., it says more about my sense of humor than anything. ;) p.s. I'm kind of a stickler for spelling and grammar. If you need an editor, I'm your woman. Ha. If you can't spell your profession, same thing... I know spell check doesn't catch it if you spell manager m-a-n-g-e-r so check it twice! :) Manger is what baby Jesus slept in. I know, I'm hardcore, right? Ha. My mom says don't correct people, it's rude & they hate it but I just can't help myself... These things jump off the page and scream at me. I corrected my English teacher in college! p.s.s. if you have shirt off, bathroom pics... It could be a deal breaker. Definitely don't want to see certain things in the background. Ha. If you're showing off tattoos or muscles... I'm not impressed... I'm more impressed with what you have to say, how well you entertain me, & whether you can make me laugh, keep me laughing and are willing to do what it takes to make me happy. If you are the one, no other woman will love you more or treat you better than I will. That is a promise... p.s.s.s. if you are discussing what you and others did or are doing or creating a caption for a pic of you and others... Here's the thing about whether it's I or me... Forget about the others and say the sentence without them. (i.e. This is a picture of my sons and I. Is this grammatically correct? NO! Why? ...because without them in the picture... This is a picture of me. NOT - "This is a picture of I.") If you totally get what I'm saying and think I'm an angel for it... You could be the one! Ha. One last tip, I before E except after C and in words like sleigh, weigh, height, freight... See the pattern here? "eigh." Don't get all defensive and feel the urge to curse me out in a message that contains all kind of errors either. If you don't see the humor in this or get it then we would not hit it off... I'm sorry. I won't really check all your messages. Haha. Don't be surprised if I make mistakes sometimes too... I'm human. ;) I'm speaking in generalities here. ;) I'm open to anything really... Coffee, drinks, walk in the park or downtown. It would be nice if it is a relatively quiet place so we can chat. I do enjoy being taken out for dinner! Jack Fry's is my favorite restaurant but I also like trying new places too. Comedy clubs & live music are great too!
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CherieOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
So after a few *** thinking that I really do need to put some information on this so I can weed out some of the stupidity. I am:* A constant work in progress* A devoted, responsible dog owner ( not being afraid of big dogs is a PLUS in my book!)* Loyal and honest- atleast I try to always be. Although if you are looking for perfection... keep fishing!* Open to all kinds of new adventures! No fear of heights, new foods, being in a room full of people I do not know, loosing at any sport or game ( I do not always have to win to have a good time, ) will try anything before I say no. I am not:* Interested in seeing naked pictures of you.(Atleast not at first :) )* Open to the idea of "open relationships"- once a friendship has evolved to a sexual relationship.* Your mother or your ex-girlfriend,ex-wife etc.* Going to be available at a moments notice. I am not just sitting and waiting for anyone to call. I am a "make plans" kind of person.*Interested in being a mother to your children. Or becoming a mother.* Looking for someone that needs me more then I need them. I am looking for: A man who will compliment my life not complicate it. I dont need you to pay my bills, fix my car, protect me at night, etc. I just want someone that makes the good things in life even better. I would have to honestly say that I am a good woman who can appreciate all that a good man is willing to give. Friendship has to be where it all starts. Ask me! Let's talk about it! That dinner and drink thing that EVERYONE seems to put on here just sounds so boring. So I would have to say that any first date that requires some thought would be pretty fun! This dating/hanging out thing should be fun! I don't need an expensive date to be happy. But I would appreciate some creativity.
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AlfredaOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I'm a simple person, no drama. Love life, love my job, love my family, love my friends. Prefer to smile and enjoy each day. For sure a glass half full kind of woman. I don't like to be around negative people who complain about everything and suck the fun out of life. We ALL have issues and problems. How a man handles his problems can be the biggest turn on...or off!!!!! I put 100% into everything I do, at home, at my job, with my family and friends, and I expect the same in return. Integrity is very important to me. I will leave it at that. Oh, and no Mitches, lol.Food for thought:1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her.2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others).3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity.4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line.5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants.6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important.7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available…11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t. As a shy person I hate first dates. Anything can be fun if the company is good though. Just don't make me feel like I am at a job interview, that sucks. If you break out a list of the ***things you want in a woman I will get up and leave for real.